Is your s/o where they need to be at life?
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Are you dating someone or in a relationship where your stuff is together but your partner's isn't? You're at 85-100% while they're at 50-85%? Are you the one playing catch up? I ask this because it's possible that when you're fully where you want to be at the moment, your s/o could bring or slow you down because they have bad habits to break, not handling money right or don't have the right attitude to strive forward. If you're at the 85-100% level, you would want someone at your level or a little higher. Even if you're at 100% you should continue to go higher. My lady was doing well before she met me and doing better.
So what things you or your s/o needed to work on, how they brought you up or down?
So what things you or your s/o needed to work on, how they brought you up or down?
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This isnt about bad habits.. My life was never green. I from the streets on the come up and someone has set me up. So some others went before o.k o.k they got famous.. someone look around tho. .what the hell is going on why I'm typing on the messageboard... oh because I'm highschool and unemployed.. Those small thinkers need to grow up..... not me.... I've made plenty successful moves.. while typing on the internet.. I just did not get famous.. WHY??? it look unsafe.
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Nosey ? thread foh this ain't the Dr.Phil show.
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*farts in thread and leaves thread*
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some people think everyone life was green 1 step away from fame, and people just like joking around on the net and posing on facebook because they unemployed and their parents take care of them.. people work on the INTERNET. sites like these are for hobbys.. but not every site on the INTERNET.. and everyone on the internet isnt unemployed, or broke.
I use the INTERNET for a lot of business purposes as well. -
I roll dolo from State to State
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Bachelors life
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most likely post like this aims at the famous vs the non famous people.. and the young minds who think that attention means that the person has superseded others who are un-noticed.. I judge growth and development by behavior mentality not FAME. I'm looking at who is famous and what they are famous for representing. I see a superstar trick on the front of the mag, I do not feel like I am behind her.. because I am comparing MENTALITY. & you have to be more mature to survive on this level than a super star level, because it takes MORE WORK to manage your life.
Un-noticed everyday people do all the hard work. -
My woman supports me
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dont put a expectation on anyone until you know where they come from. Not just hood talk, I'm talking about EVERYTHING THEY BEEN THRU and what they dealing with.
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My wife has two degrees and so do I as well.
We both work decent jobs with benefits and we own our own home.
This is not to mention the additional income receive from a few little side investments.
I think we are doing good especially in comparison to most other Black couples under 30. -
I'm not where I need to be so I can't judge
Just make sure she has drive and makes moves -
We both good
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Define s/o........
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He's definitely ahead of me career-wise, but he's also 10 years older than me.
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Louisiana Crude wrote: »My wife has two degrees and so do I as well.
We both work decent jobs with benefits and we own our own home.
This is not to mention the additional income receive from a few little side investments.
I think we are doing good especially in comparison to most other Black couples under 30.
post pics of ur wife or its all lies -
Nope, she sits around on the internet all day and me, well I....
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My nubian queen got her masters, cpa, no kids, no weave, no tracks, no lace fronts...i lucked out. After all those white hoes it was touch n go for a sec.
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Mr. Whatchasay wrote: »Louisiana Crude wrote: »My wife has two degrees and so do I as well.
We both work decent jobs with benefits and we own our own home.
This is not to mention the additional income receive from a few little side investments.
I think we are doing good especially in comparison to most other Black couples under 30.
post pics of ur wife or its all lies
Its all lies. -
I think we are both comfortable with where we are in life
I'm happy and he's happy
That's what matters most -
wait i needed to edit...didnt read
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i guess i am the people person who can get any and every bit of info outta anybody. but i was a bad planner.
my wife is a good planner but was terrible with people.
together we are ? on folks. -
BrazilianHairMoney wrote: »This isnt about bad habits.. My life was never green. I from the streets on the come up and someone has set me up. So some others went before o.k o.k they got famous.. someone look around tho. .what the hell is going on why I'm typing on the messageboard... oh because I'm highschool and unemployed.. Those small thinkers need to grow up..... not me.... I've made plenty successful moves.. while typing on the internet.. I just did not get famous.. WHY??? it look unsafe.
Real Lady???????????????? that you? -
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Yeah, she is in the kitchen doing the dishes right now...tahahaaa
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cant wait til the REAL TRUTH hit's the FENCE, the EVIDENCE THE PROOF.. WHO KNOW WHO, WHO DONT KNOW WHO. WHOS LYING WHO'S TELLING THE TRUTH. It's TAKING PPL TO LONG TO SEE. THATS WHY I'm FRUSTRATED. HOW LONG MUST THIS CONTINUE?
I'm from where I'm from since day1 I know who I know since day1.
I'm where I'm suppose to be at this point. They wasn't trying to ? me in the streets, they was plotting on my life in hollywood... My beef in the streets died in the late 90's.. no-one is looking to ? me in the streets..
