Ladies, ask a ? man !
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No ? at the contents of this whole thread but yea, you gotta let that brawd know. I mean what's the purpose of a relationship without honesty (about the big lies). That's also how women catch AIDS unknowingly when they think they know about their partner when they really don't.
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why is everyone so quick to say I'm wrong for that?
I practive safe sex and i dont have AIDS or any other STD.
Thats a ? sterotype that all bi/? men contract and spread AIDS. -
ItzGravitation wrote: »why is everyone so quick to say I'm wrong for that?
I practive safe sex and i dont have AIDS or any other STD.
Thats a ? sterotype that all bi/? men contract and spread AIDS.
I agree that it is a stereotype that ? people catch AIDS faster. I really don't know nor have the facts to prove this but what I'm saying is that there's a big difference between big lies and small lies in a relationship and when you hide a secret like this, it can emotionally traumatize your partner so it's not something that you should ever keep a secret. Also I'm comparing this to a spouse cheating on their mate with multiple partners. Your spreading that intimacy with different people and exposing an innocent person to something they do not want in their life.
Safe sex or not, some people are not comfortable having a mate that is swinging both ways and in fact they may find it mortifying so that's the first thing, you should let shorty know. If she stays with you that's the first test of your relationship. -
You should tell em. Thtas like u being that transgendered thing and havin sex wit men but not tellin em u had a sex change. He/she know it would be a wrap if they wasn't up front. That would scar someone. And u polluting the ozone layer. U may practice safe sex but what good is that if u not tellin the chick up front. Dudes not suppose to take it in the ass so ? that safe sex ?
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@Sourpatch. I'm faithful. I'm messing with this chick and i aint messed with no dudes during our relationship.
What am exposing anyone to?
@FlySociety
I havent taken it up the ass many times. I'm most likely to top someone.
And how would that scar anyone? -
Fly society513 wrote: »You should tell em. Thtas like u being that transgendered thing and havin sex wit men but not tellin em u had a sex change. He/she know it would be a wrap if they wasn't up front. That would scar someone. And u polluting the ozone layer. U may practice safe sex but what good is that if u not tellin the chick up front. Dudes not suppose to take it in the ass so ? that safe sex ?
Exactly, that kind of ? will get you murdered and this is the reason why the ? community gets bashed so much. Some of y'all ? demand respect but stay ? on people with those double standards. -
ItzGravitation wrote: »@Sourpatch. I'm faithful. I'm messing with this chick and i aint messed with no dudes during our relationship.
What am exposing anyone to?
@FlySociety
I havent taken it up the ass many times. I'm most likely to top someone.
And how would that scar anyone?
Well in that case, I really don't know what to say but you should let her know because if she's feeling you and your committed to her then that's how it should be but there's no point in being in a relationship with those kind of skeletons in your closet. -
Sourpatch Kid wrote: »Well in that case, I really don't know what to say but you should let her know because if she's feeling you and your committed to her then that's how it should be but there's no point in being in a relationship with those kind of skeletons in your closet.
there are some things she wont tell me.
Doesnt mean I'm hiding anything from her but since i dont pressure her she dont pressure me.
I already told her i had a crazy past. -
ItzGravitation wrote: »@Sourpatch. I'm faithful. I'm messing with this chick and i aint messed with no dudes during our relationship.
What am exposing anyone to?
@FlySociety
I havent taken it up the ass many times. I'm most likely to top someone.
And how would that scar anyone?
I'm done yo I didn't wanna know that. I was jus tryna state my point. -
ItzGravitation wrote: »there are some things she wont tell me.
Doesnt mean I'm hiding anything from her but since i dont pressure her she dont pressure me.
I already told her i had a crazy past.
It's pretty simple
Your secrets>>>>Hers
You sleep with both men and women.
She probably ? a few dudes in the past and didn't tell you which is nothing serious.
That's all I'm sayin'. -
ItzGravitation wrote: »there are some things she wont tell me.
Doesnt mean I'm hiding anything from her but since i dont pressure her she dont pressure me.
I already told her i had a crazy past.
wow really that's what you told her?
So she has no idea you have slept with men in your past ?
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Sourpatch Kid wrote: »It's pretty simple
Your secrets>>>>Hers
You sleep with both men and women.
She probably ? a few dudes in the past and didn't tell you which is nothing serious.
That's all I'm sayin'.
ok. We're equal in this relationship.
She kept a few guys back why cant I? -
This is a strange thread,lol.
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mssouthernthang wrote: »wow really that's what you told her?
So she has no idea you have slept with men in your past ?
Would she leave you if you told her ?
I doubt it.
But i wont tell if she dont ask.
Thats just how I am.
I did tell her i kissed a few guys and jacked off with a friend once so i left her all the clues.
She understands that guys will experiment and she know she's the one i want to be with. -
ItzGravitation wrote: »ok. We're equal in this relationship.
She kept a few guys back why cant I?
Well with the bolded being stated, LMAO, I'm done. -
Sourpatch Kid wrote: »Well with the bolded being stated, LMAO, I'm done.
did i say something wrong? -
Fly society513 wrote: »You should tell em. Thtas like u being that transgendered thing and havin sex wit men but not tellin em u had a sex change. He/she know it would be a wrap if they wasn't up front. That would scar someone. And u polluting the ozone layer. U may practice safe sex but what good is that if u not tellin the chick up front. Dudes not suppose to take it in the ass so ? that safe sex ?
people arent supposed to take it up the ass -
thetruth391 wrote: »people arent supposed to take it up the ass
just cuz you dont like it dont knock it.
Some of the best sex i had has been a guy taking it up the ass and he loved every minute of it. -
thetruth391 wrote: »people arent supposed to take it up the ass
Really? - I never knew that, all my life I've been doing it wrong,lol. -
ItzGravitation wrote: »just cuz you dont like it dont knock it.
Some of the best sex i had has been a guy taking it up the ass and he loved every minute of it.
im talking about from a natural/anatomical point of view
but no i dont like it either
smh @ me tryna help you out and you thinkin im knockin u -
ItzGravitation wrote: »I doubt it.
But i wont tell if she dont ask.
Thats just how I am.
I did tell her i kissed a few guys and jacked off with a friend once so i left her all the clues.
She understands that guys will experiment and she know she's the one i want to be with.
oh then she must know then and not have a problem with it -
ItzGravitation wrote: »did i say something wrong?
Your trying to compromise a big lie in the relationship, just tell shorty your ? and be real with yourself. -
thetruth391 wrote: »im talking about from a natural/anatomical point of view
but no i dont like it either
smh @ me tryna help you out and you thinkin im knockin u
you ever tried to ? a chick in the ass?
you should try. You'll both enjoy it if you do it right. I promise. -
Sourpatch Kid wrote: »Your trying to compromise a big lie in the relationship, just tell shorty your ? and be real with yourself.
dude is it hard for you to understand I'm bi.
according to this thread you're ? so you should be answering the questions. -
nah cuz im straight on that
religious reasons. and before you barrage me with theoretical questions and stuff everyone has their gripes. this is 1 of mine
to each his own
