If your girl or wife cheats on you with a woman would you still consider it cheating?
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death187sin
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My cousin (female) was married for 11 years and never really told her husband that she used to go both ways. Recently she reconnected with a female she used to mess with back in the day and started back messing with her behind her husbands back and he found out. I know what yall saying "he should of joined in blah blah" but my cousin and the other chick aren't exactly what us men would fantasize about when it comes to lezzies..
She doesn't see anything wrong with this because it wasn't a man. He sees everything wrong with it because it's a violation of trust and was never discussed prior. I have to agree with HIM on this one.
What do yall think?
She doesn't see anything wrong with this because it wasn't a man. He sees everything wrong with it because it's a violation of trust and was never discussed prior. I have to agree with HIM on this one.
What do yall think?
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Cheating is cheating no matter what.
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*lurks*
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it aint cheating if there was no ? ? .
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yea she might be able to slide if the ? was fine...but hell naw if its a old manly lookin ass stud broad.....i'll beat her his ass....#gutpunchesandtittytwisters
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NAW.. I DONT SHARE.... SHE CHEAT, IM GONE!
I WAS GONE MAKE THIS THREAD LAST WEEK.. SMH....
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HAF BAYKED wrote: »yea she might be able to slide if the ? was fine...but hell naw if its a old manly lookin ass stud broad.....i'll beat her his ass....#gutpunchesandtittytwisters
Judging from the T/S post i can tell they are the man lookin ones wit dreds and reek of black & milds.
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Nope,
my girl got a girlfriend..... -
So you sayin cousin not good lookin cool.....if she manly and he still married her he knew what was up.
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So the question is if my woman has sex with someone other than me...do I consider it cheating?
Yes, ? . -
Cheating is cheating regardless.
I could make a good argument for her cheating with a woman actually being worse than her cheating with a man.
Thats probably another conversation for another thread though. -
How would a woman be worse than a man? I'm curious.
And keep it short MFer.
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DOC H0LL!DAY wrote: »HAF BAYKED wrote: »yea she might be able to slide if the ? was fine...but hell naw if its a old manly lookin ass stud broad.....i'll beat her his ass....#gutpunchesandtittytwisters
Judging from the T/S post i can tell they are the man lookin ones wit dreds and reek of black & milds.
lmao.....yuck.....polos, adidas, fake jewels, & sweat bands -
death187sin wrote: »My cousin (female) was married for 11 years and never really told her husband that she used to go both ways. Recently she reconnected with a female she used to mess with back in the day and started back messing with her behind her husbands back and he found out. I know what yall saying "he should of joined in blah blah" but my cousin and the other chick aren't exactly what us men would fantasize about when it comes to lezzies..
She doesn't see anything wrong with this because it wasn't a man. He sees everything wrong with it because it's a violation of trust and was never discussed prior. I have to agree with HIM on this one.
What do yall think?
There you have your answer.
That is what cheating is, a lie, therefore the gender of who the s/o is cheating with is irrelevant. -
Louisiana Crude wrote: »Cheating is cheating regardless.
I could make a good argument for her cheating with a woman actually being worse than her cheating with a man.
Thats probably another conversation for another thread though.
How so? -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »How would a woman be worse than a man? I'm curioIus.
And keep it short MFer.
lol
The level of deception and mistrust can be much higher in a situation like that. You wouldn't think that girl that go and get her nails and hair done wit ya girl be the one sexin her every time they together. ? can happen right under ya nose. -
HAF BAYKED wrote: »DOC H0LL!DAY wrote: »HAF BAYKED wrote: »yea she might be able to slide if the ? was fine...but hell naw if its a old manly lookin ass stud broad.....i'll beat her his ass....#gutpunchesandtittytwisters
Judging from the T/S post i can tell they are the man lookin ones wit dreds and reek of black & milds.
lmao.....yuck.....polos, adidas, fake jewels, & sweat bands
LMAOO oversized jeans wit a abundant amount of pockets on them. silver thumb rings and du-rags. -
so with that theory, you would let a man go all the way up to eating your chick out before considering it cheating?DOC H0LL!DAY wrote: »it aint cheating if there was no ? ? .
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ROZAYTABERNACLE wrote: »
so with that theory, you would let a man go all the way up to eating your chick out before considering it cheating?DOC H0LL!DAY wrote: »it aint cheating if there was no ? ? .
yeah
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Yes, we're done
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I'd still consider it cheating, but it probably varies how a guy would feel about it. Some would probably feel like "what did I do to turn her lesbian?", some probably wouldn't care cause it's not another man.
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well, if the girls she's messing with is sexy and isn't a bull ? and if she join in on the fun or at least let me be a spectator then its all gravy. lipstick lesbians ftw!
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death187sin wrote: »My cousin (female) was married for 11 years and never really told her husband that she used to go both ways. Recently she reconnected with a female she used to mess with back in the day and started back messing with her behind her husbands back and he found out. I know what yall saying "he should of joined in blah blah" but my cousin and the other chick aren't exactly what us men would fantasize about when it comes to lezzies..
She doesn't see anything wrong with this because it wasn't a man. He sees everything wrong with it because it's a violation of trust and was never discussed prior. I have to agree with HIM on this one.
What do yall think?
There you have your answer.
That is what cheating is, a lie, therefore the gender of who the s/o is cheating with is irrelevant.
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »How would a woman be worse than a man? I'm curious.
And keep it short MFer.
lol
Kat ass dont like to read on a message board.
The irony in that.
It would be worse because you as a man not only have to worry about her being unfaithful with a man, but you'd have to worry about her being unfaithful with women as well.
Realistically she could be sleeping with anyone man or woman.
At least with the opposite sex that interaction could be somewhat monitored.
If she ? men and women that means everyone is fair game.
Realistically you cant stop anyone from cheating but add those varibles and the situation becomes worse imo.
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scottie pimpin' wrote: »well, if the girls she's messing with is sexy and isn't a bull ? and if she join in on the fun or at least let me be a spectator then its all gravy. lipstick lesbians ftw!
lol
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Louisiana Crude wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »How would a woman be worse than a man? I'm curious.
And keep it short MFer.
lol
Kat ass dont like to read on a message board.
The irony in that.
It would be worse because you as a man not only have to worry about her being unfaithful with a man, but you'd have to worry about her being unfaithful with women as well.
Realistically she could be sleeping with anyone man or woman.
At least with the opposite sex that interaction could be somewhat monitored.
If she ? men and women that means everyone is fair game.
Realistically you cant stop anyone from cheating but add those varibles and the situation becomes worse imo.
lol..I went in that Tell the Truth thread and I was like damnnnn @ at all the words. I like to read your posts though
But yeah I can see your point.
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