So I Am Trying To Quit ? .
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Lol. This thread is hilarious. I need to take a break myself. Man I downloaded about 40 gigs in the last month.
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EyeofAsaru wrote: »Preach2Teach wrote: »I am asking myself is this ? really worth it, Gonna go and smoke the biggest spliff ever in a hope I will pass out before I do something stupid, bring on day 3!
When you make it past day 90 you go in ? ModePreach2Teach wrote: »I am asking myself is this ? really worth it, Gonna go and smoke the biggest spliff ever in a hope I will pass out before I do something stupid, bring on day 3!
When you make it past day 90 you go in ? Mode
This....
Learn to master retrograde internal ? so even if you do beat off you won't throw away all your chi and it will be reaborbed in the body..go read mantak chias book "the art of dual cultivation" to learn more
The key is not to let the skeet come out..lol and do things to recirculate it to the brain via the spinal cord and various ducts in the body(exercise,meditation,deep breathing )..If you don't circulate it constantly it will overheat(aka blue ball syndrome) and cause you to be a cranky or crazy ? ? ..Like one of these posts said you'll prolly end up ? a one eyed chick or a crackhead bruh..sexual energy is not just going to disappear..You have to transmute the energy into something creative or otherwise..saving chi beyond 30 days is stupid if you're not transmuting it properly..You were wired to produce tons of ? to go inject women with,not bust on computer screens in porn land..set goals for your life
Sperm turns into hot chi once aroused..it becomes difficult to handle once active...and keeping the chi in your lower body will cause your nuts to overheat and will have you scrambling frantically to bust that nut...
Avoid spicy foods and eat more cooling foods like fresh fruits to keep arousal down while you abstain long to rewire your brain to quit chronic ? ..
Porn is a serious drug..Its best you cut it out your life as much as you can..eye know it's hard being that we live in a porngraphic society but you gotta try ,b before that ? turns you into a vegetable..once your dopamine reserves are fried you will be a ? zombie
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EyeofAsaru wrote: »Preach2Teach wrote: »I am asking myself is this ? really worth it, Gonna go and smoke the biggest spliff ever in a hope I will pass out before I do something stupid, bring on day 3!
When you make it past day 90 you go in ? ModePreach2Teach wrote: »I am asking myself is this ? really worth it, Gonna go and smoke the biggest spliff ever in a hope I will pass out before I do something stupid, bring on day 3!
When you make it past day 90 you go in ? Mode
This....
Learn to master retrograde internal ? so even if you do beat off you won't throw away all your chi and it will be reaborbed in the body..go read mantak chias book "the art of dual cultivation" to learn more
The key is not to let the skeet come out..lol and do things to recirculate it to the brain via the spinal cord and various ducts in the body(exercise,meditation,deep breathing )..If you don't circulate it constantly it will overheat(aka blue ball syndrome) and cause you to be a cranky or crazy ? ? ..Like one of these posts said you'll prolly end up ? a one eyed chick or a crackhead bruh..sexual energy is not just going to disappear..You have to transmute the energy into something creative or otherwise..saving chi beyond 30 days is stupid if you're not transmuting it properly..You were wired to produce tons of ? to go inject women with,not bust on computer screens in porn land..set goals for your life
Sperm turns into hot chi once aroused..it becomes difficult to handle once active...and keeping the chi in your lower body will cause your nuts to overheat and will have you scrambling frantically to bust that nut...
Avoid spicy foods and eat more cooling foods like fresh fruits to keep arousal down while you abstain long to rewire your brain to quit chronic ? ..
Porn is a serious drug..Its best you cut it out your life as much as you can..eye know it's hard being that we live in a porngraphic society but you gotta try ,b before that ? turns you into a vegetable..once your dopamine reserves are fried you will be a ? zombie
Nah bruh... just nah. As a student of multiple taoist lineages this is mostly incorrect dude, and low key dangerous. Retrograde ? is not used for alchemical transmutation at all. It is in fact very bad for the prostate.
mantak chia is literally one of the worst sources for anything related to taoism other than basic terminology and the most basic practices. Especially this. There used to be TCM treatment centers here in LA that were filled with damaged practitioners of his books. The man takes knowledge from books thay were never translated to English and just mashes it all together to sound good and passes it off to the west as his own.
Let me break down true transmutation.
The conversion of the sexual energy (JING not chi!) Is the SOURCE energy for ? , not the ? itsself. ? is considered turbid jing that has already depleted the source energy from the kidneys, and is therefore useless for anyone other than an alchemically prepared woman.
It is true that retention is mostly useless for the layman past 30 days.
Heat is the byproduct of the energetic condensation of chi in the lower dantien. From there thru certain techniques it then interacts with the sexual energy (not ? , jing!) To begin the alchemical conversion of jing, to chi, to shen. This is vastly simplified. But is not book knowledge, I've learned, experienced this first hand and practiced with real taoists from the white cloud monastery.
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I'll add to this because I've stopped ? as well because I realized this stuff just isn't me and there's no benefit from it. My advice is as follows (it's a long post FYI):
1. Pray about it. We're all humans, it's easy to succumb to our desires even if they hurt us in the long run.
2. Make a commitment to absolutely cut Porn & ? (P&M) out of your life. You have to look at them like
drugs. No ? addict that's trying to recover will say "let me smoke ? only once a week or so". Especially at your frequency of fapping. It's not just cutting it out, but also changing your habit and lifestyle.
3. Find out when you fap the most. For me, it was when I woke up, when I was bored when I took my laptop to the bathroom, and when I was about to go to sleep. I was averaging about 3 times a day.
4. The first couple weeks will be hard, but you have to make a conscious effort. You'll be tempted to look at porn or suggestive images. You can't succumb to it. For me, I try not to use my laptop in my room with the door shut. If the door is shut then my window is open. At night, if I stay up doing work, then I'll do it in the living room and only come to my room to sleep.
5. Again, you have to change your habits. I'd been ? since 12 or 13. I'm just getting off it at 21. You have to understand that our bodies, after being so used to a routine of getting pleasure from fapping, will try hard to remain on "autopilot" and will not want to break the fapping habit. Example: When I was in middle school my sisters were still in elementary school. I would get back home from school before them and used my 45 min window to fap. Did this over the year and the habit was almost second nature. Now imagine have a routine for it for over 9 years. Gets hard to break.
6. Replace old habits with new ones. Once you feel yourself with that 'itch' to stroke or look at porn, just close the laptop and do some push-ups. Or better yet, take a 5 min walk. Some people say get a girlfriend or have a wife, but it's not gonna work. When you become so used to getting yourself off when YOU decide, even if you have a spouse they will simply not be able to keep up. There are married men coming forth saying even with their wives, they still sneak off to rub one off.
7. Get active or get a hobby. Read, run or write. When you start realizing how much time is wasted with P&M, you really will understand how much ? it is. You have men 30yrs+ chained by P&M and they don't know it. They schedule their lives around finding a time to fap and will vehemently defend how beneficial it is. Say you spend 20mins each session (finding the "right scene", getting enticed and doing the deed), now say you fap 3 times a day (wake up, back from work, before you sleep). That's 1 hr a day that could have been put to something else, learning a language, reading, watching a show, WORKING OUT, volunteering, community/church service, whatever.
8. Last thing, you really just have to go one day at a time. Like all addictions, urges will flare up from time to time. There's a challenge of going 90 days without it, but honestly, I'm looking at the rest of my life without it. It may seem impossible, but you have to keep the faith and just keep plowing ahead.
Feel free to message me if you need some other strategies. People are now just waking up to this disease. The scientific community will say it's not that bad but understand that it takes years, decades even to notice trends to the average human. I mean some years ago we used to paint our houses with lead and said there was no link between cigs and lung cancer. High-speed porn just became available about 10yrs ago, it will take some time before we really seeing the ramifications of it. These younger middle and high school kids may not know what hits em.
You took the great first step man. Acknowledging the problem is the first part of recovery.
Damn this made me bookmarked this thread. Good drop from the GOAT @jniam -
still going strong a month plus going on two
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I have ? up and gotten really weak with this ? again, when I stopped for a week the tissue supply in the house was healthy as ? , one of these days I am gonna get some willpower again and stop this ? , also stop smoking too, some great posts in here tho I am surprised at how serious it was taken and some thought provoking knowledge has been dropped, for those still going strong keep us updated if you notice anything new, I need some reasons to quit I enjoy this ? too much.
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I realize the longer I hold off from doing it, the more days in a row I'll do it. I went a week without and went in 3 days straight lol. I usually go in about every other day. Usually when my wife goes to sleep at night like a respectable citizen. If I'm home on the weekend and my wife goes somewhere, I'm going in as soon as she pulls out of the drive way. During the daytime like a heathen lol. Idk why lol. I guess it's just a habit from being a kid and having the crib to yourself when moms left.
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[Trillmatic] wrote: »I realize the longer I hold off from doing it, the more days in a row I'll do it. I went a week without and went in 3 days straight lol. I usually go in about every other day. Usually when my wife goes to sleep at night like a respectable citizen. If I'm home on the weekend and my wife goes somewhere, I'm going in as soon as she pulls out of the drive way. During the daytime like a heathen lol. Idk why lol. I guess it's just a habit from being a kid and having the crib to yourself when moms left.
They had this ? on the Carmichael Show yesterday...homeboy got salty cause his broad would do it wit out him knowin...bringin up a more serious issue, Do I Not Satify You -
Rum Middleton wrote: »[Trillmatic] wrote: »I realize the longer I hold off from doing it, the more days in a row I'll do it. I went a week without and went in 3 days straight lol. I usually go in about every other day. Usually when my wife goes to sleep at night like a respectable citizen. If I'm home on the weekend and my wife goes somewhere, I'm going in as soon as she pulls out of the drive way. During the daytime like a heathen lol. Idk why lol. I guess it's just a habit from being a kid and having the crib to yourself when moms left.
They had this ? on the Carmichael Show yesterday...homeboy got salty cause his broad would do it wit out him knowin...bringin up a more serious issue, Do I Not Satify You
lol. Idk it's just something guys do. I feel bad for the guys that HAVE to do it tho, that probably sucks! -
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I've been struggling with trying to stop as well.
? be feeling like a fiend looking at the "x" on my phone (for xvideos).
Went a week straight recently, but looked at porn without choking the chicken. Thought to myself, "this is Chinese water torture" what's the point?
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lmaoooooooooooooooooooo i feel so much better about life
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illestni99ainne wrote: »? is watching
This dude's taking "Free ? " too literally. -
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I might want to try this but what are the benefits ? like serious ones ? is fappin without porn bad too ? I'm single for the first time in like 15 years, I only ? once or twice a week on the week ends now because of my schedule. but I fap everynight before going to sleep I stopped once back in the days for like 2 weeks dont remember how it felt. I do notice that the more I ? ,the more I fap ...am I the only one ?
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I ? 12 times a day to the point comes out an have trouble being hard...when i stop for two days my dik get bigger an i have alot of ? if i go four days i go in sane
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blackgod813 wrote: »I ? 12 times a day to the point comes out an have trouble being hard...when i stop for two days my dik get bigger an i have alot of ? if i go four days i go in sane
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blackgod813 wrote: »I ? 12 times a day to the point comes out an have trouble being hard...when i stop for two days my dik get bigger an i have alot of ? if i go four days i go in sane
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blackgod813 wrote: »I ? 12 times a day to the point comes out an have trouble being hard...when i stop for two days my dik get bigger an i have alot of ? if i go four days i go in sane
Bruh u blind.... 12 times a day b?
My eye sight is very pore....not sayin thats the causeEther44mag wrote: »blackgod813 wrote: »I ? 12 times a day to the point comes out an have trouble being hard...when i stop for two days my dik get bigger an i have alot of ? if i go four days i go in sane
12 times a day ???? wtf my record is 3 times and I was ashamed of myself lol
Yeah 12 on a regular day....my legs always feel week...i literaly am compelled to do it...in highschool...it was so bad i had to go in bathrooms to doit...i would do on the school...an if a woman gets on top i have trouble getin a ? ..i cant use condoms i go instantly soft
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