Do Women hate a man that always hits them up first?
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makaveli03
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Like if it comes to someone in the process of talking to a potential sig other...I usually would never hit up the girl, she would be the one hitting me up all the time...but then I notice that whenever I actually swallow my pride and attempt to check up on them....they seem to pull away in a weird way..so I be in these random spots like wtf do I do? lol
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nope cause if he doesn't hit me up we won't talk
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women are dumb. they'll act like you a scrub for always hitten them up but if you dont theyll be mad and say "why you aint hit me up?"
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i always give the girl my number 1st, if she hit up, she wanted a ? to holla...after that its a mutual thing, we hit each other up equally
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nope, but dont overdo it on some stalker ish.
guys are suppose to show their interest in a girl, not think she's suppose to be on his nuts all the time so his ego can be stroked -
No if they like you they wont mind being hit up, if they dont want your ass like that then it would annoy them.
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Women who are well balanced when it comes to this type of thing are the ones I'd prefer to deal with. I.E. she's responsive when I'm the assertive one making the first contact, but she can also be assertive at times and make that call. If she's on some "he better hit me up all the time sh*t," she'll definitely be put on ice early.
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some broads hate when a ? hit them up but you gave the ? yo number should be happy
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Call, just don't excessively call. Realistically, a chick that you just met, if she's cool, has only earned one phone call from you per week. If she's your s/o, it's one phone call per day. As a man, you gotta let a woman know early that you are a man about your business, who doesn't have much time for casual convos, so make her feel privileged that she's even speaking with you................................
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nope, but dont overdo it on some stalker ish.
guys are suppose to show their interest in a girl, not think she's suppose to be on his nuts all the time so his ego can be stroked
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yall ? be rackin yall brains about these hoes
just keep doing your thang and let these hoes come
cause when you try to figure them out you gonna realize they werent meant to make sense just make babies -
texasboi409 wrote: »yall ? be rackin yall brains about these hoes
just keep doing your thang and let these hoes come
cause when you try to figure them out you gonna realize they werent meant to make sense just make babies
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Trust me they don't want you hitting them up. Only occasionally maybe. But I guess everyone is different. If they want to talk to me they'll hit me up. Thats how I look at it.
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mostvigorousone wrote: »Women who are well balanced when it comes to this type of thing are the ones I'd prefer to deal with. I.E. she's responsive when I'm the assertive one making the first contact, but she can also be assertive at times and make that call. If she's on some "he better hit me up all the time sh*t," she'll definitely be put on ice early.
Chuuuch!!
I'm that woman! Leave the birds alone!! -
Chuuuch!!
I'm that woman! Leave the birds alone!!
No disrespect, but that statement is invalid without a proof pic... -
Trust me they don't want you hitting them up. Only occasionally maybe. But I guess everyone is different. If they want to talk to me they'll hit me up. Thats how I look at it.
nah for some they dont hit u up regardless....some girls i know get unbelievably mad at me when i never talk to them for like a month and i just told them that if they really wanted to talk to me they should have just called...but they was like no ur the man here -
mdizzle9000 wrote: »women are dumb. they'll act like you a scrub for always hitten them up but if you dont theyll be mad and say "why you aint hit me up?"
? is so true.... I got this hoe on timeout right now and I already now what she gon hit me wit....think I might have to cut this brawd loose sick of goin in circles. -
? is crazy to me...I ? so many potential relationships up because this very issue. If you dont hit them up enough they think its because you're not really interested, if you hit them up too much they say you're coming too hard.
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If he doesnt hit me up first we prob will never even talk so try to call/txt within at least a week because ill most likely forget who you are.......
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bless the child wrote: »? is crazy to me...I ? so many potential relationships up because this very issue. If you dont hit them up enough they think its because you're not really interested, if you hit them up too much they say you're coming too hard.
exactly man thats what im torn between now....like i remember i was talkin with this one shorty and she always hit me up before like every day...and then all of a sudden she never hit me up....so i just hit her up one day and we talked, and I said ill hit her up the next day....the next day i hit her up and she just had a diff vibe in the convo....and im like damn wtf am i doin? -
makaveli03 wrote: »exactly man thats what im torn between now....like i remember i was talkin with this one shorty and she always hit me up before like every day...and then all of a sudden she never hit me up....so i just hit her up one day and we talked, and I said ill hit her up the next day....the next day i hit her up and she just had a diff vibe in the convo....and im like damn wtf am i doin?
Man I can tell you a crazy story about something similar. These broads are moody these days. -
bless the child wrote: »Man I can tell you a crazy story about something similar. These broads are moody these days.
im listening
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