The hardest talk with your daughter...can you do it
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we all know dudes keep it gutta when talking to their boys about pleasing a woman sexually, like you gotta flip dat ? and bang bang or your dad used to do this or that or even the guys with since saying take you time and love her the right way.
Now how many of yall dudes had or are going to have a real sex talk with your daughters. Leave the mothers out of it for a sec and take a dads role in it. I mean outside the birds and the bees but going as far as to say what a man likes and what may be expected of them as wives and long term girlfreinds.
i'm not talking no montana fishburne type ? , or just telling her not to ? herself out cause the ? will stay with you forevertype ? .
think about how many women you have been with and there lack of sexual freedom because if they really do what they like you may think they a hoe or think what you asked them to do is just nasty.
I have even heard women say that their mom never had the real sex talk with them or told them how to please a man and thats why they are married and cant ? .
I am not going to lie, its tough having the talk with my daughter, but i rather her hear it from me than her stupid ass girlfreinds and mother, or some dude. But after the talks, I know she tells her little freinds and she knows that her dad tackles subjects her freinds dads doesnt and she brags about the honesty.
So can you, will you or did you keep it real with your daughter about sex and what pleases a man?
Now how many of yall dudes had or are going to have a real sex talk with your daughters. Leave the mothers out of it for a sec and take a dads role in it. I mean outside the birds and the bees but going as far as to say what a man likes and what may be expected of them as wives and long term girlfreinds.
i'm not talking no montana fishburne type ? , or just telling her not to ? herself out cause the ? will stay with you forevertype ? .
think about how many women you have been with and there lack of sexual freedom because if they really do what they like you may think they a hoe or think what you asked them to do is just nasty.
I have even heard women say that their mom never had the real sex talk with them or told them how to please a man and thats why they are married and cant ? .
I am not going to lie, its tough having the talk with my daughter, but i rather her hear it from me than her stupid ass girlfreinds and mother, or some dude. But after the talks, I know she tells her little freinds and she knows that her dad tackles subjects her freinds dads doesnt and she brags about the honesty.
So can you, will you or did you keep it real with your daughter about sex and what pleases a man?
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I doubt I'd be bothered by it.
There will be no Barbies, dolls or any ? ass ? in my house. Im not raising no punk ? and Im not treating anybody under my roof differently. Everybody learning about sex the same way. BLUNTLY. -
wait...what I mean Im all for educating her about being safe and ? but what pleases a man? Hell naw she gonna have to figure that out
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yeah i think it's important to hear it from both parents
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i'm not sure if it's a father's place to teach his daughter how to ? .
call me crazy. -
the sad thing is the woman is going to teach her daughters to use men,sell her body for proit
it's been passed on since forever -
I doubt I'd be bothered by it.
There will be no Barbies, dolls or any ? ass ? in my house. Im not raising no punk ? and Im not treating anybody under my roof differently. Everybody learning about sex the same way. BLUNTLY.
gotta respect this mans thought process....i totally agree -
I doubt I'd be bothered by it.
There will be no Barbies, dolls or any ? ass ? in my house. Im not raising no punk ? and Im not treating anybody under my roof differently. Everybody learning about sex the same way. BLUNTLY.
Lmao, would hate for you to be my Dad. -
i'm not sure if it's a father's place to teach his daughter how to ? .
call me crazy.
you missed the point, its not teaching how to ? its about explaining to her what to expect or what may be required ot asked of her. -
jus send her to quagmires house
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wait...what I mean Im all for educating her about being safe and ? but what pleases a man? Hell naw she gonna have to figure that out
this is why chicks dont know what to do and figure it out by learning from some ? dude.... gotta put pride to the side and give your child all she needs that may help her make the right decisions and not be blindsided by stupidity -
I would HATE to talk about sex with my parents.
Me & my sister are both goody goodies so I guess
he felt he never had to be overly strict about it.
He tried to talk about sex with me once :l
He started out the conversation with "Do
you know about birth control pills" lmao. I
IMMEDIATELY stopped him right then & there. -
I would HATE to talk about sex with my parents.
Me & my sister are both goody goodies so I guess
he felt he never had to be overly strict about it.
He tried to talk about sex with me once :l
He started out the conversation with "Do
you know about birth control pills" lmao. I
IMMEDIATELY stopped him right then & there.
and your name is yummy lix....ok -
the hardest pill to swallow is that,your daughter is going to grow up to become a ? by her friends and ? peer pressuring her
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and your name is yummy lix....ok
Lmao, my name doesn't mean like that!
Lol I had to explain this on another thread.
It means anything that's cute to me.
Example :"Oooh those shoes are yummy" lol
& I love sweets/love to bake & the
word Yummy deals with food.. -
Don't be a ? ' ? .
Good luck out there. -
funny but some people rather just not talk about it and let them learn on their own...
where is the parent responsibilty in giving the kids alll the tools they need to succeed in life. -
really its not about details, she will learn that
i think the most important thing you need to tell her in a father to daughter role is, NOT to believe everything she hears, choose VERY carefully & realise that, to most guys a ? is just a ? at the end of the day, guys will take what you give them so ease with caution, and tell her like 10 times until she gets the message loud and clear.
after that, there isnt much else you can do.. -
no matter what you tell your daughters,she gonna be suckin ? ? ,and poppin out kids by different guys
they all gotta get that late age like 30 40s and 50s to appreciate herself and want someone good been happening since forever -
- IF your gonna be a ? ... do it like THIS...
? what the ? is you talkn about? Teach ur daughters how to please a man? FOH ...u can raise ? if u wanna -
this is why chicks dont know what to do and figure it out by learning from some ? dude.... gotta put pride to the side and give your child all she needs that may help her make the right decisions and not be blindsided by stupidity
I understand but it was just the way you typed it made it seem like you teaching HOW to ? . Like I said education is key and a better point is not in the act of sex but how it's used for gains and means and how the effects of sex can cause on a young person -
- IF your gonna be a ? ... do it like THIS...
? what the ? is you talkn about? Teach ur daughters how to please a man? FOH ...u can raise ? if u wanna
LAFF.......
nah homie i'll pass.........
imma just tell her make sure the ? you ? is yo man............period.
and if you going to go raw.........make sure he has a JOB..............period. -
no man can control their daughter being a ?
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I'm a just tell her straight up if ur old enough to be ? your old enough to raise a kid and have your own place.
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Lmao, would hate for you to be my Dad.
You're a ? and you dont hide it well. -