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Jen&juice
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For those of you that have been in long term relationships how do you keep things fresh and new? What are some things you do to keep your sex life fun?????
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MEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALz
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lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!jackthemack wrote: »meaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaalz -
you gotta start havin sex in random places....ie the park at night or in a secluded alley in the middle of a hot day............nah mean
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Lol, stays freshLurk_Hinrich wrote: »Smh at me thinkin u was gon talk bout ur ? ...numbaz...80's baby wrote: »new positions, new locations of those new positions, new routines.(switch up ya lifestyle every now n then)
only thing is I'm afraid of doing anything outdoors .I don't know about anywhere else but here if you're caught you're going to be put on a sex offenders list.G Mackin' It wrote: »you gotta start havin sex in random places....ie the park at night or in a secluded alley in the middle of a hot day............nah mean -
Lol, stays fresh
only thing is I'm afraid of doing anything outdoors .I don't know about anywhere else but here if you're caught you're going to be put on a sex offenders list.
Let go of those inhibitions as sex should really be a free expression.
If you are that conscious of your surroundings, opt for a more secluded, private place.
Sex outdoors is a great way to kick it up a notch and it's a lot of fun. That added element of being outside adds to the intensity.
Try incorporating the hood of your car if you or your man have one. The hood allows for great leverage and the angle is perfection.
Anything involving rain is extremely sexy so the next time it rains just take him outside without giving him any notice, push him up against that wall and you know the rest.
You can also incorporate role playing ie. You meet at a bar acting like complete strangers, he offers to buy you a drink and BAM, next minute you are all over each other but OH NO, what if you get caught by your spouses? :O So you scurry off and have an intimate affair....LOL.
Try playing out different scenarios and play some games ie. Love Dice.
Venturing out and trying new things, whether sexual or not, is a great way to keep things fresh. Step outside your comfort zone and look for different activities within your community or if you are able to get away, take a little road trip. The simplest of things can be made to feel new so make your next walk outside together be a fun and exciting private picnic *wink wink* -
Conscious__Nkechi wrote: »Let go of those inhibitions as sex should really be a free expression.
If you are that conscious of your surroundings, opt for a more secluded, private place.
Sex outdoors is a great way to kick it up a notch and it's a lot of fun. That added element of being outside adds to the intensity.
Try incorporating the hood of your car if you or your man have one. The hood allows for great leverage and the angle is perfection.
Anything involving rain is extremely sexy so the next time it rains just take him outside without giving him any notice, push him up against that wall and you know the rest.
You can also incorporate role playing ie. You meet at a bar acting like complete strangers, he offers to buy you a drink and BAM, next minute you are all over each other but OH NO, what if you get caught by your spouses? :O So you scurry off and have an intimate affair....LOL.
Try playing out different scenarios and play some games ie. Love Dice.
Venturing out and trying new things, whether sexual or not, is a great way to keep things fresh. Step outside your comfort zone and look for different activities within your community or if you are able to get away, take a little road trip. The simplest of things can be made to feel new so make your next walk outside together be a fun and exciting private picnic *wink wink*
Yea, I had backseat sex I was scared the whole time...but I'm taking notes I'm thinking about that picnic lol! -
Yea, I had backseat sex I was scared the whole time...but I'm taking notes I'm thinking about that picnic lol!
Lol.
Okay well I do have a few specific scenarios you could set up and it can be done indoors so it's more to your liking but falls nothing short of spectacular. He will......well.....
I don't care to tell you the details publicly for obvious reasons so if you would ever like to hear them just PM me. -
Incorporate fruits, mash some strawberries up and have him eat it out your ? or put small icecubes in it so he can twirl it around with his tongue. Take index cards and write down body parts on it and have whipcream on the side and whatever card shows up, you have to place whipcream on that part and suck it off clean. Go to a stripclub and take her to the champagne room with your mate, make movies and play with each other to it, spend a whole day with your windows open, curtains pulled back and the breeze in the air walking and ? around the house like Adam and Eve. Watch a porno and practice having fun with different sexual positions shown on the video. Teach each other different innovative stuff that you've never seen or done before, I dunno, I'm a ? . NOT.
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Role play... balcony for that outdoor stuff.. I mean it is your residence.
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Sourpatch Kid wrote: »Incorporate fruits, mash some strawberries up and have him eat it out your ? or put small icecubes in it so he can twirl it around with his tongue. Take index cards and write down body parts on it and have whipcream on the side and whatever card shows up, you have to place whipcream on that part and suck it off clean. Go to a stripclub and take her to the champagne room with your mate, make movies and play with each other to it, spend a whole day with your windows open, curtains pulled back and the breeze in the air walking and ? around the house like Adam and Eve. Watch a porno and practice having fun with different sexual positions shown on the video. Teach each other different innovative stuff that you've never seen or done before, I dunno, I'm a ? . NOT.
Chocolate (or any favor) ice cream is great on him for ? .
The coldness of the ice cream mixed with the heat from her mouth can be an intensifying combination.
For less of a mess (as if that matters, yea, right!) opt for icing or whipped topping which is also cool. Hell, if you like yogurt, go ahead. Food is always good in these circumstances.
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let him ? on you
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Conscious__Nkechi wrote: »Chocolate (or any favor) ice cream is great on him for ? .
The coldness of the ice cream mixed with the heat from her mouth can be an intensifying combination.
For less of a mess (as if that matters, yea, right!) opt for icing or whipped topping which is also cool. Hell, if you like yogurt, go ahead. Food is always good in these circumstances.
I will leave all further details for our PM's.
Na, icecream drips everywhere and makes a bigger mess, you have to use something edible yet in tact. Flavored whip creams are a better substitute. Another thing thats good is halls or go to a sex shop and see if they have something that gives that cool-hot sensation like icey hot on the body. The key to great sex is both people being completely comfortable with each other's bodies and you don't have to have sex outside but perhaps go on a camping trip and ? in the woods or in the middle of a lake at night time. -
Sourpatch Kid wrote: »Na, icecream drips everywhere and makes a bigger mess, you have to use something edible yet in tact. Flavored whip creams are a better substitute. Another thing thats good is halls or go to a sex shop and see if they have something that gives that cool-hot sensation like icey hot on the body. The key to great sex is both people being completely comfortable with each other's bodies and you don't have to have sex outside but perhaps go on a camping trip and ? in the woods or in the middle of a lake at night time.
Mmmhhh I understand however I personally could not care less about making a mess when in that moment, I don't mind in these circumstances. There is a reason ice cream makes for such a great food to use for this particular activity.
However I considered the feelings of those who don't like the mess (Lol) which is why I mentioned whipped products or yogurt which is of a thicker consistency so it won't drip as easily.
While the flavored and/or icy hot massage oils and lotions are good for the body, I am not a fan of anything spicy in my nether region. Let's just say it wasn't a comfortable feeling.
I like using ice for the quick minute it does last which is usually more for me.
Many objects can be brought into play for instance hand cuffs which some men are not as eager to explore with but how he feels before and after isn't exactly the same thing. I recommend incorporating chairs, cuffs and this will sound strange.......a huge water bottle. For more details on that I would have to charge so that is enough for now. Lol. -
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Easy! sex in different places and different time. My fav is when im sleeping and my girl start giving me head, its a nice way to wake up
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You want to live in fresh of the of the total Day.SO many type of fresher Cream available in the market to take any one cream.and to do cream on the face and after a few time clean face with water your face is really look fresh
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adelfjohanason wrote: »You want to live in fresh of the of the total Day.SO many type of fresher Cream available in the market to take any one cream.and to do cream on the face and after a few time clean face with water your face is really look fresh
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Just be spontaneous. Wake up in the middle of the night and please them, do it in places throughout your house or elsewhere, try new positions, get some sex toys, dress up in lingerine and dance for him, role play, etc.
I also think romance and passion is a big part of it, so you need to take time to do things OUTSIDE the bedroom to bond and spend special time together, something different y'all normally don't do like a picnic, museum, travel, bowling, play or watch sports together, etc.
