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naomi shambles
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My childrens father is 52..19 years older than me. We have two little girls together 6 and 8. We have lived together 10 yrs. For the last 6 yrs i have been the sole financial provider...he left trucking after blood clots. I paid all bills by myself while he hung out all night cheated and lied. He ended up getting arrested a couple of times last year for scrap metal theft and spent some time in jail..a month. Fast forward a year later his hustle is selling cds and dvds. He makes about a 100 or so a day. He has a 10 drawer duplicator. I always have to ask for money instead of him volunteering knowing i have to pay bills. Hes very secretive with his money. Sometimes he will give me a hundred sometimes not...says he doesnt have it. He will also buy groceries for the house. He also cheats and stays out all night and the children are sad because hes not at the dinner table having dinner with us. I am moving away without him. Should i just do things on my own or file for child support. He is on 5 yrs of probation and 5000 in fines. He basically lived off me and says he has no where to go. I work and always have. Long story...sorry
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Might get interesting.
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If you don't think he'll willingly give it to you then file for child support. Have the convo first.....
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damn ? 52, you was twerking at the old folks home for a sugar daddy
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Women shouldn't have to force a man to handle theirs, but its up to you...seem like he already struggling as it is tho
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You got kids by a 52yr old Plap ? ?
Smh you're gonna kick the ? out and raise your kids also make better choices with whom you have kids by.
that ? so old he make you feel young again -
Sounds like you are already taking care of your kids by yourself anyway, so you might as well file. Don't think you're going to get much tho....
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Sounds like you picked a winner.
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another cainism
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naomi shambles wrote: »My childrens father is 52..19 years older than me. We have two little girls together 6 and 8. We have lived together 10 yrs. For the last 6 yrs i have been the sole financial provider...he left trucking after blood clots. I paid all bills by myself while he hung out all night cheated and lied. He ended up getting arrested a couple of times last year for scrap metal theft and spent some time in jail..a month. Fast forward a year later his hustle is selling cds and dvds. He makes about a 100 or so a day. He has a 10 drawer duplicator. I always have to ask for money instead of him volunteering knowing i have to pay bills. Hes very secretive with his money. Sometimes he will give me a hundred sometimes not...says he doesnt have it. He will also buy groceries for the house. He also cheats and stays out all night and the children are sad because hes not at the dinner table having dinner with us. I am moving away without him. Should i just do things on my own or file for child support. He is on 5 yrs of probation and 5000 in fines. He basically lived off me and says he has no where to go. I work and always have. Long story...sorry
I had to do the disturbing math for myself on that one ...
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T/s ma what u lookn like?
I dont need viagra and i got good credit
If u a fat black woman we just gona lock this thread up -
Damn i just read it u let a old bummy ? knock u up...
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Im sorry bout yo life sound ? ! Lol
How he gona give u child support if he pirate cds n dvds!! Bruh hahaha -
hit the road jack
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Ya ? ain't worth salt
Shawty outchea on some dope fiend ?
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When i met him he was 42 a commercial truck driver making 1000 or more a week...he wad nothing like he is now...5 to 6 years later develops blood clots has to come out of truck and went downhill fom there.
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thread like this is the reason why I always flush my condoms down the toilet before I leave a bopper's house
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if he can barely take care of himself...why are you worried about support?
he cant give it to you. all you will do is make him go to jail where he is already headed.
he sounds like he was already an aint ? ? and must have laid the pip right an you forgot or thought it would get better.
shawty...i have no sorrow for you. you asked for this. no take care of them children yourself. otherwise..you will expose them to something they may become one day because you are making it ok to be an aint ? ? .
raise them yourself and have them see or be around positive male influences. maybe you will find a dude close to your age that wont be a ? -
T. Sanford wrote: »thread like this is the reason why I always flush my condoms down the toilet before I leave a bopper's house
tied in a knot and wrapped in toilet paper to help weight it down
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Can't take drain blood from a stone.
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You were 23 and he was 42 when ya'll met. I can't knock him or any older guy for getting some young ass. He was making decent money so he wasn't a ? but if you knew he was out playing around then shame on you for sticking with him. If you thought things were well and didn't know he was playing around then can't fault you for that.
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naomi shambles wrote: »My childrens father is 52..19 years older than me. We have two little girls
together 6 and 8. We have lived together 10 yrs. For the last 6 yrs i have been the sole financial
provider...he left trucking after blood clots. I paid all bills by myself while he hung out all night cheated
and lied. He ended up getting arrested a couple of times last year for scrap metal theft and spent some
time in jail..a month. Fast forward a year later his hustle is selling cds and dvds. He makes about a 100 or
so a day. He has a 10 drawer duplicator. I always have to ask for money instead of him volunteering
knowing i have to pay bills. Hes very secretive with his money. Sometimes he will give me a hundred
sometimes not...says he doesnt have it. He will also buy groceries for the house. He also cheats and stays
out all night and the children are sad because hes not at the dinner table having dinner with us. I am
moving away without him. Should i just do things on my own or file for child support. He is on 5 yrs of
probation and 5000 in fines. He basically lived off me and says he has no where to go. I work and always
have. Long story...sorry
@naomishambles I wont even lie, I stopped reading at My children's father is 52
? Damn
This might be interesting
I just read the rest, and that's... Sad
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? smells trollific.
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s_a_m_r_i_o wrote: »You were 23 and he was 42 when ya'll met. I can't knock him or any older guy for getting some young ass.
INB4 deadeye posts the "oldhead in the club" pic.
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So he giving you money (when he got it) but you still want to get him for child support ?
Kind of ? up.
You knew that dude was an old scrap-metal stealing crackhead from the jump - not king of a metal empire.
