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Alright me and this female was supposed to chill for the weekend. we both had the same off days which was today and tomorrow but she lives in htown and i stay an hour away so she was supposed to come out here when she got off this morning but i wake up to txt and phone calls saying that her aunt had to be rushed to the emergency room and all that ? .......i didnt get that vibe from her that she was going to stunt cause all wekk she was sayin how much she wanted to chill this weekend but my real ? radar is telling me something is up......your thoughts
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sounds like bs but who's to say...but i kno the closest get the mostest and u a hour away...if she found sumn closer that pretty much killed that trip...i hope u would do the same...i mean if she fine i would still try but just play her on a long string...wait for her to call u and explain and act like the ? didnt even matter...u had jolly good ? time without her
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texasboi409 wrote: »Alright me and this female was supposed to chill for the weekend. we both had the same off days which was today and tomorrow but she lives in htown and i stay an hour away so she was supposed to come out here when she got off this morning but i wake up to txt and phone calls saying that her aunt had to be rushed to the emergency room and all that ? .......i didnt get that vibe from her that she was going to stunt cause all wekk she was sayin how much she wanted to chill this weekend but my real ? radar is telling me something is up......your thoughts
Yea that's a tough one, if she aint wanna chill she probably would've just said that but then again I dont know the chick. Like son before me said, if she bad give her the benefit of the doubt. And the fact that she texted AND called you looks like she was trying to give u the message -
That's an extreme lie to tell, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt but this time only
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word respectable responses...im getting older so i cant just lash out at her but imma play it cool and not sweat her about it
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texasboi409 wrote: »word respectable responses...im getting older so i cant just lash out at her but imma play it cool and not sweat her about it
yea just chill dude...when she call go get in the car and cut the music up, yelling over the music tell her u wit a friend and u gone get back wit her...
any more and i gotta charge ya lol -
texasboi409 wrote: »Alright me and this female was supposed to chill for the weekend. we both had the same off days which was today and tomorrow but she lives in htown and i stay an hour away so she was supposed to come out here when she got off this morning but i wake up to txt and phone calls saying that her aunt had to be rushed to the emergency room and all that ? .......i didnt get that vibe from her that she was going to stunt cause all wekk she was sayin how much she wanted to chill this weekend but my real ? radar is telling me something is up......your thoughts
I wouldn't sweat it bruh. It's only a problem if it becomes habitual. One time isn't necessarily an indication of foul play. -
sound like sound ?
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Give her the benefit. She did call and text to try to explain. If she was nonchalant about the ? , it's a lie. She put effort into this one so ride it out. If it becomes a habit of excuses, you already know what to do.
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HAF BAYKED wrote: »yea just chill dude...when she call go get in the car and cut the music up, yelling over the music tell her u wit a friend and u gone get back wit her...
any more and i gotta charge ya lol
Yea son, you better than me I don't even do the music thing. Just answer the phone like I'm happy to hear from her then cut her off like I gotta hit u back... -
I agree with most of the ppl. If it becomes a habit, dead that ?
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Yea son, you better than me I don't even do the music thing. Just answer the phone like I'm happy to hear from her then cut her off like I gotta hit u back...
lol...im bad wit that ? idk why i ? wit females like that...thats old ? tho im locked down right now anyway... -
texasboi409 wrote: »word respectable responses...im getting older so i cant just lash out at her but imma play it cool and not sweat her about it
B, youth or not, I wouldn't lash out. Ever. I never give trife hoes the pleasure of knowing that I had any excitement about their presence. -
If its the first time it happened let it slip...
chick did this to me a month back when she was supposed to come over and watch "let the right one in" with me at like 11pm i KNEW i was gon ? . Had my lights dimmed house cleaned up had the system plugged up and everything even had my shirt off LOL. Bout 15 mins later she calls me talking about she gotta ler her mom use the car and please dont be mad at her. (she still stay at home with her people..).
Brah i felt like a ? fool....i didn't even try to hang out with her ever again after that night LMFAO.
She had a boyfriend tho i felt like she was witholding the ? cuz she knew what was up if she stepped through that door.... -
haha its funny cause i did her her with the "my phone bout to go dead let me call you back" line and havent called her since
a ? like me hate to hear excuses so id rather not talk to her -
If its the first time it happened let it slip...
chick did this to me a month back when she was supposed to come over and watch "let the right one in" with me at like 11pm i KNEW i was gon ? . Had my lights dimmed house cleaned up had the system plugged up and everything even had my shirt off LOL. Bout 15 mins later she calls me talking about she gotta ler her mom use the car and please dont be mad at her. (she still stay at home with her people..).
Brah i felt like a ? fool....i didn't even try to hang out with her ever again after that night LMFAO.
She had a boyfriend tho i felt like she was witholding the ? cuz she knew what was up if she stepped through that door....
lmao....damn no candles?...thats ? up tho -
listen Son, You sounding mad self conscious .
If she makes a pattern of selling you dreams then you exit .... but until then dont stress it.
Theres other chicks around
...for you to french kiss
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A IC broad needs to step up in here and discuss why ? do this ? .
If I dont wanna chill with you, ill just say I can't make it AT THE TIME of being asked if im free or not. Women will wait till 5 minutes before they're supposed to meet up before unveiling a half assed excuse.
Whats even worse is when they're the ones trying to chill with you. When they initiate it. What part of the game is this? -
If its the first time it happened let it slip...
chick did this to me a month back when she was supposed to come over and watch "let the right one in" with me at like 11pm i KNEW i was gon ? . Had my lights dimmed house cleaned up had the system plugged up and everything even had my shirt off LOL. Bout 15 mins later she calls me talking about she gotta ler her mom use the car and please dont be mad at her. (she still stay at home with her people..).
Brah i felt like a ? fool....i didn't even try to hang out with her ever again after that night LMFAO.
She had a boyfriend tho i felt like she was witholding the ? cuz she knew what was up if she stepped through that door....
See that's that frustrating ? cuz u prolly cleaned up enough for a girl's presence too, not just clean enough for you.the fact that she was coming over and had a dude is somewhat dangerous for her, even if she didn't show up.She took a risk. So you got that ya kno... -
Knives Amilli wrote: »A IC broad needs to step up in here and discuss why ? do this ? .
If I dont wanna chill with you, ill just say I can't make it AT THE TIME of being asked if im free or not. Women will wait till 5 minutes before they're supposed to meet up before unveiling a half assed excuse.
Whats even worse is when they're the ones trying to chill with you. When they initiate it. What part of the game is this?
See thats the most ? up ? ...thats like dangling a porkchop infront of a ferocious lion and jerking it away with a string when he walks towards it.
tex was just going to suggest that you dont even contact her...let her contact you and try to make up for the missed date. If it was a real issue and she really feels bad about it she will try to set something else up for yall.
@cap man she broke up with that dude a while back; we still talk and flirt at work but im not even interested in the ? anymore brah....now if she got sloppy and just threw it at me im gonna make sure i punish it just for that night she stood me up LMFAO!! -
If its the first time it happened let it slip...
chick did this to me a month back when she was supposed to come over and watch "let the right one in" with me at like 11pm i KNEW i was gon ? . Had my lights dimmed house cleaned up had the system plugged up and everything even had my shirt off LOL. Bout 15 mins later she calls me talking about she gotta ler her mom use the car and please dont be mad at her. (she still stay at home with her people..).
Brah i felt like a ? fool....i didn't even try to hang out with her ever again after that night LMFAO.
She had a boyfriend tho i felt like she was witholding the ? cuz she knew what was up if she stepped through that door....
haha we all have had a chick back out of a get together...hoes scary mayne -
texasboi409 wrote: »haha we all have had a chick back out of a get together...hoes scary mayne
I always like to "expect for the best and prepare for the worst" but I'm always salty when they be canceling and you KNOW she DTF -
you could always offer to help with something or just be there for her
but then again you always seem to have a ? ain't ? attitude on here
maybe you should just keep it movin...... -
Jonas.dini wrote: »That's an extreme lie to tell, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt but this time only
Basically when family is involved i tend to beleive it -
I always like to "expect for the best and prepare for the worst" but I'm always salty when they be canceling and you KNOW she DTF
It gets even worse when its one of those "one night only" deals where you know this might be the ONLY time you get to ? the broad.
Must be like what the joker feels like when batman comes and ? his grand scheme up i swear.... -
when i talked to her she was like she bout to go see smurfs with her mama i was like this ? here lol
