I see a lot of men saying that women over-analyze things....

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100%Sag
100%Sag Members Posts: 294
edited September 2010 in For The Grown & Sexy
... so can I get some male perspective?

I got a flat tire today. This guy pulled up and asked if I needed help, and I said yes. So, he's changing my flat and we are making small talk and some of his friends/ neighbors start coming out of the house and come over too. This girl starts talking about how "Angela" is going to be so mad that he's changing my tire, and she's about to call her, etc etc. But, from his reaction, I dont think thats his gf.

Anyway, it's hot as hell out and it took like 30 min to finish, so I offered him some money or lunch, but he wouldn't take it. I offered like 20 times and he kept saying "I'll take you up on the offer next time." But he didn't ask for my number. And as I was pulling away, he gave me change to put air in the donut, after refusing my money.

So....Was he just being nice? Because I know where he lives, and I wanted to pay him for helping me.... so I could see him again, if I wanted to. But I don't want to be a pest, especially if he wasn't interested.....?
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  • Dupac
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    angela gonna whoop ur ass.....
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  • haute
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    dusouljah wrote: »
    angela gonna whoop ur ass.....

    Bob and weave girl

    Bob and weave

    Try to get some ? ? action before the rumble
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  • 100%Sag
    100%Sag Members Posts: 294
    edited August 2010
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    LOL dont say that. This girl saw my plates and she knows my name.
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  • Eternal Bachelor
    Eternal Bachelor Members Posts: 656 ✭
    edited August 2010
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    take a chance and see what happens...

    the worst the ? can do is say no...

    what do you have to lose?
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  • Dupac
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    lol, real talk, dude was genuinly being nice....but it's not a coincidence that u now view him as a "nice guy"
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  • 100%Sag
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    haute wrote: »
    Bob and weave girl

    Bob and weave

    Try to get some ? ? action before the rumble

    Was it you that had "when in doubt, do some ? ? " in your sig before? LOL
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  • Dupac
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    100%Sag wrote: »
    LOL dont say that. This girl saw my plates and she knows my name.
    oh.. yall ain't NEVER gonna be friends......EVER......you can dead that ? right now.. no matter how cool u may think she is...
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  • freshfromatl
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    edited August 2010
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    dusouljah wrote: »
    lol, real talk, dude was genuinly being nice....but it's not a coincidence that u now view him as a "nice guy"

    Exactly...Sometimes I find it funny how when a dude genuinly committs an respectable act towards women...it leaves yall "confused." LOL. What's up with that?
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  • tru_m.a.c
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    freshfromatl wrote: »
    Exactly...Sometimes I find it funny how when a dude genuinly committs an respectable act towards women...it leaves yall all "confused." LOL.

    lol seriously though
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  • haute
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    100%Sag wrote: »
    Was it you that had "when in doubt, do some ? ? " in your sig before? LOL

    Lol

    I may have offered that advice on here from time to time

    Soooo

    Is he cute??

    Either way you should bake him a home made pie, and write a thank you note

    It's the polite thing to do
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  • Dupac
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    haute wrote: »
    Lol

    I may have offered that advice on here from time to time

    Soooo

    Is he cute??

    Either way you should bake him a home made pie, and write a thank you note

    It's the polite thing to do

    angela gonna bring that ? back to her door like

    "he's diabetic....? "
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  • freshfromatl
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    LysolJenkins wrote: »
    nah funnier is when the guy IS interested she aint tryna hear it

    Exactly!
    ............
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  • 100%Sag
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    freshfromatl wrote: »
    Exactly...Sometimes I find it funny how when a dude genuinly committs an respectable act towards women...it leaves yall "confused." LOL. What's up with that?

    Because it seemed overly nice. IDK... just not used to it.
    LysolJenkins wrote: »
    yea he was just bein a nice guy.. if he was interested he wouldve gotten some info on you before he finished..but sounds like he didnt ask any questions or press to see you later..sounds like he's waitin on some paternity test results and wants his karma right

    LOL
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  • freshfromatl
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    haute wrote: »
    Lol

    I may have offered that advice on here from time to time

    Soooo

    Is he cute??

    Either way you should bake him a home made pie, and write a thank you note

    It's the polite thing to do


    That would be very generous lol...too bad 99% of women not built this way though smh...
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  • 5th Letter
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    freshfromatl wrote: »
    Exactly...Sometimes I find it funny how when a dude genuinly committs an respectable act towards women...it leaves yall "confused." LOL. What's up with that?

    i guess they are used to dudes doing things for the purpose of getting lucky.
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  • Dupac
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    100%Sag wrote: »
    Because it seemed overly nice. IDK... just not used to it.



    LOL
    i mean, it was a honest nice gesture, but the kinda nice gesture that forces u to pay attntion..

    not tryna say he flat out wanna ? u right now..but yall more liable to speak to eachother now.. and maybe some day work yall way into a conversation....? was kinda smooth real talk....

    but angela still gonna split ur ? ....
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  • Maximus Rex
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    He was being nice. If wanted to holla, believe me, he would've of hollered.
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  • Dupac
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    Sperling wrote: »
    Sounds like he was just being nice, if he wanted to talk to you like that he would have been gave you his number.

    not neccesarily....he might just wanna throw that initial impression of him being a really cool, nice chil laid back dude... he know hse ain't going no where, and ain't no point in seeming thirsty....

    let that ? develope.....
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  • freshfromatl
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    100%Sag wrote: »
    Because it seemed overly nice. IDK... just not used to it.

    Well...to honestly answer your question...the dude may have been interested but refrained from asking your number because he really didn't feel like coming across like the thousands of other ? women claim bug them. I can honestly say that because I've done this myself, where I just politely finished the convo without asking for the number and I've seen that kind of stunned look on women faces like "why he not getting my number?" So ya, there could have been interest but guess you will never know now...

    Also...my last question to solve this...Not trying to be rude but, are you attractive?
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  • 100%Sag
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    edited August 2010
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    haute wrote: »
    Lol

    I may have offered that advice on here from time to time

    Soooo

    Is he cute??

    Either way you should bake him a home made pie, and write a thank you note

    It's the polite thing to do

    Yea, he was cute. I was just going to put some money on his windsheild or something. Because I really do appreciate his help. But like I said, I don't want to be dumb about it. Nor do I want any problems... his house really is like right up the street.
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  • Dupac
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    Maximus Rex wrote: »
    He was being nice. If wanted to holla, believe me, he would've of hollered.

    not always true.. there's an art to being subtle....plus there's angela to consider at this time....

    this may be a dude with an ascended level of game here....? that confuses all who are not familiar to it....

    i've been known to do ? like this, and not cash in until weeks....maybe months later....its caled.."putting ur bid in"
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  • DarcSkies
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    Well maybe he was just being nice in not taking the money cuz he wanted to show he was doing it as a nice guy and not somebody looking for something in advance.

    And you didnt exactly make your intentions known so maybe he's just a shy dude who dont approach unless he's super sure.
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  • freshfromatl
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    dusouljah wrote: »
    not neccesarily....he might just wanna throw that initial impression of him being a really cool, nice chil laid back dude... he know hse ain't going no where, and ain't no point in seeming thirsty....

    let that ? develope.....


    *daps* this ? know what he talkin' bout.
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  • McGeeAKey
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    edited August 2010
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    100%Sag wrote: »
    ... so can I get some male perspective?

    I got a flat tire today. This guy pulled up and asked if I needed help, and I said yes. So, he's changing my flat and we are making small talk and some of his friends/ neighbors start coming out of the house and come over too. This girl starts talking about how "Angela" is going to be so mad that he's changing my tire, and she's about to call her, etc etc. But, from his reaction, I dont think thats his gf.

    Anyway, it's hot as hell out and it took like 30 min to finish, so I offered him some money or lunch, but he wouldn't take it. I offered like 20 times and he kept saying "I'll take you up on the offer next time." But he didn't ask for my number. And as I was pulling away, he gave me change to put air in the donut, after refusing my money.

    So....Was he just being nice? Because I know where he lives, and I wanted to pay him for helping me.... so I could see him again, if I wanted to. But I don't want to be a pest, especially if he wasn't interested.....?

    women better realize you lucky theres some good men left cause later on,there wont be anymore left
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