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Coby Vibes wrote: »secure and non posseive and controlling. that's why it's mostly white people. black dudes are too insecure and immature
the couple I know that does it is a black couple... -
? don't bring that white is right ? into this otherwise civil discussion
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Coby Vibes wrote: »secure and non posseive and controlling. that's why it's mostly white people. black dudes are too insecure and immature
false, its becuz black women are mostly ?
their mindset is kudos, but their thought process all ? , look what you said
men are men, all men behave the same, you have some that are as you described and some that are not and race is not the issue
ask the average white chick that messes with black men why she does, and she'll say cuz white men are controling and insecure
it don't work in black couples relationships cuz thats not how blacks were raised, white folks have had this being part of their culture as far back as history dates
same explanation for black men being players, dates back as far as Africa, when black men were allowed to have mutiple wives -
How can you love someone and be devoted yet have relations wth another person?
Easy....he loves, honors, and cherishes his wife. There is nothing that she can't ask or request of him. The other woman is something to do, something to keep the spice in their bedroom. And it works for them. It keeps them close, and they have an amazing bond.? don't bring that white is right ? into this otherwise civil discussion
Haute...*smile* This is why you will never lose.... -
Coby Vibes wrote: »so why dont people just google and youtube it so they can understand rather than speculating amongst people who really dont know how it works. understanding comes from learning from people who live it... not just speculating with people just as uninformed as yourself.
uhm this is a message board, your supposed to ask question on here and discuss things.
There are some people on the board who practice polyamory, polygamy, and other forms of non traditional relationships.
So with that yes some of these post will be speculating but some of the post will be from people that do know first hand. -
Is that girl sucking her nipple @ Chi???
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How can you love someone and be devoted yet have relations wth another person?
Just because you have sex with someone doesnt mean you love them, and just because you love some one doesnt mean your sex with them will be good. -
Coby Vibes wrote: »secure and non posseive and controlling. that's why it's mostly white people. black dudes are too insecure and immature
Thats a tad racist, dont ya think? -
hummingbird wrote: »Just because you have sex with someone doesnt mean you love them, and just because you love some one doesnt mean your sex with them will be good.
we have none of these issues -
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hummingbird wrote: »Just because you have sex with someone doesnt mean you love them, and just because you love some one doesnt mean your sex with them will be good.
I agree, but you arent very devoted in this case -
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I agree, but you arent very devoted in this case
how so? I dont think people really understand the definition of devotion. They often confuse it with worship -
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hummingbird wrote: »of course not lol
nice shirt...cuffin season is it? who you cuffin? -
Oh, to be a fly on the wall.... LOL!!!!lol what's up
lol tell her babe, that can be arranged. -
nice shirt...cuffin season is it? who you cuffin?
bwahaha. thanks its from Ling's line.
toysldrs.com -
hummingbird wrote: »lol tell her babe, that can be arranged.
Y'all are crazy HAHAHAHAA!!! -
hummingbird wrote: »lol tell her babe, that can be arranged.
yes...yes it can be arranged -
hummingbird wrote: »how so? I dont think people really understand the definition of devotion. They often confuse it with worship
You can use it in terms of an ardent affection or dedication to a person or a principal......So you can be dedicated to a person while stickin the next lady? -
Y'all are crazy HAHAHAHAA!!!yes...yes it can be arranged
lol he makes sure I get what I want tho ;-) -
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You can use it in terms of an ardent affection or dedication to a person or a principal......So you can be dedicated to a person while stickin the next lady?
I believe you can.
IMO sex can take places with no feeling, dedication has feeling. :unno -
hummingbird wrote: »I believe you can.
IMO sex can take places with no feeling, dedication has feeling. :unno
So youd give ya S/O a pass for this?
