the Wifey checklist

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Gnawledgeable
Gnawledgeable Members Posts: 1,768 ✭✭✭
edited November 2011 in For The Grown & Sexy
Things you need to know or find out before seriously being or even just living with them. Add your own personal wants/needs to the list.

1.Do they work

2.If any debt, how much and how to pay if off

3.How well they know how to budget and use money

4.Knows how to cook

5.Good sex skills

6.If they want children and how many

7.If they have friends of opposite sex or communicate with ex's

8.Are they open minded, scared or negative toward new things

9.If they give up easily

10.How's their hygiene or they're in good shape

11.If they have good credit

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  • Real Lady
    Real Lady Banned Users Posts: 1,878 ✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    Don't confuse giving it up easily with moving fast. A person can be moving fast because they are in situations that make them feel like they are going to die young. When people think they are going to die young they move fast. This is not hoe behavior. It's impulsive. People go fast lane when they panic. They may panic because death may be around them.

    If a person can substantially support them self without asking others for money, then this mean the person can take care themselves. It do not matter if they have good credit or debt if they are not asking others to pay it off. However it's nothing wrong with helping each other. I think life picks your mate, @ the end some things are just written in your destiny. I really let cupid or the cards pick my mate. some people are the one you suppose to be with at that time. people are in your life for a reason. & the timing decide who you suppose to be with.
  • Niggersauce
    Niggersauce Members Posts: 3,040 ✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    You never going to have a happy relationship building a checklist of things your mate needs.
  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    Quarter2 wrote: »
    You never going to have a happy relationship building a checklist of things your mate needs.

    ......................
  • Frank blanco
    Frank blanco Members Posts: 411
    edited November 2011
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    all i need to know is if she lazy,knows how to cook,goal oriented,and if she cleans up
  • Gnawledgeable
    Gnawledgeable Members Posts: 1,768 ✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    Quarter2 wrote: »
    You never going to have a happy relationship building a checklist of things your mate needs.

    Which that is why relationships fail because people don't have boundaries. The things I've mentioned are the main important points that should be considered. I didn't post a laundry list like she needs to have long hair, a fat ass, doesn't snore, keep the toilet seat down, etc. I'm focused on the main things.
  • Real Lady
    Real Lady Banned Users Posts: 1,878 ✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    Quarter2 wrote: »
    You never going to have a happy relationship building a checklist of things your mate needs.

    exactly a checklist means I'm looking for a image, love do not have a image. Now morals are another thing. Personally I have to agree with someone I'm ma be with. I can't be with someone and our beliefs are always bumping heads. Alot of people out here do not care about compatibility. They can be with a person they don't even like as long as that person can be a advantage to their image somehow. All I ask is for a person to keep it real with me, too much ? at the door means no entry. I think people get mad when they can't fool me. A person can't sike me out and make me think they love me. I look for love to be proven I just don't go for the words.
  • _Goldie_
    _Goldie_ Members, Moderators, Writer Posts: 30,349 Regulator
    edited November 2011
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    Understandable list
  • Jesus Jackson
    Jesus Jackson Members Posts: 1,957 ✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    1.) Does she smoke (DEFINATE NO-NO)

    2.) Any hard drug use (EVEN BIGGER NO-NO)

    3.) Does she take a dump with the bathroom door wide open (DEAL-BREAKER)
  • DarcSkies
    DarcSkies Members Posts: 13,791 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    Quarter2 wrote: »
    You never going to have a happy relationship building a checklist of things your mate needs.
    this

    plus the list in my head is too long and unrealistic anyway. Im content knowing I will always have "close girlfriends" who wont be in my life long term.
  • 5th Letter
    5th Letter Members, Moderators, Writer Posts: 37,068 Regulator
    edited November 2011
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    Just have a good head on her shoulder that's all.
  • longmeat
    longmeat Members Posts: 2,263 ✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    1.) Does she smoke (DEFINATE NO-NO)

    2.) Any hard drug use (EVEN BIGGER NO-NO)

    3.) Does she take a dump with the bathroom door wide open (DEAL-BREAKER)

    LMAO ? don't realize how devastating #3 can be to a relationship
  • MeTaL
    MeTaL Members Posts: 6,553 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    A list kinda over doing it..Your never going to be happy.. As long you got a good head on your shoulder, can clean up after yourself..handle business and want something out of life..
  • fiat_money
    fiat_money Members Posts: 16,654 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    1. Makes money.
    2. Sexy as ? .
    3. Flies a helicopter.
    4. Good immune system.
    5. Not afraid of "bugs".
    6. Likes cheese.
    7. Strong bladder.
  • LurkdogAchilles
    LurkdogAchilles Members Posts: 924 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    aka getting to know a MF
  • Melanin_Enriched
    Melanin_Enriched Members Posts: 22,868 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2011
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    1.) born a female
    2.) stil a female
    That's it, anything other than that is just bonus points for me.