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DEE-LICIOUS
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Have you ever watched a loved one die? How do you handle that?
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I saw a relative die. I didn't really do anything special about it.
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Do you mean like, violently, as in seeing your son get hit by a car, or do you mean like watching a relative with a terminal illness finally succumb?DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »Have you ever watched a loved one die? How do you handle that? -
Are you talking about your Aunt Dee? I'm sorry your going through that pooh. Just stay busy yo.
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watched my pops body my moms..... ? ass cops stood over her while she tried to catch her breath in a pool of her blood and just let her leak out
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DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »Have you ever watched a loved one die? How do you handle that?
yea watched my uncle (godfather) die of cancer.... he was 6'6 300 lbs and was like 170 when he died.... he had kidney cancer.... when his kidneys stopped working the fluid was just filling up his body... it was terrible and scary as ? .... he had legs the size of tree trunks and the rest of his body was skin and bone... and his skin was yellow.... its tough to deal with when it happens like that especially when they are too young to go.... but thus is life... dont hold back emotions, let that all out and youll feel better about it as time goes on -
watch my aunt pass when they disconnected her from the life support. i couldn't even stay in the room as her heart rate started goin down. ish was hard.
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darkone360 wrote: »watch my aunt pass when they disconnected her from the life support. i couldn't even stay in the room as her heart rate started goin down. ish was hard.
damn........... sorry to hear that -
Ain't got ? to say to death except "not today"
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Yea...I'm haunted right now. Can't even sleep or anything.Are you talking about your Aunt Dee? I'm sorry your going through that pooh. Just stay busy yo.
man...this is exactly what I'm seeing. Verbatim.yea watched my uncle (godfather) die of cancer.... he was 6'6 300 lbs and was like 170 when he died.... he had kidney cancer.... when his kidneys stopped working the fluid was just filling up his body... it was terrible and scary as ? .... he had legs the size of tree trunks and the rest of his body was skin and bone... and his skin was yellow.... its tough to deal with when it happens like that especially when they are too young to go.... but thus is life... dont hold back emotions, let that all out and youll feel better about it as time goes on
this is crazy...damn. definitely sorry u had to witness that. I'm hoping I'm not around when she passes. i literally cannot deal with just this part of it. I'm being haunted by her image all day which makes me wanna sleep and dream instead of being awake all damn day. This is so crazy. I keep wishing reality was a dream...darkone360 wrote: »watch my aunt pass when they disconnected her from the life support. i couldn't even stay in the room as her heart rate started goin down. ish was hard.
yo...are you serious? I don't even want details...sorry to even make you THINK about something like that. That's just...wow. just wow. RIPshawnbrown wrote: »watched my pops body my moms..... ? ass cops stood over her while she tried to catch her breath in a pool of her blood and just let her leak out -
saw one of my best friends get thrown from his bike. wasnt speedin or doin nothin crazy. when i ran up on him he had his eyes open and blood was pourin out his nose. he wasnt talkin and everybody was over him jus tellin him to hold on breath its gone be ok. his breaths jus kept gettin slower and slower and his eyes started kinda flickerin and slowly they jus closed and i saw my ? take his last breath.
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DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »Yea...I'm haunted right now. Can't even sleep or anything.
man...this is exactly what I'm seeing. Verbatim.
this is crazy...damn. definitely sorry u had to witness that. I'm hoping I'm not around when she passes. i literally cannot deal with just this part of it. I'm being haunted by her image all day which makes me wanna sleep and dream instead of being awake all damn day. This is so crazy. I keep wishing reality was a dream...
yo...are you serious? I don't even want details...sorry to even make you THINK about something like that. That's just...wow. just wow. RIP
yeah that was my 1st time watchin somebody pass. my aunt was there for me & my sis after our mama passed 21yrs ago. she had a stroke. went into a coma. never woke up. that day was mucked up. the only where i actually shed tears other than my mama's funeral, was that day. -
shawnbrown wrote: »watched my pops body my moms..... ? ass cops stood over her while she tried to catch her breath in a pool of her blood and just let her leak out
damn bruh. that would muck me up for LIFE!!! man i can't even fathom the pain u went thru. -
Yo real talk, i never thought I could forgive my father but 16 years later we write each other back and forth. I realize that If I could get over something as horrible as that, then there isnt much that can bother me yo. Im not sayin im Superman but it gave me strength I never thought I had to get over other ? in life.darkone360 wrote: »damn bruh. that would muck me up for LIFE!!! man i can't even fathom the pain u went thru. -
shawnbrown wrote: »watched my pops body my moms..... ? ass cops stood over her while she tried to catch her breath in a pool of her blood and just let her leak out
I can't even imagine what it would be like to watch someone you love die right in front of your eyes. Losing my friends when I was younger was bad enough but to have seen it right in front of me would have been traumatizing. -
there's a guy here who stands on the seat to ? I kid you not.
saw his feet leave the ground once and not come back down for at least two minutes at least. so I lurked around the office outside the bathroom and ID'ed him when he walked out cuz I just had to see who the hell this work of art was.
balding russian. lives in brighton. tried to get me to come over drink vodka and play chess once. then got all ice grill on me when I was like "sounds great" and never brought it up again. -
b@squ1@t redux wrote: »there's a guy here who stands on the seat to ? I kid you not.
saw his feet leave the ground once and not come back down for at least two minutes at least. so I lurked around the office outside the bathroom and ID'ed him when he walked out cuz I just had to see who the hell this work of art was.
balding russian. lives in brighton. tried to get me to come over drink vodka and play chess once. then got all ice grill on me when I was like "sounds great" and never brought it up again.
yo this ? posts be having me dyin -
shawnbrown wrote: »watched my pops body my moms..... ? ass cops stood over her while she tried to catch her breath in a pool of her blood and just let her leak out
? was they supposed to do? unstab the ? ? They cops not medics.
get ya mind right ? , your country needs you -
DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »Have you ever watched a loved one die? How do you handle that?
Just came to terms with the fact that their suffering was more painful to watch than them not being here overall.... -
b@squ1@t redux wrote: »there's a guy here who stands on the seat to ? I kid you not.
saw his feet leave the ground once and not come back down for at least two minutes at least. so I lurked around the office outside the bathroom and ID'ed him when he walked out cuz I just had to see who the hell this work of art was.
balding russian. lives in brighton. tried to get me to come over drink vodka and play chess once. then got all ice grill on me when I was like "sounds great" and never brought it up again.
yo! ? is hilarious... -
shawnbrown wrote: »watched my pops body my moms..... ? ass cops stood over her while she tried to catch her breath in a pool of her blood and just let her leak out
Got damn that's crazy b, sorry to hear about that -
i was there when my grandad had the heat stroke that later killed him.... that ? still ? with me.... the ? people at 911 thought i was lyin.... they said " kids need to stop playin on the damn phone".....
i was there when my sister died......
i was playin when i found out my uncle got shot..... -
Yeah. When I was 9 years old 1 of my best friends was shot in a drive by. We were walking home from school w/ his older brother & stopped by the basketball courts around the corner from where we lived. His brother was talking to some guy so I went to the store acroos the street to get a soda. While I'm in the store I hear gunshots & tires screeching & I come outside & see his brother screaming all crazy. I run over there & he was laying on the ground struggling to breathe. I knelled down beside him & held his head up to try to help him breathe while his brother was screaming for someone to call 911. He died right there in my arms. I'm 24 years old it still ? w/ me to this day.
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yea watched my uncle (godfather) die of cancer.... he was 6'6 300 lbs and was like 170 when he died.... he had kidney cancer.... when his kidneys stopped working the fluid was just filling up his body... it was terrible and scary as ? .... he had legs the size of tree trunks and the rest of his body was skin and bone... and his skin was yellow.... its tough to deal with when it happens like that especially when they are too young to go.... but thus is life... dont hold back emotions, let that all out and youll feel better about it as time goes on
my grandfather passed the same way, it was rough -
my favorite aunt passed of pneumonia. she was sick and her daughter kept telling her to go to the doctor. well, when she finally went, but it was too late. her lungs filled up with water and it was a wrap.
that was back in 2002.
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