Ladies, what does we are on break mean?

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think
think Members Posts: 687
edited May 2011 in The Powder Room
From what I've witnessed and experienced, it always leads to breaking up. The women is slowly checking out of the relationship.

Is this always true? If so, why do you need to call a break and not just end it there?

Are girls ever genuine in wanting a break to think things out?
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  • dwade206
    dwade206 Members Posts: 11,558 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ...she ? someone else but she tryna to let you down easy so you don't catch a case wit yo crazy ass
  • Yummy.Lix
    Yummy.Lix Members Posts: 1,398
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    I don't think it means she's slowing breaking up with you.I think it
    means she just needs some "me," time. She might be feeling too
    suffocated or maybe things haven't being going good in the
    relationship lately.
  • dwade206
    dwade206 Members Posts: 11,558 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Yummy.Lix wrote: »
    I don't think it means she's slowing breaking up with you.I think it
    means she just needs some "me," time. She might be feeling too
    suffocated or maybe things haven't being going good in the
    relationship lately.

    ...? please, stop lying to these ? b
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    Yummy.Lix wrote: »
    I don't think it means she's slowing breaking up with you.I think it
    means she just needs some "me," time. She might be feeling too
    suffocated or maybe things haven't being going good in the
    relationship lately.

    Instead of taking a break, why don't she just communicate this with her man?

    IMO, you're either in a relationship or not. If you can't handle the pressures of being in a relationship then you're out. There shouldn't be no middle ground. Life is hard and so are relationships.
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    dwade206 wrote: »
    ...she ? someone else but she tryna to let you down easy so you don't catch a case wit yo crazy ass

    I've seen a lot of this happen, but I wanna hear from some of these ladies and their rationale. I think it's plausible that they could be genuine in taking a break.
  • dwade206
    dwade206 Members Posts: 11,558 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    think wrote: »
    I've seen a lot of this happen, but I wanna hear from some of these ladies and their rationale. I think it's plausible that they could be genuine in taking a break.

    yeah aight ? , you on that "I dont wanna know" Mario Winans ? my ?
  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Yummy.Lix wrote: »
    I don't think it means she's slowing breaking up with you.I think it
    means she just needs some "me," time. She might be feeling too
    suffocated or maybe things haven't being going good in the
    relationship lately.

    this ^^^ or "im ? "
  • Trollio
    Trollio Members Posts: 25,815 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    im ? and i dont want to feel bad about it
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    this ^^^ or "im ? "

    If it's "i'm ? ", why do you call a break instead of breaking up? Is it to see if grass is greener on the other side? Why can't you just break up and then do the ? so you don't hurt the guy?
  • BiblicalAtheist
    BiblicalAtheist Members Posts: 15,668 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    A break time is that brief pro/con stage before hittin the road, just need a break to make sure.
  • 1of1
    1of1 Members Posts: 37,468 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    dwade206 wrote: »
    yeah aight ? , you on that "I dont wanna know" Mario Winans ? my ?


    Read this in RZA's voice/slurred speach. LMMFAO!!!
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    A break time is that brief pro/con stage before hittin the road, just need a break to make sure.

    Thank you.

    And again, I'll ask, why can't she just do this during the relationship? Is this some kind of ridiculous formality or title that needs to be done?
  • BiblicalAtheist
    BiblicalAtheist Members Posts: 15,668 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    think wrote: »
    Thank you.

    And again, I'll ask, why can't she just do this during the relationship? Is this some kind of ridiculous formality or title that needs to be done?

    Females second guess themselves, a break gives them perspective. More like a necessity sometimes.
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    Females second guess themselves, a break gives them perspective. More like a necessity sometimes.

    I can understand that since females are emotional and all.

    So would you say that a "break" is always a precursor to a breakup or are there very rare exceptions?
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    Young-Ice wrote: »
    If she has to rethink the relationship then she might as well end it right there

    No saving, but what's wrong with people needing to rethink and reevaluate things?

    All this should be done during the relationship. A break is just ridiculous and disrespectful to the relationship.
  • BiblicalAtheist
    BiblicalAtheist Members Posts: 15,668 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    think wrote: »
    I can understand that since females are emotional and all.

    So would you say that a "break" is always a precursor to a breakup or are there very rare exceptions?

    Depends how skewed her mind is. She could turn out to be one of those crazy ? that throws your ass out everyone other week cuz she 'needs her space' lol. But I think if things came to the point of takin a break, he should be seriously evaluating the relationship at that time to. Is she really what he's looking for, how compatible are they sexually, is she enough woman for him and all those good things.
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    Depends how skewed her mind is. She could turn out to be one of those crazy ? that throws your ass out everyone other week cuz she 'needs her space' lol. But I think if things came to the point of takin a break, he should be seriously evaluating the relationship at that time to. Is she really what he's looking for, how compatible are they sexually, is she enough woman for him and all those good things.

    Your last couple posts make me think you're in your peak. Just saying haha.
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    Young-Ice wrote: »
    this is why.

    there is nothing wrong with thinking. think all you want. But if you need that person temporarily out of your life to do this thinking you already have your damn answer.

    Yeah I was trying to compare this to other situations. Like if you're burned out from a job, you get away and take a vacation. You get in a fight with a brother, you stay away and cool off for awhile. You get into a car accident, you don't drive for awhile.

    But it seems that in a relationship there can't be any breaks.
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
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    [QUOTE=Yummy.Lix;2508454]I don't think it means she's slowing breaking up with you.I think it
    means she just needs some "me," time.
    She might be feeling too
    suffocated or maybe things haven't being going good in the
    relationship lately.[/QUOTE]

    Meh. Can't she have "me" time while together in a relationship? I guess I just feel that a relationship does not have to be this cage you are locked in as so many feel it is. That you should still have room for "you." A "break" shouldn't have to be taken for this to happen, this should just come with the territory of working together even when not directly under each other.
  • b@squ1@t redux
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  • ptnutz
    ptnutz Members Posts: 1,717 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Sounds like she's seeing someone else and wants you to be in standby in case it doesn't work. If a woman told me we are "on break" I would tell her, see ya then. Usually women like this are constantly playing games and not worth the headache anyway.
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    Young-Ice wrote: »
    Dont try to change my opinion with your logic!


    When you put it like that, a 'break' does seem logical. However, in those instances, you are free to browse and even test drive new cars + jobs. On a break with a woman, you are not. You are put in 'relationship purgatory" which is honestly ? .

    True enough, a relationship is monagamous where as cars and jobs, you can test anywhere.

    Good post, props you mothercanucker.
  • think
    think Members Posts: 687
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    deadeye wrote: »
    Until they see you with a bad ? and suddenly want you back after you've already moved on.

    It's funny huh? You always have to keep women alert and on their toes. Once things become complacent, things start to sour. Maybe that's why bad boys get good girls?
  • babafryo
    babafryo Members Posts: 679 ✭✭
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    if my woman says we need a break there is very little chance of us ever getting back together. i hate indecision and i hate sugar coating
  • icollaClizina
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