You find out your S/O cheated...
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You and your S/O have been together for YEARS....years....but...you find out a when you two first got official, they cheated.
This was YEARS ago and they swear nothing has happened since then?
Are you gonna start looking at them differently?
This was YEARS ago and they swear nothing has happened since then?
Are you gonna start looking at them differently?
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Simply put.......Yep.
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pretty much and my "trust factor" gradually decreases by the day
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d probably try to ignore for time being but i would gradually start to move away and eventually break up
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that' kills the trust in a relationship. And i'd def be skeptical.. I probably move on gradually and learn from it as well..
What prompt the question?? -
i would ignore her and treat her like ? starting immediately, if she still sticks around begging for forgiveness after half a year....
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that' kills the trust in a relationship. And i'd def be skeptical.. I probably move on gradually and learn from it as well..
What prompt the question??
Oh I was watching 16 & Pregnant and one of the girls found out her BF cheated when they had first started dating....which was like a year prior. -
tangible thoughts wrote: »i would ignore her and treat her like ? starting immediately, if she still sticks around begging for forgiveness after half a year....
ill let her swallow my meat
trill ? statement -
Hack.red. Red.red. Bone.HACK.red. Bone.black. -
Oh I was watching 16 & Pregnant and one of the girls found out her BF cheated when they had first started dating....which was like a year prior.
o okay..
Yea, dem broads are crazy to be having babies at 16 in the first place.. I feel for them chicks.. Clueless.. They dont know what they want..
But since their's a child involved, you can't just get up and walk away, I mean their hasta be some compromising but I def wouldn't stay in a relationship because it leads to an unhealthy relationship, trust issues and all that bs that comes along with finding out of a cheating mate.. -
o okay..
Yea, dem broads are crazy to be having babies at 16 in the first place.. I feel for them chicks.. Clueless.. They dont know what they want..
But since their's a child involved, you can't just get up and walk away, I mean their hasta be some compromising but I def wouldn't stay in a relationship because it leads to an unhealthy relationship, trust issues and all that bs that comes along with finding out of a cheating mate..
Yeah she broke up with him then realized she wasn't gonna do it on her own.
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hey cc you still in here
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i just wanted to asks you since you have perfect breast you ever thought about getting butt injections to help you with that pancake your sitting on right nowYes . -
Yeah she broke up with him then realized she wasn't gonna do it on her own.
And got back with him.
that's what females need, more resources and support especially for young girls.. A lot of women are in abusive, unfaithful relationships and those that lack support end up going straight back to dudes.. They need strong people (mothers, sisters, friends) to lend them that. Unfortunately, its reality.. Out society is sooo fcked up that young chicks having babies at 16.. and most are probably in a toremented relationship and really feel hopeless. It takes a strong women to leave a relationship that's not healthy for her self and her child. And the sad thing is a lot of females are suffering in silence..
But we as females have control over ? like this.. So we hafta be smarter and think with our brains than our hearts. If we could all think with our brains we wouldn't be dicussing bs like this..
Dam, I went on a rant.. My bad.. Its just topics like this relating to young females I have a passion for because I lacked that mother, sister figure in my life.. I learned a lot of ? on my own and the least I can do is be vocal about topics like this.. -
Free-Post.
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i just wanted to asks you since you have perfect breast you ever thought about getting butt injections to help you with that pancake your sitting on right now
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im gonna bodyslam u into a floor with no carpet, yes im mad @cc
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No .
damn...well you ever thought about letting a real ? (such as myself) pound your back out and help pump u up -
I would attempt to cheat with her closest female friend or family member...then get caught on purpose so she has to break up with me but will be scarred forever
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probably so.
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Why did this get moved??????????????????????????????
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i mean how can you not look at them differently? it would change the whole dynamic of the relationship. mainly bc you would look at that person like how could you 1. lie and cheat in the first place and 2. keep lying to cover it up all these years. so naturally the next questions would be what else are you hiding and what else are you capable of hiding going forward.
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Yeah, I'd look at them differently....can't help it. I wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it either, which would probably end the relationship.
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yeah i'd look at them differently...it would make me question what else is being hid and i wouldn't be able to stay with somebody that I no longer trusted...they'd have a better chance at me forvging them by telling when it happened
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that's what females need, more resources and support especially for young girls.. A lot of women are in abusive, unfaithful relationships and those that lack support end up going straight back to dudes.. They need strong people (mothers, sisters, friends) to lend them that. Unfortunately, its reality.. Out society is sooo fcked up that young chicks having babies at 16.. and most are probably in a toremented relationship and really feel hopeless. It takes a strong women to leave a relationship that's not healthy for her self and her child. And the sad thing is a lot of females are suffering in silence..
But we as females have control over ? like this.. So we hafta be smarter and think with our brains than our hearts. If we could all think with our brains we wouldn't be dicussing bs like this..
Dam, I went on a rant.. My bad.. Its just topics like this relating to young females I have a passion for because I lacked that mother, sister figure in my life.. I learned a lot of ? on my own and the least I can do is be vocal about topics like this..
I feel you on issues like teen pregnancy..I was that 16 yr old with a baby but fortunately for me, I had all the support and help in the world. My bf was there for me, my family, and his family. When I was in high school, I wanted to become a social worker to do all that I can for pregnant teens. Even with the help, it's still life changing.
To answer the thread: I would look at him differently.
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