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THOT PILGRIM
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If your S/O's friend invited your S/O out to be unfaithful with him/her for a weekend, is it justifiable to have beef with said friend? Your S/O didn't go, but the fact remains that said person really tried to throw a wrench in your ? .
Would you address it at some point?
Mind you, this person is considered a friend of the fam/relationship.
Would you address it at some point?
Mind you, this person is considered a friend of the fam/relationship.
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How did you find out the true intentions of the friend?
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LysolJenkins wrote: »Lived this scenario
The 3rd party is just doing what single people do
It's ur s/o who owes u better. The lunch nicca shouldn't get face time
He wasn't single either.
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Yeah, My Girl's hoe friends used to try to get her to go do Thot activities and i used to be on her ass about that ? .
But, I'm single now .
. . . It's time to leave this thread . -
THOT PILGRIM wrote: »
hubby really scored some points on this one.
He must be tired of the friends ? . Cause he put him out there. -
THOT PILGRIM wrote: »
So your husband TOLD you that his homeboy invited him out to be his "wingman" for the weekend???
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JonnyRoccIT wrote: »Yeah, My Girl's hoe friends used to try to get her to go do Thot activities and i used to be on her ass about that ? .
But, I'm single now .
. . . It's time to leave this thread .
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THOT PILGRIM wrote: »
hubby really scored some points on this one.
He must be tired of the friends ? . Cause he put him out there.
The friend generally leads a messy ass reality show ass life, so it wasn't a stretch.
Said friend also called hubby at 1am to drive the side ? home because his wife came home early & he couldn't sneak her out. -
Dont address that ? but let your S/O know that every time he is with the friend that you will be suspicious.
Eventually he will take care of it. -
I wouldn't put "man business" out there for women folk
If I have to cut a reckless ? off.....so be it
But I'll "discreetly" take care of the situation myself,
before I go yapping off at the mouth on some pillow talk ?
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Dont address that ? but let your S/O know that every time he is with the friend that you will be suspicious.
Eventually he will take care of it.
It's hard not to contain my disdain for that ? though.
Like srsly the degree to which I DON'T ? with him is frustrating.
He's been around since, and I'm cordial, but bruh...it's hard. -
THOT PILGRIM wrote: »THOT PILGRIM wrote: »
hubby really scored some points on this one.
He must be tired of the friends ? . Cause he put him out there.
Said friend also called hubby at 1am to drive the side ? home because his wife came home early & he couldn't sneak her out.
How was your husband able to get her out of the house without the wife noticing?
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It's weird that your husband told u. That's kinda puzzling to me, considering this isn't the first and last occasion that a homeboy of his has invited him out to go ? -hunting I wonder wah mek him tell yuh this time?
Anyway yea u should have beef with the friend. As Chris Rock said a man is only as faithful as his options allow him(I'm paraphrasing). -
You might have reiterate to your man know you don't like dude. Show your husband your disdain for dude every time he comes up. Play your role when he is around but let your man know you playing a role.
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naw its not your place to address it, just be happy your husband told you.
if you do its like making your husband choose between you and the fiend, while obvious he will side with you but he may resent you for it. -
Hell yes we will have beef, and he better not be coming in our home smiling in my face.
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only worry bout the one you're ? , or eventually you're gonna wanna ? his friend
I dont know why ? tell their lady bout wild ? , it only makes her intrigued -
Dudes bring jumps to their house...they share with their woman/wife???
Trifling.
There's code to this ? .
If you gon do wrong,do wrong right
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I don't even deal with ? that'll make me an accessory to some ? ? like that
And if I do they least have enough respect for me to leave me out of it -
I've seen people caught in love like whirlwinds
Listening to they squads and listening to girlfriends
That's exactly the point where their whole world ends
Lies come in,
That's where that drama begins.......... -
Dudes bring jumps to their house...they share with their woman/wife???
Trifling.
There's code to this ? .
If you gon do wrong,do wrong right
If you gon do wrong, do wrong period. What's the difference ? her in a hotel and ? her in your house? -
THOT PILGRIM wrote: »If your S/O's friend invited your S/O out to be unfaithful with him/her for a weekend, is it justifiable to have beef with said friend? Your S/O didn't go, but the fact remains that said person really tried to throw a wrench in your ? .
Would you address it at some point?
Mind you, this person is considered a friend of the fam/relationship.
Yeah thats justified beef. They openly disrespected your relationship. No way that ? can just slide like ain't ? happen. -
If my wife cheats and goes to a hotel. We will get a divorce and we good. She cheats in my house. i will ? her and hunt that ? down to the ends of the earth. You dont do dirt in the house your family is in. The bed where she lays her head. -
If my wife cheats and goes to a hotel. We will get a divorce and we good. She cheats in my house. i will ? her and hunt that ? down to the ends of the earth. You dont do dirt in the house your family is in. The bed where she lays her head.
I contend with there's no "wrong right" when there's wrong in it....cheating is cheating irrespective of where it happens. And you don't need to chase the ? down, focus on your wife....unless the ? ? her.
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It's weird that your husband told u. That's kinda puzzling to me, considering this isn't the first and last occasion that a homeboy of his has invited him out to go ? -hunting I wonder wah mek him tell yuh this time?
Anyway yea u should have beef with the friend. As Chris Rock said a man is only as faithful as his options allow him(I'm paraphrasing).
Usually when someone is that honest it means they got nothing to hide...so there's a chance her husband's other friends actually respect the fact he's married and don't ask him to go out chasing hoes anymore.
