Chasing my tail in CIRCLES...

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yellowtapesport
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When it comes to females..even the ones I would like to have serious relationships with, I tend to look for the same type. Petite, dark-skin, fat lil ass and good head is a must. I don't like working hard for ? . I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ? or make her feel special when 99.9% of the time I aint tryna hear the ? these hoes be talkin about.

As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women and the homies know it ain't no future in that. Once the sexual excitement dies ? gets pointless and one or both of us starts cheating..

SO......

How can I break this cycle? Any good relationship advice out there???
I need a new ? .
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  • ChillaDaGawd
    ChillaDaGawd Members Posts: 12,021 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Unfollow your normal instincts and you'll see a difference. If you like those types of women by doing the opposite you'll find a change
  • Rasta.
    Rasta. Members Posts: 9,342 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Cinco wrote: »
    - I don't like working hard for ? .
    - I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ?
    - I'm not bout to make her feel special
    - I aint tryna hear what she talking about


    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women

    Your results are direct reflections of your actions my broada.
    To get what u ain't got. U must do what u haven't done.
    Now go in peace
    CHAPPELLE_02_0202_NEGRODAMUS_640x360.jpg


    @cinco it's hard tho bruh, i'm like him for the most part as in, i'll throw my cards on the table but aladat flirting, making her feel special etc etc. i just can't deal. Add on to the fact i have zero patience and it gets hard at times but as long as i'm batting .300, i'll live.
  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    When it comes to females..even the ones I would like to have serious relationships with, I tend to look for the same type. Petite, dark-skin, fat lil ass and good head is a must. I don't like working hard for ? . I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ? or make her feel special when 99.9% of the time I aint tryna hear the ? these hoes be talkin about.

    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women and the homies know it ain't no future in that. Once the sexual excitement dies ? gets pointless and one or both of us starts cheating..

    SO......

    How can I break this cycle? Any good relationship advice out there???
    I need a new ? .

    Wtf..you can break the cycle by completely changing everything about your outlook on women and relationships.

    Like everything. Literally.
  • Chi Snow
    Chi Snow Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 28,111 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Cinco wrote: »
    - I don't like working hard for ? .
    - I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ?
    - I'm not bout to make her feel special
    - I aint tryna hear what she talking about


    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women

    Your results are direct reflections of your actions my broada.
    To get what u ain't got. U must do what u haven't done.
    Now go in peace
    CHAPPELLE_02_0202_NEGRODAMUS_640x360.jpg

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  • ChillaDaGawd
    ChillaDaGawd Members Posts: 12,021 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    This ? Cinco said the same thing I said with 90 % memes
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Cinco wrote: »
    - I don't like working hard for ? .
    - I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ?
    - I'm not bout to make her feel special
    - I aint tryna hear what she talking about


    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women

    Your results are direct reflections of your actions my broada.
    To get what u ain't got. U must do what u haven't done.
    Now go in peace
    CHAPPELLE_02_0202_NEGRODAMUS_640x360.jpg


    @cinco it's hard tho bruh, i'm like him for the most part as in, i'll throw my cards on the table but aladat flirting, making her feel special etc etc. i just can't deal. Add on to the fact i have zero patience and it gets hard at times but as long as i'm batting .300, i'll live.

    you are better off just buying ? .

    I know a few dudes who are where you are. they just buy a chick for a night an aint gotta hear all that ? about her cousins or the ? at her job she bout to fight like 30 times.
  • jetlifebih
    jetlifebih Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 4,655 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Change your environment ,
  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Wuwop wrote: »
    Change your environment ,

    It's not his environment, it's his frame of mind.

    He's got issues with himself he needs to work out.
  • Rasta.
    Rasta. Members Posts: 9,342 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Cinco wrote: »
    - I don't like working hard for ? .
    - I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ?
    - I'm not bout to make her feel special
    - I aint tryna hear what she talking about


    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women

    Your results are direct reflections of your actions my broada.
    To get what u ain't got. U must do what u haven't done.
    Now go in peace
    CHAPPELLE_02_0202_NEGRODAMUS_640x360.jpg


    @cinco it's hard tho bruh, i'm like him for the most part as in, i'll throw my cards on the table but aladat flirting, making her feel special etc etc. i just can't deal. Add on to the fact i have zero patience and it gets hard at times but as long as i'm batting .300, i'll live.

    you are better off just buying ? .

    I know a few dudes who are where you are. they just buy a chick for a night an aint gotta hear all that ? about her cousins or the ? at her job she bout to fight like 30 times.



    Once upon a time ago, yea i would put in the work for an eye candy but just can't bring myself to anymore, especially in my 30's. Maybe it's due to the fact i see no marriage in my future
  • numbaz...80's baby
    numbaz...80's baby Members Posts: 5,104 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Go get yourself a country ass girl from a small town.
  • NoCompetition
    NoCompetition Members Posts: 3,661 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    When it comes to females..even the ones I would like to have serious relationships with, I tend to look for the same type. Petite, dark-skin, fat lil ass and good head is a must. I don't like working hard for ? . I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ? or make her feel special when 99.9% of the time I aint tryna hear the ? these hoes be talkin about.

    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women and the homies know it ain't no future in that. Once the sexual excitement dies ? gets pointless and one or both of us starts cheating..

    SO......

    How can I break this cycle? Any good relationship advice out there???
    I need a new ? .


    How bad do you need one and how will you compromise? High standards and self respect change things. And patience and priorities and all kinda stuff like that. But if you feel you need one and how bad you feel you do can tell how you operate. And can lead to "chasing your tail". Constantly chasing women going around and around. If thats your thing tho maybe thats just the type dude you are. They are necessary because they help clear out the path for those of us who want more. Gotta be you.
  • Cinco
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Cinco wrote: »
    - I don't like working hard for ? .
    - I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ?
    - I'm not bout to make her feel special
    - I aint tryna hear what she talking about


    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women

    Your results are direct reflections of your actions my broada.
    To get what u ain't got. U must do what u haven't done.
    Now go in peace
    CHAPPELLE_02_0202_NEGRODAMUS_640x360.jpg


    @cinco it's hard tho bruh, i'm like him for the most part as in, i'll throw my cards on the table but aladat flirting, making her feel special etc etc. i just can't deal. Add on to the fact i have zero patience and it gets hard at times but as long as i'm batting .300, i'll live.

    I guess it depends on what u looking for.

    A solid chic going to want you to do at least some of the bolded for her to open up and be an asset. U can luck up & find a low maintenance one sometimes.
    The hoes will settle for less. And that's what dude says he gets...so it's like u get out what u put in
  • Rasta.
    Rasta. Members Posts: 9,342 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Kat wrote: »
    Wuwop wrote: »
    Change your environment ,

    It's not his environment, it's his frame of mind.

    He's got issues with himself he needs to work out.

    How and why it gotta be issues though?
  • Billy_Poncho
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  • ChillaDaGawd
    ChillaDaGawd Members Posts: 12,021 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Kat wrote: »
    Wuwop wrote: »
    Change your environment ,

    It's not his environment, it's his frame of mind.

    He's got issues with himself he needs to work out.

    Ain't no issues..? just lazy when it comes to picking up the opposite sex
  • Chi Snow
    Chi Snow Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 28,111 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    This new generation of kids are barely functioning retards

    This is the mentality you have when movies and tv shows raise your children, it's cray

    @Rasta you better than this yo, you giving us 80's baby a bad rap
  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    Wuwop wrote: »
    Change your environment ,

    It's not his environment, it's his frame of mind.

    He's got issues with himself he needs to work out.

    How and why it gotta be issues though?

    Because it is..he doesn't know how to love, no lil wayne. He's disconnected, jaded, cynical...he needs to confront that with himself before he can expect to find the right woman.
  • Rasta.
    Rasta. Members Posts: 9,342 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Chicity wrote: »
    This new generation of kids are barely functioning retards

    This is the mentality you have when movies and tv shows raise your children, it's cray

    Rasta you better than this yo, you giving us 80's baby a bad rap

    Imma come around, right now i just can't bother with the ? . Add on to the fact that, i refuse to date outside my race anymore, can't date black chicks with makeup or weave and my options are limited.
    Kat wrote: »
    Rasta. wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    Wuwop wrote: »
    Change your environment ,

    It's not his environment, it's his frame of mind.

    He's got issues with himself he needs to work out.

    How and why it gotta be issues though?

    Because it is..he doesn't know how to love, no lil wayne. He's disconnected, jaded, cynical...he needs to confront that with himself before he can expect to find the right woman.

    I think you're being a bit harsh Kat, especially coming from a candid person as yourself.
  • mryounggun
    mryounggun Members Posts: 13,451 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    You just mentioned that there are women that you would like to have a serious relationship with...then listed ALL physical attributes:

    '...Petite, dark-skin, fat lil ass and good head is a must.'

    Think about that.
  • Elzo69Renaissance
    Elzo69Renaissance Members Posts: 50,708 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Chicity wrote: »
    This new generation of kids are barely functioning retards

    This is the mentality you have when movies and tv shows raise your children, it's cray

    Rasta you better than this yo, you giving us 80's baby a bad rap

    Imma come around, right now i just can't bother with the ? . Add on to the fact that, i refuse to date outside my race anymore, can't date black chicks with makeup or weave and my options are limited.
    Kat wrote: »
    Rasta. wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    Wuwop wrote: »
    Change your environment ,

    It's not his environment, it's his frame of mind.

    He's got issues with himself he needs to work out.

    How and why it gotta be issues though?

    Because it is..he doesn't know how to love, no lil wayne. He's disconnected, jaded, cynical...he needs to confront that with himself before he can expect to find the right woman.

    I think you're being a bit harsh Kat, especially coming from a candid person as yourself.
    been like this for yrs for me, tried a light skin mixed devil lately...didnt work out for the kid
  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I don't think I'm being harsh at all..it is what it is.

    How can you correct something if you aren't willing to be real about the problem?
  • Chi Snow
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    No make up?? No weave???

    Ya options ain't limited, they nonexistent.

    Maybe you mean excessive makeup and weave and ? cause every female do a lil touching up
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    .
    Rasta. wrote: »
    Cinco wrote: »
    - I don't like working hard for ? .
    - I'm not bout to go out my way to compliment a ?
    - I'm not bout to make her feel special
    - I aint tryna hear what she talking about


    As a result, I usually end up with more promiscuous women

    Your results are direct reflections of your actions my broada.
    To get what u ain't got. U must do what u haven't done.
    Now go in peace
    CHAPPELLE_02_0202_NEGRODAMUS_640x360.jpg


    @cinco it's hard tho bruh, i'm like him for the most part as in, i'll throw my cards on the table but aladat flirting, making her feel special etc etc. i just can't deal. Add on to the fact i have zero patience and it gets hard at times but as long as i'm batting .300, i'll live.

    you are better off just buying ? .

    I know a few dudes who are where you are. they just buy a chick for a night an aint gotta hear all that ? about her cousins or the ? at her job she bout to fight like 30 times.



    Once upon a time ago, yea i would put in the work for an eye candy but just can't bring myself to anymore, especially in my 30's. Maybe it's due to the fact i see no marriage in my future

    true maybe,

    but I can see why dude are starting to think like this.

    chick are not holding themselves to standards anymore an its hard to find an honest women who wants something out of life other than what you can do for her, what you need and should do for her only for her to constantly seek out a problem to make you work harder for the same ? you been getting.

    kinda a no win situation .
    an who has the time an energy to sort thru all the ? anymore.