why are relationships so damn hard?
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IamtheVILLE
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for some reason (dont ask) im still with my chick and she gets mad at me cause i dont like to talk on the phone, go out with her, or nothing. then she tells me you have to try harder. (n/h) but im thinking to myself ? damn this ? is a lot of work. i cant understand why people would even think relationship. so why?
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You are gonna lose her..If that doesn't bother you than carry on but there is always someone out there willing to do what you wont.
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@Hustletree....took the words out my keyboard
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Another reason not to be so eager for a relationship .... getting all caught up on someone you might loose cause U dont like doing all the ? the partner wants u to do !!!
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That's why I don't do relationships. Too much ? work, not enough reward. Companionship is great, but after a while it gets ? annoying having someone around you all the time.
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it's called Women.. one thing i've learned about em' they take up a lot of time and attention.
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If yall dont talk on the phone like that or go out and do ? thats not your girl, yall are just FWB
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Because women be wantin' men to jump through hoops.
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Because its not natural.
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@kat- i dont know. i guess im used to her being around. i hate change. and no we dont have kids together. thank ? . so what should i do? its hard to let her go cause that means i got to find another chick even though i dont even ? her anymore. gone holler you must be ? somebody else cause you aint ? me. lol.
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Is TS another alias of this Kane character?
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HustleTree wrote: »You are gonna lose her..If that doesn't bother you than carry on but there is always someone out there willing to do what you wont.
^^^this...
they are hard becuz they take actual work...i dont think people realize this...
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why did he put a no ? in his post? are dudes that insecure? he's talkin bout his girl n put no ? da ?
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2nd chances wrote: »why did he put a no ? in his post? are dudes that insecure? he's talkin bout his girl n put no ? da ?
this the IC lol
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Anything worth having you have to put work in to it. Relationships are no different. It shouldn't be just you putting in work though. Your girl gotta meet you half way.
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? all that ? . if you struggling to do basic things (talk to your ? the regular) you need to just break up. you don't need to be in a relationship.
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Im curious as too what you guys do then....? you dont talk, go out , ? , or any of that
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I think pics are in order.
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ItsKatBitches wrote: »She must not have options if she's sticking around for that..no sex either? Hell nah.
kat?
...damn at that avi
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It sounds like you have absolutely no interest in her. If you don't want to do the minimum then let her go. Leading her on will only end badly.
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son gives no ? ...
Hey yo, is it cool if another ? ? her but i tell her she stays with u anyway?? -
im with you on the talking too damn much on the phone part
some ? just love to talk on the phone for hours..
i dont think ive ever had convo longer than 30 minutes onthe phone and these ? want to stay ont he phone for like an hour 2 hours...
wtf yall talking about for 2 hours?
dont fkking call me everyday neither... -
Dump her, it's summer time ? .
I'm back on my anti relationship ? after my last breakup. I'm done yo. Too much stress, too much ? . Not enough reward in being tied down to one person -
2nd chances wrote: »im with you on the talking too damn much on the phone part
some ? just love to talk on the phone for hours..
i dont think ive ever had convo longer than 30 minutes onthe phone and these ? want to stay ont he phone for like an hour 2 hours...
wtf yall talking about for 2 hours?
dont fkking call me everyday neither...
really @ the bolded, when my man and i were dating, he'd get upset if i didn't call him everyday
kai...these dudes are young...
my advice to all young bruhs: DO NOT GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS!
you are young live your life...why do you wanna go thru college tied down? immediately after college you'll finally be making $$$ and have your own spot...so dont get tied down then neither...
wait til youre in your mid 30s before you tie yourself down.
i know this from personal experience. take heed
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ItsKatBitches wrote: »
What does "try harder" mean to her though ?
She was interested in dude for some reason before and now that's probably not good enough ? If they were never talking on the phone and going out before then she can't expect that ? now - even though it's normal for some people.
Thing is yall chicks be listening to your friends or tryin' to change a man or force a dude to do ? he doesn't want to and if he doesn't do it, he's suddenly "immature" or whatever. It takes two. -
because nothing is ever black and white with ? , you always have to opporate in the gray area and be a psychic. I blame society because it put rules on females and they don't ever feel like they can speak their mind and be themselves.
