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Loo.Loo
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Before she brings up that, "When will we make this official" talk?
I mean, I have to respect the fact that if you're seeing a woman, sexing and consumig alot of her time, she would eventually hit you with the "? or get off the ? " moment. especially if she's looking for something exclusive.
But in your opinion, whats a fair amount of time before you feel that talk is necessary.
I mean, I have to respect the fact that if you're seeing a woman, sexing and consumig alot of her time, she would eventually hit you with the "? or get off the ? " moment. especially if she's looking for something exclusive.
But in your opinion, whats a fair amount of time before you feel that talk is necessary.
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At lest 2 years.
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nah, not marriage.
an exclusive relationship.
but i agree. two years for engagement. -
2 years to figure out if you want a exculsive relationship?? Damn.
I say 6-7 months. That's plenty of time to figure if you want her as your girl or not... -
I would more agree with Kat. Most men put women in a certain category really quick.
Jumpoff, sidechick, potential girlfriend or whatever.
If a chick is in potential category, i'd say maybe 2-3months of dating is enough to know.
I've never messed with a chick for 6 months then upgraded her to wifey. thats a long time. -
I think by the 6 month mark at the very most... you should know if you want to be exclusive
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ItsKatBitches wrote: »
Before popping the question yes. ? if we cant be exclusive for at least two years then what the point of even dating someone who want to see other people? That's backassward. -
2-3 months is enough time?
I'm coming up on month 4 and I'm still not ready for that talk. -
ItsKatBitches wrote: »He meant when you first start dating though..how long would it take you to say to her, "Hey we're not going to be seeing other people..it's just me and you."??
Oh when I get that number we are exclusive. o_O. Naw for real thought at least 3 to four months but this can be adjusted according to feelings though. -
Time is such and arbitrary factor when it comes to relationships. It really shouldn't even be a factor. You should be planning your movements based on how you relate not how much time has been invested. But I guess using time for exclusivity is better than setting a time limit for sex as if waiting 3 months vs 2 months guarantees anything at all.
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I say 2-3 months for me only because I'm a pretty decent judge of character.
Thus far, my intuition on women I deem "wifeable" has been spot-on.
@MoodIndigo who is this loser you're dating, you were my e-boo we coulda had the world lol. -
Get your logic out of here.
Well this topic wasn't started by a female, so there is room for some logic in here right?
j/k ladies......sort of -
I say 2-3 months for me only because I'm a pretty decent judge of character.
Thus far, my intuition on women I deem "wifeable" has been spot-on.
@MoodIndigo who is this loser you're dating, you were my e-boo we coulda had the world lol.
Lol. He's cool, not a loser.
Anyway, you should record your voice in that thread so I can hear what you sound like.
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damn ...Im pushing a year and some change lmao
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HustleTree wrote: »damn ...Im pushing a year and some change lmao
Why so long? -
2-3 months.
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Mood Indigo wrote: »I say 2-3 months for me only because I'm a pretty decent judge of character.
Thus far, my intuition on women I deem "wifeable" has been spot-on.
@MoodIndigo who is this loser you're dating, you were my e-boo we coulda had the world lol.
Lol. He's cool, not a loser.
Anyway, you should record your voice in that thread so I can hear what you sound like.
I sound like a brother that has an education but'll still squeeze that ass so you know its real.
And you owe me a couple pics. Send those before you & ole buddy become official please.
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HustleTree wrote: »damn ...Im pushing a year and some change lmao
Damn. That's a good woman lmao. -
if she ? before things are exclusive, things wont become exclusive. simple story.
Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free? -
id say 3-4 months
2 years for engagement -
Couple months for exclusive...couple years for marriage.
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Loo.Loo wrote:Before she brings up that, "When will we make this official" talk?
I mean, I have to respect the fact that if you're seeing a woman, sexing and consumig alot of her time, she would eventually hit you with the "? or get off the ? " moment. especially if she's looking for something exclusive.
But in your opinion, whats a fair amount of time before you feel that talk is necessary.
~6 mos or so...
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i would say 1yr.
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lol @ kat....u on that b.s. that would run me off.....2 months?.....i dont know you!!! lol.....these days u just need more time than that....if i ever get back in that dating world i hate it for em smh...
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So what's a good time frame for you Haf?
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It depends on the woman... but I def need a buffer period.
I've had girls who were ready before I was ready .... and vice versa
