Baby mom got beat up by her current boyfriend and I did nothing about it.
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DOC H0LL!DAY
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I pulled up at her house to get my daughter and her and her dude was outside arguing wit all the neighbors watching. Soon as she seen my car out her side vision she thought it was turn-up time. She was like "now punk ass my baby daddy here and he gon kick yo ass"
Now part of me wanted to get out the car a ? her ass up for putting me in her drama.. But the other part of me was on some Kermit "this ain't none of my business" ? .
Anyway my daughter came out wit her bag and got in the car. At that same time she mushed her dude and he cocked back and chest slapped her wit hulkamania force!
She paused and looked at me like "? u just gonna sit there"
I guess that made her mad so then she charged him wit her head down:
You don't understand... As her head was down I can see him winding up his fist.. I'm like no! Is he really gonna go for the fences and swing the upper cut!!
Sure enough.. The upper came with unspeakable force! By the way.. My daughter sat there emotionless!
I just turned up the radio and pulled the ? off.. I guess I'll know the outcome when I take her back home. *Shrugs*
Now part of me wanted to get out the car a ? her ass up for putting me in her drama.. But the other part of me was on some Kermit "this ain't none of my business" ? .
Anyway my daughter came out wit her bag and got in the car. At that same time she mushed her dude and he cocked back and chest slapped her wit hulkamania force!
She paused and looked at me like "? u just gonna sit there"
I guess that made her mad so then she charged him wit her head down:
You don't understand... As her head was down I can see him winding up his fist.. I'm like no! Is he really gonna go for the fences and swing the upper cut!!
Sure enough.. The upper came with unspeakable force! By the way.. My daughter sat there emotionless!
I just turned up the radio and pulled the ? off.. I guess I'll know the outcome when I take her back home. *Shrugs*
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MrYoungGun's Unpopular Opinion of the Day: That was a ? ? move, fam. *shrugs*
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Black_Samson wrote: »you did exactly what the ? you were suppose to do.
Felt good after all the ? I went through with her and her mouth. Out of control. If my daughter reacted different I might of tried to break it up.
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Bruh...
I'm so proud to read this. Your only obligation is your child, and I'm glad to see a brotha recognize that. -
Long as that ? wasn't touching my daughter I wouldn't have gave a ? neither. I salute u for not getting involved in ? that doesn't concern u
Unless as assesses
That convo had something to do with ur daughter. What if they were arguing about him yelling at ur child or some ? like that -
She got you on child support ?
If she does, then ? that ? . -
mryounggun wrote: »MrYoungGun's Unpopular Opinion of the Day: That was a ? ? move, fam. *shrugs*
Did you read the story? She did it to her self. I don't cosign him putting hands on her, but yeah she probably had that one coming to her. -
good job now call up ya lawyer and get full custody b
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If he had no problem boxing your baby mama he probably beating your daughter, and he also probably thinks you're a ? because you just let ya baby mom's get her as she beat
Honestly I think your a ? ,
Unless baby mom's got some type of track record then your a ?
At the very least you could of used that moment to let your daughter know it's not OK to let a man hit you
But you let ya baby mom's get mic Tysons and drove off all hunky dorey further driving the idea to your seed it's OK to get her ass beat in the future
You're a ? -
I'm just taking what you gave me idk about no side or back stories and you look like a ?
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Triple double ?
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T/S thought he might've got knocked TF out .
lol J/p , I woulda checked my Kid to make sure they aint been touched , Prolly got some On Tape/Document it, and Bounced outta there.
Next time i woulda Talked to baby moms , I woulda had to let her know To Keep that ? away from my Kids . -
Sage Wonder wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »MrYoungGun's Unpopular Opinion of the Day: That was a ? ? move, fam. *shrugs*
Did you read the story? She did it to her self. I don't cosign him putting hands on her, but yeah she probably had that one coming to her.
Yep, read the story. Yep, she did have it coming. But you don't let a ? beat the ? out of the mother of your children. Especially in front of your children. That's just me, though. If y'all ? is ok with standing around while the mother of your child is beaten to ? ...cool. -
I'm jot saying you should have got physical with him
But driving off and doing nothing doesn't seem right either
I feel bad for your daughter .... Seeing her mom get beat and her dad just drive off
I hope you had a good long talk with her about the whole situation ....
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Ratchet ass hood boogers get what they deserve....if your kid is desensitized to the violence between momdukes and the degenerate she's with in her living environment, that's a win on your part....celebrate
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Ghostdenithegawd wrote: »If he had no problem boxing your baby mama he probably beating your daughter, and he also probably thinks you're a ? because you just let ya baby mom's get her as she beat
Honestly I think your a ? ,
Unless baby mom's got some type of track record then your a ?
At the very least you could of used that moment to let your daughter know it's not OK to let a man hit you
But you let ya baby mom's get mic Tysons and drove off all hunky dorey further driving the idea to your seed it's OK to get her ass beat in the future
You're a ?
Word. Lot of truth in this. Agree with most of it. Plus, ? ain't even consider that if the daughter is sitting in the car not even reacting, she must see this type of ? all the time. Cats are cool with letting it go on and her be exposed to it.
I couldn't do it. -
You a hoe for not checkin both of them for acting like that infront of your daughter
Now she feeling down and ? cause she saw what happened and gotta see her mother bruised up
You should have laid the ground rules about display that type of ? infront of your daughter -
The fact that your daughter was emotionless throughout the ordeal obviously means that wasn't the first time she's seen that ? . If I had a baby mama, I'd be concerned about her bringing those type of ? around my daughter.
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That was a clown move bruh.
Your child lives in that environment. -
DOC H0LL!DAY wrote: »I pulled up at her house to get my daughter and her and her dude was outside arguing wit all the neighbors watching. Soon as she seen my car out her side vision she thought it was turn-up time. She was like "now punk ass my baby daddy here and he gon kick yo ass"
Now part of me wanted to get out the car a ? her ass up for putting me in her drama.. But the other part of me was on some Kermit "this ain't none of my business" ? .
Anyway my daughter came out wit her bag and got in the car. At that same time she mushed her dude and he cocked back and chest slapped her wit hulkamania force!
She paused and looked at me like "? u just gonna sit there"
I guess that made her mad so then she charged him wit her head down:
You don't understand... As her head was down I can see him winding up his fist.. I'm like no! Is he really gonna go for the fences and swing the upper cut!!
Sure enough.. The upper came with unspeakable force! By the way.. My daughter sat there emotionless!
I just turned up the radio and pulled the ? off.. I guess I'll know the outcome when I take her back home. *Shrugs*
YO Bruh...do you want custody of your daughter? because the fact that she sat emotionless means she's getting used to that type of ? and its happened before in front of her. Which means your daughter is in a violent setting.
Whether you think you can beat his ass or not dont think that eventually whatever anger he has towards her wont eventually get put on your daughter. And yes you might be thinking of all the ? you'd do to him if you did.
but as much as you did the right thing by doing nothing (AND YOU DID DO THE RIGHT THING) you aint gonna just do "nothing" if it's your daughter and you might want to look in getting her the ? up outta there. For your sake and hers. Cuz you aint no good to her after you gotta put a bat to that ? skull cuz he think, "that ? aint do ? last time so...." -
You a hoe for not checkin both of them for acting like that infront of your daughter
Now she feeling down and ? cause she saw what happened and gotta see her mother bruised up
You should have laid the ground rules about display that type of ? infront of your daughter
^^^ Hood rat ? logic
The lesson his daughter has learned is "loud mouth ? get the ? beat out of them and sometimes they dont get saved. So dont be like mommy unless you want that to be you one day."
In the story he clerly said the ? turned up after she saw him and the thought it was time to show her ass. Then had the nerve to put her hands on the man. Its important for that kid to see that even ? suffer consequences so dont end up like your ? mama.
This ? aint 9-1-1 ? that ? . -
mryounggun wrote: »Sage Wonder wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »MrYoungGun's Unpopular Opinion of the Day: That was a ? ? move, fam. *shrugs*
Did you read the story? She did it to her self. I don't cosign him putting hands on her, but yeah she probably had that one coming to her.
Yep, read the story. Yep, she did have it coming. But you don't let a ? beat the ? out of the mother of your children. Especially in front of your children. That's just me, though. If y'all ? is ok with standing around while the mother of your child is beaten to ? ...cool.
Assuming he's not omitting truth, you are exaggerating when you say she got beat the ? out of. Nah, she caught an uppercut and that was the end. The real moral of the story is T/S takes an L for ? with a ratchet ? in the first place. Don't let some aint ? ass chick make your life just as ratchet as hers.
& do society a favor, be a better example for your daughter. It was your mistake, you owe us this one. -
You coulda at LEAST spoke up and said, "Hey y'all, chill... Break it up!"
Then maybe contacted child protective services and let them know what's going on.
If he aint abusing your daughter now, he will be in the future... Trust me.
You gotta get your kid outta that situation.
But, you just drove away?
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You a hoe for not checkin both of them for acting like that infront of your daughter
Now she feeling down and ? cause she saw what happened and gotta see her mother bruised up
You should have laid the ground rules about display that type of ? infront of your daughter
it would have been quite unwise for t/s to engage 2 violent idiots in the heat of monkey shining for the neighborhood.
he can have a pleasant heartfelt calm convo with his daughter over ice-cream to discuss her emotions and possible abuse.
u cats don't know how to avoid ? huh?