So i hear step parents are mad because they have to be.....step parents
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so a freind of mine is mad because he thinks he should not have to be a step parent. he choose to be with this girl knowin that she had a kid when he moved her in. but now hes mad because he has to help raise the kid and the kid is nothing like he wants him to be.
so he tells the girl that she doesnt know whatr he has to deal with raising someone elses child. havin his finances go to someone elses child. and thinks he can pick and choose when to participate in the childs life and when he can just flat out go into a room and ignore the child.
i called him a selfish ? and we took bet on how many people will agree with me.
and he will be readin this.
so he tells the girl that she doesnt know whatr he has to deal with raising someone elses child. havin his finances go to someone elses child. and thinks he can pick and choose when to participate in the childs life and when he can just flat out go into a room and ignore the child.
i called him a selfish ? and we took bet on how many people will agree with me.
and he will be readin this.
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Yeah based on the info, ya homie is confused. Im not saying I would be taking care of somebody else kid, but If you in a relationship with somebody that has a kid, and you think you just null and void from that ? you clearly misguided.
Why cant ya friend get some unpolluted ? to wife up? -
thats the responsibility he took on by moving in a chick who already has a kid. though the childs dad should be in the picture in some aspect.
hommie dont like it..then get rid of the ? and her kid -
he must not have had his thinking cap on tight....and that ? gotta be some A-1....i cant be mad at him for not wanting to do too much for the kid if he didnt plan on being step-dad, but that was stupid on his part for moving the ? in.....u can smash single mothers all day, but dont move them in unless u ready to deal with that.....
whether he knows it or not he gone have to get rid of that broad if he wanna do it like that.....or else clean them ? sippi cups lol -
why get with a woman with a child and then complain about being a step parent. Why move her and her child into his house when they arent married or engaged. I could never be with a woman with a child and I disagreed with how the child was raised by the other parent.
Ur friend is a ? . Plenty of women out there that dont have kids, my woman being one of them -
I don't want to play step parent either
so i don't date men with kids
got dam yo that sounds crazy logical -
lol
I would have been made that decision for him. -
Damn y'll realize he said the ? would be right ? This ? gone go home and kick the ? out.
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u supposed watch the kid, buy them ? , but have no say in raising them...
and chicks wonder why dudes talk so much ? about single mothers...
Not all single mothers behave that way...you sound like you're speaking from a personal experience. -
If he's not comfortable he should bounce now before he gets any deeper.
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mrsoutcity wrote: »Damn y'll realize he said the ? would be right ? This ? gone go home and kick the ? out.
if he he can't handle what comes with raising someone else's child, then he should
some people can work through it, but some can't
and if you can't they should go their separate ways before ? gets ugly
however moving forward he should just keep it real with himself and stop going after chicks with kids if its that much of an issue -
I don't want to play step parent either
so i don't date men with kids
got dam yo that sounds crazy logical
got dayum @ this powerful postage
logic like this could make the IC explodeNot all single mothers behave that way...you sound like you're speaking from a personal experience.
yeah and unfortunately that's because they are looking for a replacement father for their children
as a stepparent, it's truly a thankless job................that's why the ones who do troop it deserve the applause -
so a freind of mine is mad because he thinks he should not have to be a step parent. he choose to be with this girl knowin that she had a kid when he moved her in. but now hes mad because he has to help raise the kid and the kid is nothing like he wants him to be.
so he tells the girl that she doesnt know whatr he has to deal with raising someone elses child. havin his finances go to someone elses child. and thinks he can pick and choose when to participate in the childs life and when he can just flat out go into a room and ignore the child.
i called him a selfish ? and we took bet on how many people will agree with me.
and he will be readin this.
I stopped reading at bolded.
Because your friend is clearly an idiot. -
blakfyahking wrote: »
yeah and unfortunately that's because they are looking for a replacement father for their children
as a stepparent, it's truly a thankless job................that's why the ones who do troop it deserve the applause
I agree, and I have respect for those who can do it. My stepdad being right up there at the top of the list.
Being a mother is pretty much a thankless job, but at least at the end of the day I'm still Mommy.
I feel bad sometimes cause my daughter gives him a hard time. I think it's taking her a minute to get used to sharing my attention with someone else.
I allow him the space to discipline and reprimand though. -
Just because he's with ole girl does NOT mean he has to have a hand in raising that child.
I do not agree with the assesment that he has to break his own bread, watch, raise a child that is not his... that is the parent's responsibility, not his!
If he choses to do so than he is doing the parents a favor and if he choses not to, he should not be looked down upon. He did not have a hand in making that child, he shouldn't help raise that child unless HE wants too... and if he's raising that child, he should have a say on WHATEVER!
Who cares if she had a child before they met, that's her and her baby father's business, and they should be adults and take care of THEIR responsibilities! -
Just because he's with ole girl does NOT mean he has to have a hand in raising that child.
I do not agree with the assesment that he has to break his own bread, watch, raise a child that is not his... that is the parent's responsibility, not his!
If he choses to do so than he is doing the parents a favor and if he choses not to, he should not be looked down upon. He did not have a hand in making that child, he shouldn't help raise that child unless HE wants too... and if he's raising that child, he should have a say on WHATEVER!
Who cares if she had a child before they met, that's her and her baby father's business, and they should be adults and take care of THEIR responsibilities!
Delusional post.
Don't want kids, don't date single parents...the end. -
I have a son, but don't date single moms. Is that weird? I guess.
I tried once. But everytime I took her and her son out, I'd be thinking I ought to be doing this with my kid.
So yeah, basically I don't do it because I have a child of my own I'd rather spend time with. -
I agree, and I have respect for those who can do it. My stepdad being right up there at the top of the list.
Being a mother is pretty much a thankless job, but at least at the end of the day I'm still Mommy.
I feel bad sometimes cause my daughter gives him a hard time. I think it's taking her a minute to get used to sharing my attention with someone else.
I allow him the space to discipline and reprimand though.
I hear you, but you still chose to squirt out that lil crotchfruit didn't you? LOL
being a father is a thankless job since we gon keep heaping unnecessary praise up in here
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even the single parents r making the case for avoiding them... hilarious...
Not really making a case for anyone else but myself.
Trust me, I'd rather not have someone around my child that would rather be somewhere else as well.
But, havent really encountered too many women that have an issue with me having a kid. If they do, they can bounce. -
I agree, and I have respect for those who can do it. My stepdad being right up there at the top of the list.
Being a mother is pretty much a thankless job, but at least at the end of the day I'm still Mommy.
I feel bad sometimes cause my daughter gives him a hard time. I think it's taking her a minute to get used to sharing my attention with someone else.
I allow him the space to discipline and reprimand though.
Moms get 1000% more thanks than dads. Dont start that bs. -
blakfyahking wrote: »I hear you, but you still chose to squirt out that lil crotchfruit didn't you? LOL
being a father is a thankless job since we gon keep heaping unnecessary praise up in here
lol..yeah I did, just like you chose to wife up a woman that made the same choice.
When did you become a stepdaddy though? Was there a secret wedding I don't know about? -
I would not date a single parent, unless she gives me the space to be a real father.
Not a father of conveniece.
Not a "dont do this/dont say that/be like this with the child type ? . -
Moms get 1000% more thanks than dads. Dont start that bs.
Oh for real? And who is thanking me exactly? Maybe I'm not listening.
I'm not even expecting a thank you though..that will come when she gets older. Plus her sweet moments make all of it worth it. -
My moms ex was like this in a way, he said he wished my sister and I were dead. We always ? everything up, he was a control monster.
Although I learned some things from him that were positive, he was mostly a negative person. We had our times we got along but everything was our faults and we hated him and he hated us. I told him one day that I was gonna ? him in his sleep, he laughed.
But in the end he was ? when I told my mom he was cheating and he laid on the floor crying because she was gonna divorce him. (and she did)
When someone doesn't like the kid or feel responsible, they'll blame that kid for all the problems and talk down on them, I experienced it so this chick has gotta go. -
lol..yeah I did, just like you chose to wife up a woman that made the same choice.
When did you become a stepdaddy though? Was there a secret wedding I don't know about?
when did become a stepdaddy?
I'm still a single father shopping for a wife on the IC
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I'm always confused when dudes get aggy about single mothers
as if it's some law that you must ? a ? with a kid
stop thinking with your ? and you'll be alright
