So I cheated this onetime err..twotimes and this ? almost blew up.........

Ol Jay's

in my face......whew.....I went to Chicago to celebrate my birthday. I made a thread about it and I was going reveal the tale of how it went, in there, but the mods closed it. Anyways I met up with a chick from the net there. Needless to say we had an encounter. Which lead to her inviting me back this past weekend. I promise I won't do it again........DO YOU LADIES THINK IT WOULD BE WISE FOR ME TO TELL MY WIFE LIKE THAT.

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rose.amoureux

Just....sigh

inlovewithe

um...........ok

Ol Jay's

rose.amoureux wrote: »

Just....sigh

Sperling wrote: »

smh .

Kay. wrote: »

-.-
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Ugh.

inlovewithe wrote: »

um...........ok

no advice, I'm trying to be honest with her, cuz this ? seem to be catching up with me, and I wanna be the one to tell her or should I keep quiet and see if this will go away

rose.amoureux

Mr. Whatchasay wrote: »

no advice, I'm trying to be honest with her, cuz this ? seem to be catching up with me, and I wanna be the one to tell her or should I keep quiet and see if this will go away

I cant tell you how to handle your guilt, though.

The_African

Tell her if you want her to suffer.

Ol Jay's

The_African wrote: »

Tell her if you want her to suffer.

but I think ol girl finna do whatever it takes to bust me out, so wouldn't it be better if she heard it first from me

rose.amoureux

Mr. Whatchasay wrote: »

but I think ol girl finna do whatever it takes to bust me out, so wouldn't it be better if she heard it first from me

But...did you not think of that before you cheated? You were strong enough to cheat, so be strong enough to decide whether to tell her or hide it from her.

birdcall89

? you crazy if you think you should tell her. thats your wife, shes gonna divorce you and take half of everything. go to confession if you feel bad about it, but never ever ever mention it to her until shes on her death bed or until after you get divorced over something else. which ever comes first.

MR.CJ

Did you ? in her ? ?

TimeToParty

bro if the hoe u smashed is gonna put u on blast then delete all ways she could get in contact with u, like FB and change ur number, if she knows where u live then just
drop kick that ? when she walks up....dont let ur hoe find out or u gonna be ? 4 life