Molding a chick or finding one with ur values already
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NoNameNeeded
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Which one do you think is better fellas? To kick it off i don't really think it matters... But would you rather mold a girl to be more in tune with what you want or do you think its better / more worth it to find one who is on the same plane already
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which ever one lickin my ? first
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defiantly a fine female thats already on my level.. less work involved
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in my opinion its alot better to mold a girl.....and also let her mold you in the process that way yall grow together rather than search for years for a girl that meets your extensive list of qualifications.....
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Both, no such thing as finding a woman that is already completely what u want I don't believe that ? .
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Both, no such thing as finding a woman that is already completely what u want I don't believe that ? .
truth.com.... -
Flip the question and I would tell you that I need my man fully equipped and already assembled. This somewhat reminds me of Perfect's thread. Why would I want someone who isn't the type I need? Why would I get with someone I want to change? Makes no sense.
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find one on the same plane already
if she's willing to be "molded" she doesn't have any values for herself already
if you wanna mold someone, have a baby -
? that ?
i dont want a project -
plus the minute you ? her off
shes just gonna revert to what she knows
case en pointe: amber rose
so you just wasted all your time housebreaking this ? and cuz you yell at her, she ? all over your carpet.
uh, no -
alot of yall are getting it twisted thinking its some kind of brainwashing ? in any serious relationship people mold each other, of course yall are gonna have alot in common but nobody is gonna be anybodies perfect mate. so yall learn from each other and grow together whats wrong with that?
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alot of yall are getting it twisted thinking its some kind of brainwashing ? in any serious relationship people mold each other, of course yall are gonna have alot in common but nobody is gonna be anybodies perfect mate. so yall learn from each other and grow together whats wrong with that?
Growing as a unit and learning from each other together is completely different than constantly having to direct the other and teach them how to act. It's not at all the same. -
alot of yall are getting it twisted thinking its some kind of brainwashing ? in any serious relationship people mold each other, of course yall are gonna have alot in common but nobody is gonna be anybodies perfect mate. so yall learn from each other and grow together whats wrong with that?
"molding" implies creating something definite from something without form
a sculptor molds a shapeless piece of clay into a beautiful vase
can you mold a lost hoe into a bad ? ?
prolly, but she'll ? up eventually.
growing together is a completely diff. process and implies a mutual effort & willingness to learn & change from BOTH parties -
"molding" implies creating something definite from something without form
a sculptor molds a shapeless piece of clay into a beautiful vase
can you mold a lost hoe into a bad ? ?
prolly, but she'll ? up eventually.
growing together is a completely diff. process and implies a mutual effort & willingness to learn & change from BOTH parties
aight i feel ya. -
I don't thinkyou can mold anyone literally. you have to already have similar values the "molding" kind of comes with learning eachothers likes dislikes pet peeves learning how to work together etc imo
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I rather have someone with an open mind and willingness to grow. It is possible to mold a person. Some women don't know how to diet and exercise properly. ? you put her on the right track and you can get her from 200lbs to 135-140lbs. She knows she's smart but don't know how to apply it? You put that encouragement/pressure/goal setting expectations on her and watch her succeed. Some ppl just need direction because they never had someone in their life to guide them.
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NoNameNeeded wrote: »Which one do you think is better fellas? To kick it off i don't really think it matters... But would you rather mold a girl to be more in tune with what you want or do you think its better / more worth it to find one who is on the same plane already
the same way I'd hate a woman trying to "mold" me I'm sure a woman would hate me trying to "mold" her...the ? I look like "teaching" a grown woman how to be in a relationship? she ain't no damn child -
If she's not already on your level you'll be molding her forever ya heard me... I don't have time to mold a grown ass person like their my child! So her being on my level is best.
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You can never change a person. Just supress what is always there. And it never works.
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You can never change a person. Just supress what is always there. And it never works.
What I came to say -
some good people just need that one person in they life to change their perspective....if a ? thinks there is no way he can fall in love, and finds a girl that actually brings him that ability how is that a negative?
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Little of both cuz ya'll gonna have to adjust to one another over time, and with that time ya'll see if it's a good fit
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Grow togather, something that's a finish project don't have room to grow. But a person with similar values is a good start, but much more is needed in a relationship
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defiantly a fine female thats already on my level.. less work involved
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"molding" implies creating something definite from something without form
a sculptor molds a shapeless piece of clay into a beautiful vase
can you mold a lost hoe into a bad ? ?
prolly, but she'll ? up eventually.
growing together is a completely diff. process and implies a mutual effort & willingness to learn & change from BOTH parties
iunno once a chick gets use to a certain lifestyle she might not wanna go back.
my homeboy once was ? with this dime who was ? broke ?
and my boy put her up on five star restaraunt and shopping spree type lifestyle
even after my homie replaced her to her she still only ? with ballers
she aint going back to mcdonalds. -
a Man should already come complete..
a ? is to be molded to his liking..
im jus sayin...