Your Daughter is 14-15 Years Old. Find Out She's Pregnant.
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Lou Cypher
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What do you as a mother/father do?
My step dad has this brother whos real religious with his wife and kids. Now 16 year old daughter just gave birth. Since they found out about the pregnancy the whole family except my mom and step dad has labeled her as a devil spawn/Liar/? . She wont tell her dad who the father is because he has already went and knocked on several of her guy friends houses with thoughts of doing harm to them. At first she was going to give the baby up for adoption but as soon as she had it she changed her mind. Now her parents are considering Adopting it and raising it as their own child making her the sister. Real dumb things imo. But as a parent how would you react? I myself would be ? at her and at the boy but since i dont have any kids i cant say for sure what i would do.
My step dad has this brother whos real religious with his wife and kids. Now 16 year old daughter just gave birth. Since they found out about the pregnancy the whole family except my mom and step dad has labeled her as a devil spawn/Liar/? . She wont tell her dad who the father is because he has already went and knocked on several of her guy friends houses with thoughts of doing harm to them. At first she was going to give the baby up for adoption but as soon as she had it she changed her mind. Now her parents are considering Adopting it and raising it as their own child making her the sister. Real dumb things imo. But as a parent how would you react? I myself would be ? at her and at the boy but since i dont have any kids i cant say for sure what i would do.
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Just abort the ? out of it, and keep it moving.
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If she was still pregnant - abortion.
After the baby is already born, I don't really care what she does as long as I'm not supporting it.
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I'd be ? and that's an understatement. I'd advise against adoption and abortion but still let her choose. And I'm not waking up at 3am when the baby cries, she is. Id make her finish school and no more football games or parties cuz grandma ain't no babysitter.
If I had a daughter she getting birth control as soon as her period starts and not the pill either. -
I normally wouldnt co-sign abortion, but 14 is too young. Id have her abort it.. But yea fam, them extra religous people dont see that alot of the time they do more harm than good...
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I'd pray she falls down a flight of stairs.
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Abortion.
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i'd be disappointed more than angry...but abortion wouldn't be an option
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ADOPT THE BABY, SO THE BABY CAN BE HER SISTER??OKKKKKAAYYYYYYYYY
MAKE HER AND THE BOY TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD.. PLAIN AND SIMPLE
AND IF IT WAS MY DAUGHTER, I WOULD BE HURT, ? .. BUT SHE GONE TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD -
I would take custody of the child and her hold extremely accountable and tell her to finish school and college and get a job and she will get custody of the child, but she is doing all the motherly duties and she will have to stay with me, so I can supervise her.
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A to the b to the ortion
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Classic religious family. Anything that goes wrong is the devil and people are perfect.
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I'll take care of the baby financially but im not babysitting or doing anything else. She go understand that her social life has ended at a very young age
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Ajackson17 wrote: »I would take custody of the child and her hold extremely accountable and tell her to finish school and college and get a job and she will get custody of the child, but she is doing all the motherly duties and she will have to stay with me, so I can supervise her.
THAT AINT GONE WORK... WHY TAKE CUSTODY??? SHE STILL NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF THAT CHILD WHEN SHE GETS HOME FROM SCHOOL AND WHAT NOT.. CUSTODY WILL HAVE HER THINKING THAT SHE CAN JUST GO OUT AND DO THE SAME THANG AGAIN...BASICALLY NO PUNISHMENT -
give it up for adoption
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freehuey89 wrote: »give it up for adoption
black kids are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to adoption..people would rather adopt a special needs child than a black kid..sad but true -
Kick her in the stomach.
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accidentally push her down a flight of stairs
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What much more important is the fact that the kid had the baby this is Lous cry for help he outchea shook her pappy about to bestow an ass whipping of biblical proportion upon him
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I'll support my daughter
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Abortion.
I have no problem with abortion.
I was 17 and my wife was 16 when our daughter was born, we didn't consider an abortion. I am glad we didn't, but it was one hell of an experience being that young. We had a HUGE family support system though, it was ridiculous how well we were supported and how well off we ended up being.
Reason I say abortion though, for one, she's too young. She needs to focus on schooling and not raising a child. I am NOT going to raise her child for her after I've already went through doing 4 kids. If she was finished with schooling and needed help, I would definitely help her but I will not raise the child as if it's my own while she still runs around acting like a child. My wife and I grew up fast as ? , that was NO fun. We missed out on a lot of stuff because of our baby, because we decided to be parents rather than children.
It's just not a good situation, especially if she ends up having an absent boyfriend.
What if she wants to keep the child? To be honest, I don't know. I say right now, "I don't care, I'd abort it", but at the time of the situation, I'm not sure. Things would have to play out right in order for me to say "no" to an abortion.
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