So can a ? be too cool and attractive???
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Real ? a co-worker of mine showed me a pic of her homegirl. I was like oh she cute. So I tell my co-worker to pull my coat on her home girl so she give me the run down. I was like word, well whats up put me on. And she say nah I can't put her on with someone cool, and suave. I need to put her on with like a geek or something. So her description of her homegirl sound mad cool, so I'm like she a geek or somethin. She was like nah, but you just attractive and so smooth, you might intimidate her. I never heard of any ? like this. Don't female want a smooth attractive dude??? So a cool ? is losing these days??? Can a ? be too damn cool???
IC speak on it.
IC speak on it.
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Yea in high school a ? thought he was cool enuff to break the lunch line cuz he was a senior. Dude named Oscar beat the ? outta him lol
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I know exactly what u talking about playa. I go through this all the time as well. Sometimes being good looking is a disadvantage. Many women think I'm a player just because I have this gangsta physique and boyish good looks. Basically they judge a book by it's cover and think because I'm so cool I wouldn't be someone to start a loving relationship with. Just keep living life man. Women secure with themselves will ? with u.
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Yea in high school a ? thought he was cool enuff to break the lunch line cuz he was a senior. Dude named Oscar beat the ? outta him lol
Lmao you dumb ? . -
no such animal
usually if u too cool u get overlooked -
truth spitter wrote: »I know exactly what u talking about playa. I go through this all the time as well. Sometimes being good looking is a disadvantage. Many women think I'm a player just because I have this gangsta physique and boyish good looks. Basically they judge a book by it's cover and think because I'm so cool I wouldn't be someone to start a loving relationship with. Just keep living life man. Women secure with themselves will ? with u.
? thru me off bruh. I'm tellin ya. Like I notice female act some way around me and a lot of female when I was in college said I was mysterious at first (after I ? em they were good) cuz I was just a good looking real chill dude. And the fact that I'm not a thirsty dude throw them off too. I feel ya tho she must know her homegirl is a lil insecure or something. -
amenhotepiv wrote: »no such animal
usually if u too cool u get overlooked
I wouldn't necessarily say overlooked but its like the chicks actually settle for less sometimes. I stay winning so in the end the female is the one who is losing. I'm not the dog a chick out type of ? , but they don't know that cuz they are intimidated. -
a female told me this one time, kinda threw me off. Theyd rather not deal with you cuz of intimidation and insecurities but i wonder how big of an effect this could have on a guys life or if theres a big number of chicks like this
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yo her homegirl was putting u on to game without throwing her girl under the bus
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my girl im with now told me this. Said if I didnt approach her that she would never talk to me cuz i looked too intimidating. My jumps tell me this ? all the time 2. I actually asked my sis about this the other day, she told me she wouldnt approach my type neither. I asked why, she said "cuz ur black and got swag, and that makes u look mean and arrogant" smh
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Real ? a co-worker of mine showed me a pic of her homegirl. I was like oh she cute. So I tell my co-worker to pull my coat on her home girl so she give me the run down. I was like word, well whats up put me on. And she say nah I can't put her on with someone cool, and suave. I need to put her on with like a geek or something. So her description of her homegirl sound mad cool, so I'm like she a geek or somethin. She was like nah, but you just attractive and so smooth, you might intimidate her. I never heard of any ? like this. Don't female want a smooth attractive dude??? So a cool ? is losing these days??? Can a ? be too damn cool???
IC speak on it.
Your coworker wants you, and doesn't want you to speak to her friend out of jealousy. Hit her. -
I think alotta chicks feel more secure, with a dude who they feel is lucky
to be with them rather than being with a cool dude who they feel lucky to be with.
this fine white girl at work told me she married a geek, bcuz he was socially akward and she doesnt have
to worry about him cheating -
Your coworker wants you, and doesn't want you to speak to her friend out of jealousy. Hit her.
i was thinking this at one point but she got a dude and is always talking about him tho. I know what the response will be of the ? from the IC tho.... lol. -
a female told me this one time, kinda threw me off. Theyd rather not deal with you cuz of intimidation and insecurities but i wonder how big of an effect this could have on a guys life or if theres a big number of chicks like this
I wonder that same ? my dude. A ? about to turn the smoothness down or somethin....
Nah ? that!!!! -
bossdon201 wrote: »my girl im with now told me this. Said if I didnt approach her that she would never talk to me cuz i looked too intimidating. My jumps tell me this ? all the time 2. I actually asked my sis about this the other day, she told me she wouldnt approach my type neither. I asked why, she said "cuz ur black and got swag, and that makes u look mean and arrogant" smh
^^^^All of this is me too. I asked chicks the same question. Back in 08 my last semester I met this cute chick in my class, we became real cool I had a chick so a ? was on that faithful type ? , so I didn't holla. Me and the girl became real cool she a homie now. So maybe a year ago my she told me she was like if I didn't know you I would give you some play, but when I didn't you I was a lil scared to give you some play. I was like why...she was like cuz you one of them fly type ? that's so cool and walk around like you don't need a chick. Of course I came back with a real ? response, all I need is food, shelter, and a body temperature at 98.6 degrees. Lol guess a response like that intimidates them. -
yea, most chicks avoid dudes that don't need them. it has to do with their insecurities. nuff times i'll cross paths with a chick & see them put their guard up (face tightens, tries to avoid eye contact) but that's just their way of showing u that they notice u. the ? that gets me is that when they get around a lame ? that's ready to drink their bathwater, they try to play the "i'm a bad ? role", but when a real ? comes around all that false confidence goes out the window.
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Happens to me....its leave a ? feeling salty that some dude like erkel pulling girls at the club and I left standing alone. The fat girls love a ? though my homegirl told me fat chicks like good looking guys....kind of weird the confidence fat chicks display to me. The good looking broads are harder to obtain...they say I look mean and cocky....ETC
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you shouldnt go off looks alone.everything that looks good aint always good for you
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yea, most chicks avoid dudes that don't need them. it has to do with their insecurities. nuff times i'll cross paths with a chick & see them put their guard up (face tightens, tries to avoid eye contact) but that's just their way of showing u that they notice u. the ? that gets me is that when they get around a lame ? that's ready to drink their bathwater, they try to play the "i'm a bad ? role", but when a real ? comes around all that false confidence goes out the window.
this ? right here is a everyday thing up here in MD... -
there's some truth to this thread
but it's pretty obvious when it happens, and doesn't need to be said
but in general, it's not that hard to intimidate a chick................it doesn't have to be looks, it could be your money, your job, or even something like your philanthropy that can make an average chick feel like she's too shook to date you
nothing is funnier to me than to see a chick refuse to date somebody because they have a nice car (cause they assume all sorts of negative ? about a guy who drives a really expensive whip)
yeah silly I know *shrugs* -
Your coworker wants you, and doesn't want you to speak to her friend out of jealousy. Hit her.
I thought the same thing when I read this. Either she wants him for herself or she doesn't want her girl to be happy... -
Your co-worker want's to ? you homie, so she threw you off her girl. Kick ass
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Had a couple chicks that said they couldn't mess with me cuz they think I would cheat, still pulled them cuz I look good and got game its that simple. These females ain't that complicated bruh, Yall looking to far into it imo. All that is is they playing hard to get, and I know how to play well.
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This ? ? reappears.
This new nurse here, when she see me in the hall she'll speak, look the other way then put her head down. SMH she fine too, damn,
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I've done that before. Never told him why tho...
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MissLeading wrote: »I've done that before. Never told him why tho...
oh so that's why you been playing me to the left this whole time?
it's cool, thanks for the compliment tho
