so how can a beta male turn into an alpha male?

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IamtheVILLE
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man im tired of being weak. i want to be an alpha so the ? come flockin. any suggestions?
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  • VIBE
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  • VIBE
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    Be like Lil Wayne.
  • SleepwalkingInJapan
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    this thread is an oxy ?

  • Crude_
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    First step is quit asking ? on the IC how to be an alpha male.

    Second step, be your own man and walk by the sound of your own beat.

    Don't pay attention to what other ? do and do what works for you.

    With those quick and easy steps you will be on your way to being a real ? /alpha male.
  • Premeer
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    i think you are who you are... if you have a dominating personality, then you are born with that. you cant manufacture that cuz its noticeable you just look corny like you trying too hard.

    me? im short but i been told i have a aggressive vibe.. whatever that pose to mean. i dont think so. im quiet most the time but confident all the time. but i dont know if that makes me a alpha. it just makes me me.

    but if you want to be the "alpha".. then chalk all your friends and recruit a new team where you the boss... would be my only suggestion that might work.
  • IamtheVILLE
    IamtheVILLE Members Posts: 2,701 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    damn i aint ? .
  • Ioniz3dSPIRITZ
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    the whole alpha/beta male is irrelevant in today's culture and society.Popular culture has already defined what an "alpha" male is suppose to be. Rude,violent,obnoxious,loud,flamboyant etc. It's impossible to find the true definition of an alpha male in a society that knows nothing of nor would appreciate the sanctity of manhood. So instead of focusing pointless terms like "beta" or "alpha" just be a man and be able to hold your own. Take accountability for your own decisions and pursue whatever it is you desire with persistence and dedication.
  • Dr.Chemix
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    If you're Pelle Pelle aka Nike Kotex aka Internet Thug needs a hug...there's no hope

    But if you not...you will be aight
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  • Premeer
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    the whole alpha/beta male is irrelevant in today's culture and society.Popular culture has already defined what an "alpha" male is suppose to be. Rude,violent,obnoxious,loud,flamboyant etc. It's impossible to find the true definition of an alpha male in a society that knows nothing of nor would appreciate the sanctity of manhood. So instead of focusing pointless terms like "beta" or "alpha" just be a man and be able to hold your own. Take accountability for your own decisions and pursue whatever it is you desire with persistence and dedication.
    WRONG!!!

    Alpha Males

    Takes care of home.
    Takes care of family.
    That ? that is reliable enough for his sisters to send their fatherless sons to him to help them grow into a man.

    That dude that keeps a roof over his just in case his fam shooting bad.
    A born leader, one that has command presence and want falter at the slightest sign of adversity.

    A provider.

    what you described was a real MAN.. not necessarily a "alpha male".
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  • Valentinez A. Kaiser
    Valentinez A. Kaiser Members Posts: 9,028 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    3p505j.jpg

    DON'T BE DRAKE...

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  • Chase N Bundlez
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    the whole alpha/beta male is irrelevant in today's culture and society.Popular culture has already defined what an "alpha" male is suppose to be. Rude,violent,obnoxious,loud,flamboyant etc. It's impossible to find the true definition of an alpha male in a society that knows nothing of nor would appreciate the sanctity of manhood. So instead of focusing pointless terms like "beta" or "alpha" just be a man and be able to hold your own. Take accountability for your own decisions and pursue whatever it is you desire with persistence and dedication.
    WRONG!!!

    Alpha Males

    Takes care of home.
    Takes care of family.
    That ? that is reliable enough for his sisters to send their fatherless sons to him to help them grow into a man.

    That dude that keeps a roof over his just in case his fam shooting bad.
    A born leader, one that has command presence and want falter at the slightest sign of adversity.

    A provider.

    FOH with that ? , all it takes is for u to lose ur job and u wont be doin any of that ? anymore...you'd just be a beta stay at home dad watching the kids and making dinner for when ur wife comes home after a long days work.
  • bigstevie
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  • Ajackson17
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    Cosign everything Jamel said.
  • SupremeMagnetic
    SupremeMagnetic Members Posts: 710 ✭✭✭
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    shoot a ? . ? love ? in jail. ask any hoodrat
  • Chase N Bundlez
    Chase N Bundlez Members Posts: 5,040 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    U wanna be an alpha male lil ? , get money!

    After that everything else falls into place, the ? a wanna be with u, and ? a wanna be like u.

    ? dont give a ? bout no broke ? feeding his family getting by day to day.

    /thread.
  • Ioniz3dSPIRITZ
    Ioniz3dSPIRITZ Members Posts: 3,985 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    the whole alpha/beta male is irrelevant in today's culture and society.Popular culture has already defined what an "alpha" male is suppose to be. Rude,violent,obnoxious,loud,flamboyant etc. It's impossible to find the true definition of an alpha male in a society that knows nothing of nor would appreciate the sanctity of manhood. So instead of focusing pointless terms like "beta" or "alpha" just be a man and be able to hold your own. Take accountability for your own decisions and pursue whatever it is you desire with persistence and dedication.
    WRONG!!!

    Alpha Males

    Takes care of home.
    Takes care of family.
    That ? that is reliable enough for his sisters to send their fatherless sons to him to help them grow into a man.

    That dude that keeps a roof over his just in case his fam shooting bad.
    A born leader, one that has command presence and want falter at the slightest sign of adversity.

    A provider.

    My dude I agree with all of those things stated. The point I was trying to get across is that we should focus less on being "alpha" males and more so on what it means to be a man. Accepting responsibility, accountability, reliability is something we should all be striving for instead of being a so called "alpha" male. I'd like to believe that what you described is the true definition of an alpha male however I doubt most people would be able to recognize this as so.
  • Premeer
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    100 Prime wrote: »
    the whole alpha/beta male is irrelevant in today's culture and society.Popular culture has already defined what an "alpha" male is suppose to be. Rude,violent,obnoxious,loud,flamboyant etc. It's impossible to find the true definition of an alpha male in a society that knows nothing of nor would appreciate the sanctity of manhood. So instead of focusing pointless terms like "beta" or "alpha" just be a man and be able to hold your own. Take accountability for your own decisions and pursue whatever it is you desire with persistence and dedication.
    WRONG!!!

    Alpha Males

    Takes care of home.
    Takes care of family.
    That ? that is reliable enough for his sisters to send their fatherless sons to him to help them grow into a man.

    That dude that keeps a roof over his just in case his fam shooting bad.
    A born leader, one that has command presence and want falter at the slightest sign of adversity.

    A provider.

    what you described was a real MAN.. not necessarily a "alpha male".

    THE ? IS THE GOTDAMN DIFFERENCE?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!

    never mind. i read your whole post this time. you got it. cant refute that.
  • Premeer
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    the whole alpha/beta male is irrelevant in today's culture and society.Popular culture has already defined what an "alpha" male is suppose to be. Rude,violent,obnoxious,loud,flamboyant etc. It's impossible to find the true definition of an alpha male in a society that knows nothing of nor would appreciate the sanctity of manhood. So instead of focusing pointless terms like "beta" or "alpha" just be a man and be able to hold your own. Take accountability for your own decisions and pursue whatever it is you desire with persistence and dedication.
    WRONG!!!

    Alpha Males

    Takes care of home.
    Takes care of family.
    That ? that is reliable enough for his sisters to send their fatherless sons to him to help them grow into a man.

    That dude that keeps a roof over his just in case his fam shooting bad.
    A born leader, one that has command presence and wont falter at the slightest sign of adversity.

    A provider.

    what validates this post is the highlighted.
    although it aint everything that a alpha is, but it sums it up.
  • Recaptimus_Prime360
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    Thread title should be changed to "How To Be A Man"
  • Trollio
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    Yo mother failed you