True Life: I'm in a long distance relationship

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tru_m.a.c
tru_m.a.c Members Posts: 9,091 ✭✭✭✭
edited August 2011 in For The Grown & Sexy
Anybody watching this on mtv right ???

so many violations going on

Sidenote: Shouldn't no chick go out with a dude who's still rocking his doo rag tail out

IC drop ya stories!!!
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  • Go figure...
    Go figure... Members Posts: 1,471 ✭✭
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    long distance relationship is wack

    couldnt, wouldnt, shouldnt
  • tru_m.a.c
    tru_m.a.c Members Posts: 9,091 ✭✭✭✭
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    long distance relationship is wack

    couldnt, wouldnt, shouldnt

    why why why???
  • Go figure...
    Go figure... Members Posts: 1,471 ✭✭
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    tru_m.a.c wrote: »
    why why why???

    why would u??

    physical presence is just as important as mental presence
  • tru_m.a.c
    tru_m.a.c Members Posts: 9,091 ✭✭✭✭
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    why would u??

    physical presence is just as important as mental presence

    but what would you define as a long distance relationship???

    second violation: don't trust a ? who still pops his collar out
  • Recaptimus_Prime360
    Recaptimus_Prime360 Members Posts: 64,801 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited July 2011
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    been there, done that.
  • Go figure...
    Go figure... Members Posts: 1,471 ✭✭
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    tru_m.a.c wrote: »
    but what would you define as a long distance relationship???

    second violation: don't trust a ? who still pops his collar out

    i dont wear too many collars. face in the drawing on point tho.

    long distance relationship = cant see the female more than once a month and basically all u ever do is talk on the phone, internet...and ? other ppl

    WOAT
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
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    Couldn't be me..
  • tru_m.a.c
    tru_m.a.c Members Posts: 9,091 ✭✭✭✭
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    i dont wear too many collars. face in the drawing on point tho.

    long distance relationship = cant see the female more than once a month and basically all u ever do is talk on the phone, internet...and ? other ppl

    WOAT

    so u wouldn't consider living in 2 different cities like NY to DC as long distance??? That bolt bus gets there cheap and fast lol
    kat2180 wrote: »
    Couldn't be me..

    why??? I'd think it would be harder now with your child and everything, but what about before then???
  • Go figure...
    Go figure... Members Posts: 1,471 ✭✭
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    tru_m.a.c wrote: »
    so u wouldn't consider living in 2 different cities like NY to DC as long distance??? That bolt bus gets there cheap and fast lol

    ill take a 5-20 min ride to see my lady....not a bus or 45 min ride.

    if seeing each other is too much work....its just not worth it

    thats just my opinion. never been in one...but dont plan on ever involving myself in such a scenario. do u tho
  • tru_m.a.c
    tru_m.a.c Members Posts: 9,091 ✭✭✭✭
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    ill take a 5-20 min ride to see my lady....not a bus or 45 min ride.

    if seeing each other is too much work....its just not worth it

    thats just my opinion. never been in one...but dont plan on ever involving myself in such a scenario. do u tho

    In one now. But it was never a planned thing and I never cosigned doing such a thing either.

    But I realized that the most important thing is the level of commitment in the relationship. We'd been talkn for 2 yrs prior and once she graduated it was only right that we continue. So I look at it as a maturity thing. I know that I got something good with her, I have no qualms about it at all
  • Go figure...
    Go figure... Members Posts: 1,471 ✭✭
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    tru_m.a.c wrote: »
    In one now. But it was never a planned thing and I never cosigned doing such a thing either.

    But I realized that the most important thing is the level of commitment in the relationship. We'd been talkn for 2 yrs prior and once she graduated it was only right that we continue. So I look at it as a maturity thing. I know that I got something good with her, I have no qualms about it at all

    well then props to u. it would just be too hard for me to be in a serious relationship like that. i could only do it for so long
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
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    darkone360 wrote: »
    been there, done that.
    kat2180 wrote: »
    Couldn't be me..

    . .
  • Idi Amin Dada
    Idi Amin Dada Members Posts: 3,192 ✭✭
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    So three frogs get arrested in a park for lewd and indecent behavior. At the arraignment the first frog appears. Judge says, "what's your name," and the frog says "Frog." Judge then says, "what were you doing," and he said "I was blowing bubbles." Judge lets him leave and has the second frog come in. "What's your name," said the judge, to which the frog said, "Frog-Frog." Judge asks him "what were you doing," "blowing bubbles," replied Frog-Frog. Judge lets him leave and calls in the third frog and says "Let me guess, your name is Frog-Frog-Frog," and he said "No, my name is Bubbles."
  • Go figure...
    Go figure... Members Posts: 1,471 ✭✭
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    So three frogs get arrested in a park for lewd and indecent behavior. At the arraignment the first frog appears. Judge says, "what's your name," and the frog says "Frog." Judge then says, "what were you doing," and he said "I was blowing bubbles." Judge lets him leave and has the second frog come in. "What's your name," said the judge, to which the frog said, "Frog-Frog." Judge asks him "what were you doing," "blowing bubbles," replied Frog-Frog. Judge lets him leave and calls in the third frog and says "Let me guess, your name is Frog-Frog-Frog," and he said "No, my name is Bubbles."

    was Bubbles blowing bubbles too?
  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
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  • Jonas.dini
    Jonas.dini Confirm Email Posts: 2,507 ✭✭
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    I had a pretty serious relationship that was long distance about half the time, like other side of the world long distance. It was wack in a lot of ways, but for the right woman I'd do it again
  • RuffDraft
    RuffDraft Members, Writer Posts: 4,753 ✭✭✭✭
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    I did it. Used to fly over there to see her and vice versa.

    Not recommended. Too much at stake.
  • tru_m.a.c
    tru_m.a.c Members Posts: 9,091 ✭✭✭✭
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    Jonas.dini wrote: »
    I had a pretty serious relationship that was long distance about half the time, like other side of the world long distance. It was wack in a lot of ways, but for the right woman I'd do it again

    ? othe side of the world....wow....thats OD
    RuffDraft wrote: »
    I did it. Used to fly over there to see her and vice versa.

    Not recommended. Too much at stake.

    who did the most travelling
  • taeboo
    taeboo Members Posts: 4,669 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I've been in one, not really something I want to do again...
  • RuffDraft
    RuffDraft Members, Writer Posts: 4,753 ✭✭✭✭
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    tru_m.a.c wrote: »

    who did the most travelling

    We took it in turns, but was more expensive for me to visit as I had to get a hotel…

    Easily spent the equivalent of around $3000 on being with her for half a year, it wasn't cheap… and she wasn't worth it in the end as she couldn't bring herself to have another long distance relationship (she did it for a year with her ex-fiance who cheated on her when she was over here), nor do I believe she was ready for a basic relationship either, even if we did have a very close friendship for two years, she was still messed up inside over her ex-fiance.
  • mindright
    mindright Members Posts: 2,393 ✭✭✭✭
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    learned my lesson, I'm good on long distance relations
  • nex gin
    nex gin Members Posts: 10,698 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Did it for 5 years when I was in college. ? is mad hard. I would never do it again.
  • tru_m.a.c
    tru_m.a.c Members Posts: 9,091 ✭✭✭✭
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    RuffDraft wrote: »
    We took it in turns, but was more expensive for me to visit as I had to get a hotel…

    Easily spent the equivalent of around $3000 on being with her for half a year, it wasn't cheap… and she wasn't worth it in the end as she couldn't bring herself to have another long distance relationship (she did it for a year with her ex-fiance who cheated on her when she was over here), nor do I believe she was ready for a basic relationship either, even if we did have a very close friendship for two years, she was still messed up inside over her ex-fiance.

    *pusha t voice* ugh! Yeah you can't have any emotional faults doing a long distance thing. Insecurities will ruin everything.
    nex gin wrote: »
    Did it for 5 years when I was in college. ? is mad hard. I would never do it again.

    yeah I def wouldn't advise a college student to do that....gotta experience homecomings the single way
  • Manik Sona
    Manik Sona Members Posts: 350
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    It aint worth the time and money.
  • Fly_King
    Fly_King Members Posts: 136
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    tru_m.a.c wrote: »
    In one now. But it was never a planned thing and I never cosigned doing such a thing either.

    But I realized that the most important thing is the level of commitment in the relationship. We'd been talkn for 2 yrs prior and once she graduated it was only right that we continue. So I look at it as a maturity thing. I know that I got something good with her, I have no qualms about it at all

    my brotha state college reppin...same situation same ideal