Unwritten Reasons Women Don't Like You
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MrMinimalist
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These are from my experiences plus what I heard from other men and women. No particular order.
1.Women aren't used to thorough men. It actually scares a lot of them when they find all the needs and wants in a man, plus more, then she doesn't know how to handle it. You're just too good for her, she'll avoid you and maybe later on she'll realize her mistake.
2.You may be too attractive. How like a lot dudes are intimidated to approach or keep beautiful women, women are like toward men. If you look decent or dress nice, they think that you get around, you're a playa, she thinks her friends and family could try to get at you, etc. Her insecurity thinks that you can easily talk to other chicks or easily choose somebody else over her. Yes this it true and some females do like when their dude is admired by other women but it can hurt or help the situation.
3.She wants to be worth more than you. A lot of women are for hypergamy, which is understandable to me. Then you have those that want to be better than the man. They want to take care of and raise him as if she's the reason he's successful. They have this "behind a strong man is a strong woman" mentality which they got it all twisted by trying to change or upgrade lame dudes. We know that doesn't work most of the time because they create babies with them and then be on their own.
4.Not all women want a relationship, kids or to be married. Simple as that. You're into her, thinking she's wifey material but she never wants that role with any man.
5.Bad experiences. She may think you're like the rest. You can not do or say nothing wrong then all the sudden she stops talking to you. Something very small can trigger something that can turn her off whether you're in the right. Nothing you can do it she doesn't try or trust again.
6.She's too basic. Nothing excites her, just only restaurants and the club. A lot of them don't want to experience nothing new or afraid to. Don't like to travel or have fun. That's cool but seems boring. Mostly thot chicks only travel to Atlanta, Jamaica and Miami.....
1.Women aren't used to thorough men. It actually scares a lot of them when they find all the needs and wants in a man, plus more, then she doesn't know how to handle it. You're just too good for her, she'll avoid you and maybe later on she'll realize her mistake.
2.You may be too attractive. How like a lot dudes are intimidated to approach or keep beautiful women, women are like toward men. If you look decent or dress nice, they think that you get around, you're a playa, she thinks her friends and family could try to get at you, etc. Her insecurity thinks that you can easily talk to other chicks or easily choose somebody else over her. Yes this it true and some females do like when their dude is admired by other women but it can hurt or help the situation.
3.She wants to be worth more than you. A lot of women are for hypergamy, which is understandable to me. Then you have those that want to be better than the man. They want to take care of and raise him as if she's the reason he's successful. They have this "behind a strong man is a strong woman" mentality which they got it all twisted by trying to change or upgrade lame dudes. We know that doesn't work most of the time because they create babies with them and then be on their own.
4.Not all women want a relationship, kids or to be married. Simple as that. You're into her, thinking she's wifey material but she never wants that role with any man.
5.Bad experiences. She may think you're like the rest. You can not do or say nothing wrong then all the sudden she stops talking to you. Something very small can trigger something that can turn her off whether you're in the right. Nothing you can do it she doesn't try or trust again.
6.She's too basic. Nothing excites her, just only restaurants and the club. A lot of them don't want to experience nothing new or afraid to. Don't like to travel or have fun. That's cool but seems boring. Mostly thot chicks only travel to Atlanta, Jamaica and Miami.....
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I've heard that no 2 rubbish. From like Tinder or sutten she was meant to come mine a certain day but she saw me somewhere and told me she didn't wanna come cah I'm too nice smh like I'm some Denzel fam.
Funny coz on her Insta and on the WhatsApp and Snappy she a completely different person. She like a vixen. But obvi, we all kno' Internet confidence doesn't translate well into real life. Saw her and realised immediately why she wasn't on it.
How ? hide that second chin? I swear the can all do it fam -
Who cares??? Stop trying to figure women out even if you succeed the benefits aren't as grand as you imagine.
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Who cares??? Stop trying to figure women out even if you succeed the benefits aren't as grand as you imagine.
Word, women are just as flawed as men. And knowing those things dont help u get sex. A woman can give u sex after u complete her must have list cause she sadiddy like that. Same time that same woman can give u sex on a whim cause right place, right time. -
I've had a chick recently say I was too nice too her. Then when I got upset about it she mad I'm being an ? . Couldnt believe I had to ask her "You don't like bring treated properly?" She talking bout she "don't deserve it" and calling herself "a ? ."
Had to cut her low self esteem ass loose. ? are ? doing out here traumatizing these hoes??? I aint even simp. I ? her down, build up spliff, take her out for some dinner or order in after, back to her crib ? her down again. Thats the itinerary. But somehow she mad at herself. By the time I could show her how dumb she sounded I lost complete interest. This being single thing is ? . Easier to just cheat every now and then. ? . -
Who cares??? Stop trying to figure women out even if you succeed the benefits aren't as grand as you imagine.
Adolf Bombaclatt you're right, u know -
KingFreeman wrote: »I've had a chick recently say I was too nice too her. Then when I got upset about it she mad I'm being an ? . Couldnt believe I had to ask her "You don't like bring treated properly?" She talking bout she "don't deserve it" and calling herself "a ? ."
Had to cut her low self esteem ass loose. ? are ? doing out here traumatizing these hoes??? I aint even simp. I ? her down, build up spliff, take her out for some dinner or order in after, back to her crib ? her down again. Thats the itinerary. But somehow she mad at herself. By the time I could show her how dumb she sounded I lost complete interest. This being single thing is ? . Easier to just cheat every now and then. ? .
You can be too nice to me. -
KingFreeman wrote: »She talking bout she "don't deserve it" and calling herself "a ? ."
. This being single thing is ? . Easier to just cheat every now and then. ? .
I've had this a few times. These low self esteem hoes I'm tellin' you.
Real ? @the bolded. -
KingFreeman wrote: »I've had a chick recently say I was too nice too her. Then when I got upset about it she mad I'm being an ? . Couldnt believe I had to ask her "You don't like bring treated properly?" She talking bout she "don't deserve it" and calling herself "a ? ."
Had to cut her low self esteem ass loose. ? are ? doing out here traumatizing these hoes??? I aint even simp. I ? her down, build up spliff, take her out for some dinner or order in after, back to her crib ? her down again. Thats the itinerary. But somehow she mad at herself. By the time I could show her how dumb she sounded I lost complete interest. This being single thing is ? . Easier to just cheat every now and then. ? .
I read a post on reddit bout a chick that dumped a dude over the phone for being too nice. He chewed her out for leading him on, and then she was feeling him after that.
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WTF is too nice. .....ain't that what you want
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »KingFreeman wrote: »I've had a chick recently say I was too nice too her. Then when I got upset about it she mad I'm being an ? . Couldnt believe I had to ask her "You don't like bring treated properly?" She talking bout she "don't deserve it" and calling herself "a ? ."
Had to cut her low self esteem ass loose. ? are ? doing out here traumatizing these hoes??? I aint even simp. I ? her down, build up spliff, take her out for some dinner or order in after, back to her crib ? her down again. Thats the itinerary. But somehow she mad at herself. By the time I could show her how dumb she sounded I lost complete interest. This being single thing is ? . Easier to just cheat every now and then. ? .
You can be too nice to me.
Nah.
Too many simps in your ? . (Insta-turnoff).
And you be extra emotional in your posts and ? . (Signs)
You fire tho. (Facts) -
I'll give some:
I'm tall
I'm naturally shy, making eye contact difficult for me
my vocabulary is extensive and has a lot of big words
I like anime, but very not as much as I did before.
when I make comparisons I can use things that you would not think relate relate
getting back to the shy part, I'm more reserved. I dont really say much about what I do over the weekend.
I probably have experiences and stories to tell about my travels that women who give opportunity to do not have. (I.e. traveling to two continents multiple states multiple countries in Europe.. Peru as well.
That is all I got for now. -
These hoes want Ike Turner
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I'm shy.
I'm open about not wanting kids.
I'm short.
If I'm not drinking with friends on weekends I'm usually in nature alone. My hunting and fishing time is non-negotiable. These are the things that make me who I am and I won't compromise any of it.
I work a lot.
I live at home. (the worst of all of them)
I'm not a very serious person.
But like my man Bob Dylan said: It ain't not use to sit and wonder why, if you don't know by now. -
Um im to touchy lovey dovey kiss kiss at first they think its just to have sex an game then they realize im just a tender lover..
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blackgod813 wrote: »Um im to touchy lovey dovey kiss kiss at first they think its just to have sex an game then they realize im just a tender lover..
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1. you are right. when a dude has something going for himself...the woman cant just act up just because. but when a dude aint ? ...she has the support of others to act up and even cheat.
2.i have herd this but dont know how true it is.
3. being better than their man, give some women a sense of having more say in the relationship. its the equivalent of giving a 7yr old power over a country without proper guidance. they kid will go crazy. you can see this example almost daily when a woman makes more than her man. but when they get with a man who makes more than them...they all of a sudden become docile and submissive.
4. true...cant blame them. its lot of fukk ? running around investing in jordans and thinking they know it all...lol. shots fired.
5. this is an excuse to act like an ass. when a chick has a accident while on her period does she get mad at the ? or with herself....just curious.
6. this is what you call...? spoiled her or she small minded. either way...she not relationship worthy. -
Always believed #3. It's like when a man getting credit for ? and women gotta chime in like I was holding him down, taking care of his kids, etc
Interesting on #6. Was talking to this chick about my travels and how I been to Paris and thinking of Egypt and Peru and she's like u ain't going to no places I like, I only go to Caribbean islands. -
KingFreeman wrote: »I've had a chick recently say I was too nice too her. Then when I got upset about it she mad I'm being an ? . Couldnt believe I had to ask her "You don't like bring treated properly?" She talking bout she "don't deserve it" and calling herself "a ? ."
Had to cut her low self esteem ass loose. ? are ? doing out here traumatizing these hoes??? I aint even simp. I ? her down, build up spliff, take her out for some dinner or order in after, back to her crib ? her down again. Thats the itinerary. But somehow she mad at herself. By the time I could show her how dumb she sounded I lost complete interest. This being single thing is ? . Easier to just cheat every now and then. ? .
I read a post on reddit bout a chick that dumped a dude over the phone for being too nice. He chewed her out for leading him on, and then she was feeling him after that.
? had me rollin
Had this happen before..didnt even like the ? afterwards -
KingFreeman wrote: »I've had a chick recently say I was too nice too her. Then when I got upset about it she mad I'm being an ? . Couldnt believe I had to ask her "You don't like bring treated properly?" She talking bout she "don't deserve it" and calling herself "a ? ."
Had to cut her low self esteem ass loose. ? are ? doing out here traumatizing these hoes??? I aint even simp. I ? her down, build up spliff, take her out for some dinner or order in after, back to her crib ? her down again. Thats the itinerary. But somehow she mad at herself. By the time I could show her how dumb she sounded I lost complete interest. This being single thing is ? . Easier to just cheat every now and then. ? .
Should have hit her with a wrench. -
Too nice, until I start being mean/aggressive start doing my @zzombie impressions, that usually works.
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Truth is, these chicks don't know what they want. Most chicks nowadays either don't know their dad or have bad relationships with him, so they go off of what they think a man is (usually the chicks mom tells her what a real man is, yet ironically the mom can't keep a man to save her life).
By the time a chick realizes what a real man looks like, she's already given her good years away to ? ? lol. True story. Embrace your inner ? . Women say they hate ? but that's usually after the ? has ? . Message! Lol -
I tell women i believe in domestic violence if they cheat an they still go along with it i say im crazy they say im crazy to then they realize theres levels to madness...
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blackgod813 wrote: »Um im to touchy lovey dovey kiss kiss at first they think its just to have sex an game then they realize im just a tender lover..
IC slipping
This ? just referred to himself as a tender lover. Like he be telling chicks 'I'm not like other guys' and looking at her like
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Women are tall children.....My advice, find'em, ? 'em, & flee. Close thread.
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ChillaDaKilla wrote: »WTF is too nice. .....ain't that what you want
I've come to the sad truth that most of them don't know what they want, that's why you have to choose for their ? . Hell, most of them can't even decide what they want to eat half of the time, let alone what type of ? they want to be with lol.