How Much Time Should New Couples Spend Together?

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texas409
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Ok you're in a new relationship let's say only 2 months in. How much time a week should you spend together? Should there ever be weekends where you ditch the s/o and go hang with your friends? Chime in

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  • LPast
    LPast Members Posts: 4,546 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Growing Pains lol?


    On the real though. How often do You want to see this chick?
  • Lou Cypher
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    As much as you want. If you like spending time with her, do what makes you happy.
  • texas409
    texas409 Members Posts: 20,854 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Me and my lady spend about 4 to 5 days out the week together she stays at my crib or I stay at hers
  • mryounggun
    mryounggun Members Posts: 13,451 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    LPast wrote: »
    Growing Pains lol?


    On the real though. How often do You want to see this chick?

    Word. ? be coming up with mathematical equations and ? . See each other as much as you want. I personally need a lot of alone time, but my and my girl work together, so even when she don't come over in the evenings, we might still have lunch together or play ping pong at work or hit the gym together maybe.

    But there's no rules to this ? , B.
  • The Iconoclast
    The Iconoclast Members Posts: 1,381 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    There's no set or recommended time. It's what ever the prolonged period of time you're both comfortable with and prefer. Some relationships are more clingy than others.

    Just realize once the 'newness' of the relationship wears off, you've both set a precedent that may be brought up in an argument when one of you start complaining about consistency and how you deviated from what you started off doing in the relationship.
  • texas409
    texas409 Members Posts: 20,854 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I'll try to tell my girl I want to have some time alone so I can still have some freshness in the relationship when we get together lol but she sees it as me not wanting to spend time but it's a good balance between us
  • Cinco
    Cinco Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 5,097 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Got to let that thing breathe
    U don't want to be defined by your relationship
  • texas409
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    ? your wife letting you go days without seeing her fam?
  • Young Gunner
    Young Gunner Members Posts: 7,505 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Probably the same amount you did before you got together
  • Cinco
    Cinco Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 5,097 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    texas409 wrote: »
    ? your wife letting you go days without seeing her fam?
    Nah neither of us would like 3/4 days apart.
    But some times I gotta make time for my own interests.
    She try to smother me lately bc I'm headed to canada tomorrow.
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  • texas409
    texas409 Members Posts: 20,854 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Lol smothered geesh
  • MARIO_DRO
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    texas409 wrote: »
    Ok you're in a new relationship let's say only 2 months in. How much time a week should you spend together? Should there ever be weekends where you ditch the s/o and go hang with your friends? Chime in

    OLE KATT THREADS MAKIN ASS
  • MARIO_DRO
    MARIO_DRO Members Posts: 14,425 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ...@ANYWAY

    IM MARRIED AND I ENCOURAGE HAVIN TIME FOR YOURSELF. ..EVEN IF U JUST WANNA LAY AROUND AND DO NOTHING. ..MAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF
  • texas409
    texas409 Members Posts: 20,854 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Respectable answer Dro
  • AZTG
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    Time alone is a must. But do what you feel bruh. There really aint this many rules to this ? .
  • OmegaConflict
    OmegaConflict Members Posts: 39,030 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    texas409 wrote: »
    Ok you're in a new relationship let's say only 2 months in. How much time a week should you spend together? Should there ever be weekends where you ditch the s/o and go hang with your friends? Chime in

    Growing pains>>>> way
  • zombie
    zombie Members Posts: 13,450 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    as much as they like me personally I love a clingy girl
  • texas409
    texas409 Members Posts: 20,854 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Nah fam clingy chick's are woat
  • SOWETO
    SOWETO Members Posts: 1,350 ✭✭✭✭
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    "aaah(smh)... i can't this wknd."
  • 1800skypager
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    As a man you're supposed to do whatever you want...