SMH, It's too Late!!!!
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Ok
So last night I had a visit from one of my exes.
Me and him haven't spoke in over a year
we stopped seeing each other because I believed at the time he was seeing other women, and after we broke up, it turned out I was right.
So let's fast forward to last night
He's at my door talking about how he loves me and always has loved me, and that he knows he ? up and that he just wasn't ready for committent at that time.
So asked him, "where is this coming from"
LOL, he tells me how he's caught up in a malpractice and insurance fraud ? (he's a doctor), but they're trying to get him on administering steriods and I suspect a lot of this has to do with a gambling addiction, that has been rumored he has, which he refuses to cop to
the chick he cheated on me with left as soon as she realized that the money had to go lawyers instead of her
Now he's telling me how, he knows I wouldn't have bailed on him like that, that I was such a good woman, I only wanted the best for him, blah, blah, blah
and all I can say is
"that's nice, but it's too late, I've moved on"
Him: "oh so youre seeing someone"
Me: "no, but I've moved on from what we had"
Him: *confused*
His ass can't understand why I won't take him back
Fellas if you choose to ? up
live with that decision
and don't think just because you have a good girl she'll put up with you're ? , because if she'd good and smart, she'll move and not give a ? about you
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You're dumb...
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Is he white?
But, yeah...congrats on not taking him back! -
Will Munny wrote: »You're dumb...blue virgo wrote: »Is he white?
But, yeah...congrats on not taking him back!
mixed, his mom is black his father is white
girl he caught me at the right time, if this was around the time we broke up, I may have considered it
but I'm at a place where I just want peace
and dating a doctor with legal woes, is not peaceful -
lol, damn... ? have no shame. how the ? he gon' try to get back in with you AFTER the money if gone???
? typa time this ? on???
Ol' smart (doctor), ? ? .... -
? my ex girl and I just talked last nite. and it went surprisingly good. U should have told him u ll be there for him but not treat him like that. lol
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says the man trying to make out with cat
When you "cat" instead of "a cat" it sounds like a sexual innuendo, regardless of the ? in my avi. -
Thats good you didn't him back....he doesn't deserve a good women when he dissed you to be with the gold digger
He got what he asked for he chose ? over love -
says the man trying to make out with cat
mixed, his mom is black his father is white
girl he caught me at the right time, if this was around the time we broke up, I may have considered it
but I'm at a place where I just want peace
and dating a doctor with legal woes, is not peaceful
Lol, I understand.
Plus, he's going to be broke.
No bueno. -
* Secretly happy *
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yung_mulah wrote: »Thats good you didn't him back....he doesn't deserve a good women when he dissed you to be with the gold digger
He got what he asked for he chose ? over love
one of the main reasons she loved me, was because I was black LOL
even though she married a white man, she hated that he only dated white girls (very weird)
now that he's in this mess, she keeps telling him
"see? That's why I told you stay away from those white girls!"
His family is crazy
but I think this scenario will put him back into his black girl phase
until he gets put on and leave her ass for white girl -
says the man trying to make out with cat
mixed, his mom is black his father is white
girl he caught me at the right time, if this was around the time we broke up, I may have considered it
but I'm at a place where I just want peace
and dating a doctor with legal woes, is not peaceful -
Now what would we all be saying if a male made this thread? Oh thats right...
DUCKTALES !!! A-WOOOOOO!!!
Seriously though. You're just ? he didnt choose you. You'd have left his ass too you just never got the opportunity. YOu sound like broke ass ? who pretend if the won they lottery they'd have given half to charity and breast cancer awareness and ? . Easy to say how much of a good person your ass is when you never get the opportunity to prove it.
lol @ masking your obvious attempt at boasting with a phony ass "and the moral of the story is...." message to the "fellas" at the end. ? outta here hope that ? come back and cut your ass with one of his spare scalpels. Hope the ? put a part in ya weave. -
better late than never
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Well I think his family, particularly his mother has a part in why he wanted to get back
one of the main reasons she loved me, was because I was black LOL
even though she married a white man, she hated that he only dated white girls (very weird)
now that he's in this mess, she keeps telling him
"see? That's why I told you stay away from those white girls!"
His family is crazy
but I think this scenario will put him back into his black girl phase
until he gets put on and leave her ass for white girl
yea because we are the only race of women who get stereotyped as gold diggers
he got his self in that situation by thinking the grass was greener on the other side -
Now what would we all be saying if a male made this thread? Oh thats right...
DUCKTALES !!! A-WOOOOOO!!!
Seriously though. You're just ? he didnt choose you. You'd have left his ass too you just never got the opportunity. YOu sound like broke ass ? who pretend if the won the lottery they'd have given half to charity and brest cancer awareness and ? . Easy to say how much of a good person your ass is when you never get the opportunity to prove it.
lol @ masking your obvious attempt at boasting with a phony ass "and the moral of the story is...." message to the "fellas" at the end. ? outta here hope that ? come back and cut your ass with one of his spare scalpels. Hope the ? put a part in ya weave.junegemini wrote: »better late than never
LMAO @ these two posts!!!!!!!!
Y'all have perfect timing, cause that ? is hilarious they way it's posted. -
Now what would we all be saying if a male made this thread? Oh thats right...
DUCKTALES !!! A-WOOOOOO!!!
Seriously though. You're just ? he didnt choose you. You'd have left his ass too you just never got the opportunity. YOu sound like broke ass ? who pretend if the won they lottery they'd have given half to charity and breast cancer awareness and ? . Easy to say how much of a good person your ass is when you never get the opportunity to prove it.
lol @ masking your obvious attempt at boasting with a phony ass "and the moral of the story is...." message to the "fellas" at the end. ? outta here hope that ? come back and cut your ass with one of his spare scalpels. Hope the ? put a part in ya weave.
and completely true
except I don't wear weaves
but you can have another shot throwing another black woman stereotype at me
maybe this time it'll stick -
Smart move
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And you had a convo with him past 5 minutes
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I was once seeing this man who couldn't understand why I no longer wanted to associate with him. Even after I told him the exact reasons I could no longer deal with him he immediately assumed it was because I was interested in another man. No no, not because of all that I had just said but because of a next man. Smh. No sweetie, there is no other man. You alone were the issue.
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hope that ? come back and cut your ass with one of his spare scalpels. Hope the ? put a part in ya weave.
LMMFAO!!!! *never read a post this funny*
4real dudes problem is we sometimes think.. that females think like we do... but yall don't We'd be the ones not truly over a girl unless with a new girl (sometimes not even after that). -
HOw insightful
and completely true
lol @ bragging when at the end of the day he chose you LAST.....TWICE. You basically telling us how once again you were the backup hoe.
Congratulations? -
No ? , that's why I said it. And where is the "black woman stereotype?" .....................Non-existent; like your self-respect.
lol @ bragging when at the end of the day he chose you LAST.....TWICE. You basically telling us how once again you were the backup hoe.
Congratulations?
This ? hea on a tear since the 24 hours (really 2 hours) of "peace" ? ..... lmao..... -
No ? , that's why I said it. And where is the "black woman stereotype?" .....................Non-existent; like your self-respect.
lol @ bragging when at the end of the day he chose you LAST.....TWICE. You basically telling us how once again you were the backup hoe.
Congratulations?
and I was referring to assumption you made about me wearing weaves
and yes he chose me second which is why I didn't choose him at at all, anything else???? -
Fundz O' Plenty wrote: »This ? hea on a tear since the 24 hours (really 2 hours) of "peace" ? ..... lmao.....
was there a cease-fire of sorts?