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alvarez_313
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What's up with the selective hearing\memory thing? This chick at work started talking to me and we had a fun conversation.. During that light hearted conversation she dropped a lil question to see my relationship status.. She said something like "man I bet your wife is always laughing with you around" and I was like "yeah I'm silly like that all the time".. So we've been talking for several days now, nothing romantic just jokes and ? to make the day go by faster.. So yesterday she asks "when are you inviting me over for dinner?" and I'm like "huh? ummm...".. So today she asks if I wanna go for drinks after work one day, I say yeah that's cool.. Then she says "just to be clear. are you married or in a relationship?" so I remind her that I already said yeah.. Now she's acting like I never told her.. The ? is that about? And why would she care anyway seeing as NONE of our conversations have hinted on dating, ? , hooking up or anything like that?
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Well she was obviously feeling you.
Now she's just trying to save face cause you shot her down
She probably knew you were married the whole time ..... -
I don't think she interpreted "yeah I'm silly like that all the time" as "I have a wife".
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She's fishing..watch yourself.
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Watch yourself brotha
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She's tryna trip you, and then have you fall in her ? . lol she want that dih
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You don't wear a ring?
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I don't wear a ring...
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Mmhmm..enough said.
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She a hoe..? her
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Why would you agree to go have drinks with another woman? That's a major no-no.
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Gallivanting...
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I love that ? ? ...
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this ? dumb
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"if you gon ? that hoe, then gon head and get some head too, and gon head and ? her friends too" - Webbie
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Dark skinned Latinas >>>
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Skyler White wrote: »
I was thinking the same thing.Iheart~Cali wrote: »Why would you agree to go have drinks with another woman? That's a major no-no.
your wife cool with you gallivanting with a female coworker?
sounds like you've been throwing her signals for a while now
I've gone and had drinks etc with a LOT of people here, I work in a political environment so that's not irregular. I wear my ring everyday without fail. I can see the point that maybe I could've been more clear about having a wife, I guess since it's not my intention to ? with her like that I didn't pay it much mind at the time. Thanx yall make some good points.. I'm gonna tell her we can't kick it on anything besides work cause this morning I woke up to a text informing me that she sleeps in short shorts and a tank top... We aren't on the same page.. -
wtf..? needs to fall all the way back. Trifling ass.
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I mean why would she even feel like it would be appropriate to send a co-worker something like that unless she felt it hade been taken to that level.
You aren't fibbing about your own actions are you? Something isn't right here. -
No @mzgrahambitches I'm tellin the story just as it's happening.. Another thing I found strange was about ten minutes ago I get a message from her saying "thanks for being honest, I just like to know what I'm getting myself into".. WTF is she getting herself into? I swear you just can't be nice to some muhfukkas... I literally have said NOTHING romantically or any sexual innuendo to her.. This is not a case of her being led on.. I'm bout to disable all her ? lol (I.T. Gawd).. Nah but real talk I'm just gonna not talk, email nor text anymore unless it's about her job duties.. Nip this in the bud..
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Um, you need to do more than ignore her, you need to set her fast ass straight.
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True true.. I'mma try this new thing I learned called tact lol.. I'm gonna say something like "listen. I ain't ? with you like that. Understand? Have a good day" (that's the tact part).. It always amazes me how people create existences in their own mind which becomes their reality..
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I mean that was really forward of her..who is to say your wife doesn't check your phone? She could have got you in a world of trouble over nothing.
But I agree, almost makes it easier to just stick to yourself when it comes to the opposite sex. -
or you could just get some head
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In my old days (last year) I would've got that by now lol... Guess I'm growin up... blehor you could just get some head
