Paying for a movie ticket
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coop9889
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Short question for the thread:
Do you ? always pay for the girl at the movies, or sometimes, or what?
Backstory that makes me ask the question:
Hit a chick up like u tryna go see Django? She like, yeah.
We get there and shes in front of me and when cashier's like "next" she kinda hesitated and looked back at me.
So I walk past, "one for django please". No ? given.
Chick is like a 7 on a good day, I haven't really tried hard to smash, dont know her that well, just wanted to go see django wit someone.
She thinks im in the wrong.
? that.
It's not that I don't have the money... i just know you start paying for ? she gon expect you to pay for everything. I aint having it.
Do you ? always pay for the girl at the movies, or sometimes, or what?
Backstory that makes me ask the question:
Hit a chick up like u tryna go see Django? She like, yeah.
We get there and shes in front of me and when cashier's like "next" she kinda hesitated and looked back at me.
So I walk past, "one for django please". No ? given.
Chick is like a 7 on a good day, I haven't really tried hard to smash, dont know her that well, just wanted to go see django wit someone.
She thinks im in the wrong.
? that.
It's not that I don't have the money... i just know you start paying for ? she gon expect you to pay for everything. I aint having it.
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Self-entitled ? .
I'm kidding but yeah it didn't even sound like it was a real date or anything. -
nope...? like 9 dollars a pop
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If u asked then u kind of have to.
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That's why I always bring money with me.
who was paying for what should have been discussed -
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she thought that was a date homie...how u gonna ask a female to go with you and expect her to pay lol
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I pay. Whether it's a friend or someone i'm interested in. I pay, or at least offer to pay at the least, b/c girls talk.
I'm not trying to talk to a girl down the road only to find out she talked to some girl i know from before who was offended I didn't pay for a ticket.
You're not paying for her. You're paying for your reputation. At least that's how i see it. -
No bootleg?
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Yeah...I mean, when I initiate some ? like that...I pretty much assume I'm payin unless we establish otherwise beforehand...If she initiates, she should assume the same...Now if I offer to pay, and she says "I got mine, it's okay"...She just might get her ? ate...
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if u ask ur homeboi to roll with u to the movies...he aint gonna look for u to pay...hoes shouldnt be assuming its a date
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freehuey89 wrote: »she thought that was a date homie...how u gonna ask a female to go with you and expect her to pay lol
? that. We met up at the movies cuz she like 45 mins out so we picked one in between us. Went out for drinks after and thats when she brought it up and im like "girl this aint no date" -
@twinzmom Gon head...Offer to pay...See what happens...
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whoever asks out should cash out
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Do what I do pay for the cheapest part of the date (tickets)and stiff her on drinks or dinner. Lol
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Girl you trying to go out with - I'll pay
Girl you trying to smash - we go dutch!!! -
Yes ? . If I invite a woman to the movies, I pay. Who raised you ? ?
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I ain't payin unless it's a ? that already spends on a ? . Don't want to give ? the wrong idea about ? .
Problem is too many chicks "expect" a guy to pay so being nice ain't even an option. -
My ? K Dee and Bootsy and Ice Cube gonna have to tell y'all ? .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VOr_ciHOrjc
SMH at y'all hitch hiking hoes on the freeway of love. -
If u asked then u kind of have to.
NOsign on the "have to" Co-Sign on what you really meant lol
If you ask a lady out because you are showing interest you should pay. If you ask her out as a friend SHE should pay. She was hesitant cuz she was raised right ? LOL If a dude asked my daughter out and she ended up paying I'd cuss her ass out. Somebody asked you out and YOU paid for the ? date? What kinda dumb ? did I raise? -
CopperKing wrote: »if u ask ur homeboi to roll with u to the movies...he aint gonna look for u to pay...hoes shouldnt be assuming its a date
? the only way a dude even starts talking to a female is if at one point he wants something sexual. Can we stop pretending males & females can be JUST FRIENDS? Thanx...
Eventually somebody gonna end up, wanted to end up, or ALMOST ended up ? ...So yes when a female is asked out she naturally assumes the guy is interested. I know I aint never asked no ugly ? to go to the movies with me. -
If my boys ask me to roll to the game, does that mean they buying my ticket ?
? need to stop coddling these hoes.
This ain't the day and age of bringing fruits and jewelry to a ? 's father to trade for his daughter (not in the US anyway). 2 working adults should be able to afford there own entertainment, unless she truly just ain't want to go and is just doing it for you - or like ? said, if you just straight up offer to trick pay. -
T/s just said he wasnt really tryna ? ....he just didnt wanna roll solo
Ive been out with females numerous of times I wasnt tryna ? -
CopperKing wrote: »T/s just said he wasnt really tryna ? ....he just didnt wanna roll solo
Ive been out with females numerous of times I wasnt tryna ?
That's fine. But you can't be shocked she expected him to pay. I've been to the movies who I wasn't trying to ? . They was just my people. Hit 'em with the 'And I hope you don't think I'm paying and ? ! Na son!'
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Idk how to feel about this . Like chicken legs said ,? should of been disscussed at least. And other posters made great points.
Quick question @coop who paid for her drinks?
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I make Pico pay all the time , she knows not to complain.