Ladies: If your man denied your child at first but, eventually came back....
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Rey Negro
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Would you forgive him?????
Let's say yall was kids (18-21). You popped up pregnant. He couldn't handle the situation and bounced. At year or two later he realizes he was wrong and wants to be with you and be a father to little Apollonia. Would you forgive him?????
Let's say yall was kids (18-21). You popped up pregnant. He couldn't handle the situation and bounced. At year or two later he realizes he was wrong and wants to be with you and be a father to little Apollonia. Would you forgive him?????
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I wouldn't deny him the right to be in the childs life, can't say I'd take him back though..
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? moved my thread....
the new mod in G&S is WOAT.... -
I would let him be in my child's life, but I wouldn't take him back...
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The problem is, in this situation, is despite some contrary behavior in the past, some women want a clean slate.
Sorry ? , your past behavior is taken into account.
If its not wifey, every guys first instinct is to deny.
I denied mine, until i saw her. Since she has been born,
there has not been a day we have not been together tho. -
Who is that in the avi kai?
I would give hin a chance to step up..you can't let personal feelings to get in the way of what's best for your child. -
Lol @ Apollonia. Ummm it's hard to say. It's not a black & white scenario. But I tend to be a forgiving person. I also believe people can and do change and mature. so the answer is I couldn't say.
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if we weren't serious when i got knocked up (which wouldn't happen), then his questioning would be justified. i would assume a dude would get a paternity test from jump anyway tho.....better that & being sure than walking out on his kid & missing the first years of his/her life on an unfounded assumption.
i can't speak on what would happen relationship-wise tho. i just don't know.