Spinoff: Why are dudes so threatened / disgusted by females with "high" body counts?
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Knock_Twice wrote: »@Beam
No problem with your stance folk
but that whole women want to explore their sexuality..I can't stand on that...
The whole "guys want a woman to stay a ? " (yea we want it) but is it going to happen No...but I do believe a guy doesn't want his woman ? the whole Kappa/Omega Line or Sigma line or basketball team neither and come back and wanna settle down with him and then call her out for being a hoe cuz he aint accepting that ? ...that's not even a good look but yet the woman is exploring her sexuality??
I"m pretty sure a woman don't want a dude ? the whole AKA Line and Delta Line either but here's the difference....a woman would accept that ? ....so is it really a double standard if a woman (not all, but most) will accept a dude that will ? 80 different women...if it aint the case then why your star QB keeps a lady on his team when you and I know he done ran through most the women on campus...
It's no less of a good than when a guy does it tho.
Women accept the double standard because society supports it so relentlessly; Largely, they don't have as much of a choice. Men simply aren't held to the same standards. -
Knock_Twice wrote: »@Beam
No problem with your stance folk
but that whole women want to explore their sexuality..I can't stand on that...
The whole "guys want a woman to stay a ? " (yea we want it) but is it going to happen No...but I do believe a guy doesn't want his woman ? the whole Kappa/Omega Line or Sigma line or basketball team neither and come back and wanna settle down with him and then call her out for being a hoe cuz he aint accepting that ? ...that's not even a good look but yet the woman is exploring her sexuality??
I"m pretty sure a woman don't want a dude ? the whole AKA Line and Delta Line either but here's the difference....a woman would accept that ? ....so is it really a double standard if a woman (not all, but most) will accept a dude that will ? 80 different women...if it aint the case then why your star QB keeps a lady on his team when you and I know he done ran through most the women on campus...
It's no less of a good than when a guy does it tho.
Women accept the double standard because society supports it so relentlessly; Largely, they don't have as much of a choice. Men simply aren't held to the same standards.
If that were all there is then the studies that find women more attracted to taken men would not exist
That view ignores the effect of social proof -
My question is at what point do you have to get over it? After a certain age everyone develops a past.
Is that 25? 30? Unless you lock her down at 21 it gets pretty difficult later on.
My outlook on it, especially as I get older (I'm on the high side of 27) is that as long as that past isn't in my face (kids, STDs, lingering exes, stereotypical thot behavior) you gotta look past it after a while. -
I honestly feel both men and women with high body counts are equal... *shrugs*
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Women can't do what men do. So stop comparing.
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Knock_Twice wrote: »@Beam
No problem with your stance folk
but that whole women want to explore their sexuality..I can't stand on that...
The whole "guys want a woman to stay a ? " (yea we want it) but is it going to happen No...but I do believe a guy doesn't want his woman ? the whole Kappa/Omega Line or Sigma line or basketball team neither and come back and wanna settle down with him and then call her out for being a hoe cuz he aint accepting that ? ...that's not even a good look but yet the woman is exploring her sexuality??
I"m pretty sure a woman don't want a dude ? the whole AKA Line and Delta Line either but here's the difference....a woman would accept that ? ....so is it really a double standard if a woman (not all, but most) will accept a dude that will ? 80 different women...if it aint the case then why your star QB keeps a lady on his team when you and I know he done ran through most the women on campus...
It's no less of a good than when a guy does it tho.
Women accept the double standard because society supports it so relentlessly; Largely, they don't have as much of a choice. Men simply aren't held to the same standards.
I feel you folk..it's not..that's why I didn't leave out the dude..but again the difference is a woman will accept that ? and make him her main one...if that chick is smashing the whole football team..all the ? that work in the warehouse....making her my number one will be the last thing own my mind......you see it everyday...
but when women stop accepting ? ...? will tighten up...until then the standard or process will never die...
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Why? double standards.A lot dudes would ? anything with a pulse and a skirt on but expect their girls to have somehow evaded ? all their lives (until they met them) and of course still manage to be "freaks in the sheet". That's just the way it is. *shrugs
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damobb2deep wrote: »I honestly feel both men and women with high body counts are equal... *shrugs*
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It's like a hand me down baseball glove that's been in the family for years
A lot of memories, a lot of fun
But u can't deny that feeling of sliding your hands up in there and feeling the worn out insides and knowing the history behind it
It has a funky smell to it as well and that doesn't help the cause
So it's just better to retire it and get something with less mileage
No shots at any of those veteran porn stars lol
I STILL GOT LOVE 4 YOU AVA DEVINE! -
Ok Kirko ass ?Girl I wouldn't give a damn if you was a prostitute
And you hit up every rapper that I ever knew/
My ? Killa told me last night that he smashed you too
I told them ? that ? don't matter to me/
Say girl it's alright, girl it's alright
Oooooh girl it's all right some ? you can't control -
Because I don't have a high body count, and having sex with random girls or guys in her case is ? to say the least.
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Titangraphs are fun. The long short of it, nobody wants to marry a ? , man or women, there's a difference between a ? and a "past". Where you draw the line is a matter of preference.
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hoodsavior wrote: »Breh it's never crossed my mind that I may not be able to please a high body count ? .. actually those were the ones I cared less about pleasing cause a relationship never crossed my mind.. that angle is new to me
Finally some real talk
One does not give every bytch, thaaa diiick. *bernie mac voice*
There are inherent problems with giving a random chick, thaaa diiick. Sometimes u gotta hold back so she dont get attached.
My reaction to those type chicks thinkin nggas gaf about their performance evaluations
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New cars>>>>>>>used cars.
I drive a 96 Ford Crown Victoria.
Has around 175,000 miles on it, but it runs as good as a new car.
Even though it runs as good as a new car.....I would never have bought it if it was priced as high as a new car.
Why???
Because at the time I bought it......2011.....it was 15yrs old and had 150,000 miles on it.
And it wouldn't make sense to pay a new car price for a used car that's 15yrs old with 150,000 miles on it.
New cars with low mileage>>>>>>>>>>>>>>used cars with high mileage.
"New ? >>>>>>>>>>>>old ? ." OG/Big Homie @Cain -
Many men feel as though women should be wholesome and when the thought of any other men blowing their women's back out is a shot to their egos.
I don't advocate wifing or starting a future with boppers but any man that doesn't acknowledge a woman possibly having a past is a highly naive man.
Having a past doesn't necessarily mean she was a hoe and getting smutted out by every man either.
The older we get the more bodies girls and men pile on. Especially attractive ones.
The only reason you wouldn't want a hometown ? because you know everybody that ? her.
If she was a hometown ? in another state you wouldn't care as much.
So it ain't always about the actual sex,its about the image
I don't think he probably knows about most of that ? from her past but there is a chance she could have told him and he acccepted her for who she was/is.
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@beam asked this question in another thread.
Why are some dudes threatened by it?
do ? feel like they have more competition to try to prove they the best smash to the chick?
If you're about to put a lot of money into a used car, would you rather get one that's had 5 owners and has 120K miles or one that's had one user and has 20K miles? -
same reason why you frown when you find out the car your thinking about buying has had 12 previous owners
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Cars and people are a little bit different tho
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Lol at the utilization of the analogies in here.
I think we all can agree nobody knowingly wants a high mileage ? . -
Shuffington wrote: »Cars and people are a little bit different tho
lol
you wouldnt want to invest in either if theyve been rear ended too many times -
Shuffington wrote: »Cars and people are a little bit different tho
lol
Analogy
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noun
a comparison between two things, typically on the basis of their structure and for the purpose of explanation or clarification.
This analogy in particular holds weight. Proceed gentlemen. -
someone said it earlier....
if you was at a party an your ex slept with quite a few ? in there....
you cant tell me you wont feel some kinda way.
that tells me shez a hoe because she ? ? in the same circle -
I'm loving the used car analogies. That about sums it up though. A nigguh a gotdamn lie if he say he's out here shopping for a used car w/ 500,000 miles on it..lol.
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People really underestimate the effects of evaluating the decision making process behind a person's actions. That's what bothers people about high body counts. It points to a certain mindset that is a turn off for most people
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There should b a ? fax or something
Before u hook up with a chick
I wouldnt surprised if it actually happens lol
