Girls......What is a Lame Dude to you?
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pico rivera wrote: »you gonna be 40 actin 23 tho???
Im gonna be 40 acting 40. Where did that question come from? -
Im gonna be 40 acting 40. Where did that question come from?
you talkin bout being on some george clooney ?
so... you gonna be 40 actin 23?? -
pico rivera wrote: »you talkin bout being on some george clooney ?
so... you gonna be 40 actin 23??
lol...so you're immature if you're 40 and not married? -
lol...so you're immature if you're 40 and not married?
no
but its kinda immature tryin to imitate george clooney :-/ -
I agree with this list and I used to fit each of these descriptions until I was around 19. SMH. I think it all comes down to confidence. Once I started believing in myself and I got a lot more self-esteem, things changed. I used to try to blame my lameness on me being "too nice" until I realized that there is no such thing and I grew some ? (I'm still a nice/respectful/good guy but no girl has ever referred to me as being "too nice" since I grew those ? ). I began to stand up for myself, I stopped letting girls/people in general boss me around, and I stopped being a follower. A guy with no confidence is going to be a follower and have no backbone. He is going to be a people-pleaser and try too hard to fit in. Confidence is the biggest part.-No spine.
For example, you let a girl punk you around because you're that desperate for ? or because you feel like she's hot.
-Follower.
You let your boys think for you, like you're scared to be your own man.
-No confidence.
I think that speaks for itself.
I'll come back if I think of more. -
pico rivera wrote: »no
but its kinda immature tryin to imitate george clooney :-/
says the girl with a cartoon in her AVI. -
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George Clooney can at least pass like he's tryna settle down.....some of these ? iono.pico rivera wrote: »no
but its kinda immature tryin to imitate george clooney :-/ -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »George Clooney can at least pass like he's tryna settle down.....some of these ? iono.
George has the money to do that
no golddigger -
I agree with this list and I used to fit each of these descriptions until I was around 19. SMH. I think it all comes down to confidence. Once I started believing in myself and I got a lot more self-esteem, things changed. I used to try to blame my lameness on me being "too nice" until I realized that there is no such thing and I grew some ? (I'm still a nice/respectful/good guy but no girl has ever referred to me as being "too nice" since I grew those ? ). I began to stand up for myself, I stopped letting girls/people in general boss me around, and I stopped being a follower. A guy with no confidence is going to be a follower and have no backbone. He is going to be a people-pleaser and try too hard to fit in. Confidence is the biggest part.
Kat and some of these women got the term messed up. You weren't a lame, you were a loser. Barack Obama could be considered a lame but you will never consider him a loser. Anyway a lame is this.
1. Someone who is just boring to be around. Don't know topics that others like to talk about. Talks for whatever reason and when they don't talk seems awkward to a degree.
2. With women, lame could also be someone who just doesn't transition well. Transitioning seems to be easy, hell a ? with a 75 IQ and some disease can do it. But not everyone can, in turn, it can make you look weird i.e. lame.
3. Anti-Social. A lot of times anti-social peeps get hit with this stigma.
4. Thirsty. No explanation needed outside of no success.
A loser is all the things Kat talked about.
I wouldn't say being a follower makes you a loser, most people in this world are followers. It's just when it have no backbone, it wack. If you are too thirsty, you are:
1. Lame - Unsuccessful
or
2. Hoe- Successful
No middle ground. Women hate thirsty men contrary to popular belief.
LOL at pico on Rey. Rey, she ain't lying to you. I read some of your threads. You need to reevaluate where your at right now. It only going to make the transition harder when you really want someone and karma is a ? . -
damn....i cant catch a break tonight. ? i do to yall?
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damn....i cant catch a break tonight. ? i do to yall?
Just letting you know. This world is a lot more deeply rooted than you think. Your actions always have recessions and advantages attached to them. -
You ever notice with some women they can tell you 30 things that they hate in a guy, and others got a few things?
I think many women today know what they dont want. But they dont really know what they want in a guy. lol. -
were ? that cry over exes they're trying to get back with covered?
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where ? that cry over exes they're trying to get back with covered?
ha. I knew a dude in college who had a girl who looked like a poor mans Britney Spears. She was horrible lookin. She smoked 3 packs of cigerattes a day, was pasty white, and had a bad attitude. And her feet looked like she was tap dancing on the sun.
Yet this dude was crying a river when she broke up with him. He went to a depression office after the break up. Granted he's in a room with people who have been molested, had drug problems, alcoholics, and people who were goin through some serious stuff in their lives. And he was in there because his girl broke up with him. smh.
It was disgusting how pathetic this guy was acting. Even to this day I cringe at the way he acted. i heard she's a manager at diary queen now though. -
or they could just be individuals with different experiences (ie a man who says they just want a chick who can ? , cook, and leave him alone vs. a man having a with 10 things)You ever notice with some women they can tell you 30 things that they hate in a guy, and others got a few things?
I think many women today know what they dont want. But they dont really know what they want in a guy. lol.
I always think its funny when guys try argue with what women want, its like, you asked a question, and just because its not the stereotypical answer that backs up whatever baggage you have
all of a sudden it's, women don't know what they want, if that's the case
why ask in the first place??? you seem to have all the answers to begin with
no shot # jay, just saying in general -
or they could just be individuals with different experiences (ie a man who says they just want a chick who can ? , cook, and leave him alone vs. a man having a with 10 things)
I always think its funny when guys try argue with what women want, its like, you asked a question, and just because its not the stereotypical answer that backs up whatever baggage you have
all of a sudden it's, women don't know what they want, if that's the case
why ask in the first place??? you seem to have all the answers to begin with
no shot # jay, just saying in general
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this one girl called me lame cause I wasnt trying to ? her
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truth spitter wrote: »this one girl called me lame cause I wasnt trying to ? her
lol yes they hate it when you are not interested in their ? even though they throwin it at you, but they dont really think you are a lame its just the frustration after offering the most valuable they have too offer and still getting turned down. -
A LIAR & A Hater
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yall ? cant get ya definitions straight for ? no wonder there is so much confusion in the community
next yall gonna say trannys is crossdressers and macks is pimps or video vixens is models
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You ever notice with some women they can tell you 30 things that they hate in a guy, and others got a few things?
I think many women today know what they dont want. But they dont really know what they want in a guy. lol.
Bingo, Hence, the premise of this thread is interesting just to see the responses,but on a deeper level it's just corny.
Most women....are just boring people lol... Real talk, most females I encounter are usually in school or at work and come home....bored....be home all day bored....it's like when a woman is over 18 if they are not with a guy, they are doing nothing, nothing at all....at ? all. Except maybe cleaning, facebook,or being on the phone.
To me it's lame, not that you care what they say, but if you take it serious, if u take it to heart or base your thinking on some ? like this...thats lame. Everybodys just pretty much....poppin ? ...talking grreasy. ya dig. -
edwardnigma wrote: »Bingo, Hence, the premise of this thread is interesting just to see the responses,but on a deeper level it's just corny.
Most women....are just boring people lol... Real talk, most females I encounter are usually in school or at work and come home....bored....be home all day bored....it's like when a woman is over 18 if they are not with a guy, they are doing nothing, nothing at all....at ? all. Except maybe cleaning, facebook,or being on the phone.
To me it's lame, not that you care what they say, but if you take it serious, if u take it to heart or base your thinking on some ? like this...thats lame. Everybodys just pretty much....poppin ? ...talking grreasy. ya dig.
I had a girl who said she need a man who isn't boring. Man all she do is blog and gossip all damn day. Like really ma. I am grindin' from 7am to 6pm and working out from 6:30-7:30pm and you do nothing. LOL. So many girls was like that when I was in college. I would just crash their place at 12 and chill till I wanted to go home, but never spend the night. -
I had a girl who said she need a man who isn't boring. Man all she do is blog and gossip all damn day. Like really ma. I am grindin' from 7am to 6pm and working out from 6:30-7:30pm and you do nothing. LOL. So many girls was like that when I was in college. I would just crash their place at 12 and chill till I wanted to go home, but never spend the night.
She needs someone else to gossip about... -
or they could just be individuals with different experiences (ie a man who says they just want a chick who can ? , cook, and leave him alone vs. a man having a with 10 things)
I always think its funny when guys try argue with what women want, its like, you asked a question, and just because its not the stereotypical answer that backs up whatever baggage you have
all of a sudden it's, women don't know what they want, if that's the case
why ask in the first place??? you seem to have all the answers to begin with
no shot # jay, just saying in general
no truer words have ever been spoken
