every relationship has 1 loser..

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damobb2deep
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edited November 2010 in For The Grown & Sexy
you kno people always say " our relationship/ I want my relationship 2 be 50/50" thing is in todays relationships that almost non-existant.. And honestly in that past it wassnt eather...

We all kno all relationships have problems.. But 70% of the time its 1 person causing those problems and the other person dealing with those problems/ forgiving that person 4 those "mistakes"

This goes 4 females and "good/lame ? "..

Now we also kno "friends wit benifits" don't work eather.. So the "loser" in that relationship is tha person who catches feelings.. Cuz tha other person gone just say "we not 2gether so why u mad?"

Also the people who are "players" have they share.. Players usually have a main.. Now eather the "main or the player" can be tha loser in this situation tha main can have the loss cuz she gets cheated on constantly.. But tha player can get hurt as well if tha "main" just sees tha player as a jumpoff...

Tha hoe relationship has it as well.. Cuz its easy when she wants 2 stop havin "fun" her name is out therre so bad its gonna be hard 4 a man 2 take her out of the jumpoff catagory.. Smh


And this is tha ? we deal with.. Therre is a 50% chance u gonna win or loose n any relationship nowdays..
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  • MERYLISGOAT
    MERYLISGOAT Members Posts: 781
    edited November 2010
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    ? losing ouot here everydayb
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  • damobb2deep
    damobb2deep Members Posts: 19,972 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    MERYLISGOAT wrote: »
    ? losing ouot here everydayb

    Lol I kno.. I was jus thinkin bout this ? ...

    I'm usually tha "loser" in my relationship..
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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2010
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    its true....Im like the Miami Heat right now...Im struggling out Chea!!!!
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  • Shizlansky
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    edited November 2010
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    you kno people always say " our relationship/ I want my relationship 2 be 50/50" thing is in todays relationships that almost non-existant.. And honestly in that past it wassnt eather...

    We all kno all relationships have problems.. But 70% of the time its 1 person causing those problems and the other person dealing with those problems/ forgiving that person 4 those "mistakes"

    This goes 4 females and "good/lame ? "..

    Now we also kno "friends wit benifits" don't work eather.. So the "loser" in that relationship is tha person who catches feelings.. Cuz tha other person gone just say "we not 2gether so why u mad?"

    Also the people who are "players" have they share.. Players usually have a main.. Now eather the "main or the player" can be tha loser in this situation tha main can have the loss cuz she gets cheated on constantly.. But tha player can get hurt as well if tha "main" just sees tha player as a jumpoff...

    Tha hoe relationship has it as well.. Cuz its easy when she wants 2 stop havin "fun" her name is out therre so bad its gonna be hard 4 a man 2 take her out of the jumpoff catagory.. Smh


    And this is tha ? we deal with.. Therre is a 50% chance u gonna win or loose n any relationship nowdays..




    Had me dying laughing.. i dropped my damn phone lmao
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  • lighthearted25
    lighthearted25 Members Posts: 1,307
    edited November 2010
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    i agree w/ this. i've been on both ends of the spectrum.
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  • TheApocalypse
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    I'm goin thru this right now. Me and this girl were in a relationship for almost a year and called it quits a couple months back. Now we're supposed to be working on gettin it back together but she keeps hittin me with the "I go through so much to make you happy" type lines like she's the one giving and I'm just taking. I'm not perfect but I can easily be classified with the good/lame dudes because I try to take care of my woman. In reality we both win and lose at times but she can't see that. All she sees is her losing. Told her it's a wrap this morning. Tired of the struggle.
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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2010
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    good/lame?? ...foh
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  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    lighthearted25 wrote: »
    i agree w/ this. i've been on both ends of the spectrum.

    everybody has...and if they say different...they r lying....

    my broad woke up this morning on that ? ...

    i been bumping chir brown's 'deuces' all damn day...

    a ? is TIRED
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  • MERYLISGOAT
    MERYLISGOAT Members Posts: 781
    edited November 2010
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    Lol I kno.. I was jus thinkin bout this ? ...

    I'm usually tha "loser" in my relationship..

    :(
    no u are not
    hush
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  • MERYLISGOAT
    MERYLISGOAT Members Posts: 781
    edited November 2010
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    i stay winning
    but im lowkey losing


    i win because i dont get caught up in the emotions of relationships
    but i lost cause i dont be loving
    sad fce
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  • damobb2deep
    damobb2deep Members Posts: 19,972 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    copperkid27 wrote: »
    good/lame?? ...foh

    In our age range it does u aint kno that or read the 1,000's of post in hundreds of threads that "prove" this...
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  • damobb2deep
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    TheApocalypse wrote: »
    I'm goin thru this right now. Me and this girl were in a relationship for almost a year and called it quits a couple months back. Now we're supposed to be working on gettin it back together but she keeps hittin me with the "I go through so much to make you happy" type lines like she's the one giving and I'm just taking. I'm not perfect but I can easily be classified with the good/lame dudes because I try to take care of my woman. In reality we both win and lose at times but she can't see that. All she sees is her losing. Told her it's a wrap this morning. Tired of the struggle.

    I feel you.. My situation is @ tha point that I kno the person carres but idk how much.. Cuz they do "nice things" but they do ? up ? as well and its crazy
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  • blackrain
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    you kno people always say " our relationship/ I want my relationship 2 be 50/50" thing is in todays relationships that almost non-existant.. And honestly in that past it wassnt eather...

    We all kno all relationships have problems.. But 70% of the time its 1 person causing those problems and the other person dealing with those problems/ forgiving that person 4 those "mistakes"

    This goes 4 females and "good/lame ? "..

    Now we also kno "friends wit benifits" don't work eather.. So the "loser" in that relationship is tha person who catches feelings.. Cuz tha other person gone just say "we not 2gether so why u mad?"

    Also the people who are "players" have they share.. Players usually have a main.. Now eather the "main or the player" can be tha loser in this situation tha main can have the loss cuz she gets cheated on constantly.. But tha player can get hurt as well if tha "main" just sees tha player as a jumpoff...

    Tha hoe relationship has it as well.. Cuz its easy when she wants 2 stop havin "fun" her name is out therre so bad its gonna be hard 4 a man 2 take her out of the jumpoff catagory.. Smh


    And this is tha ? we deal with.. Therre is a 50% chance u gonna win or loose n any relationship nowdays..

    if your relationship is 70% your s/o causing you problems you're a ? idiot for staying with her
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  • damobb2deep
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    blackrain wrote: »
    if your relationship is 70% your s/o causing you problems you're a ? idiot for staying with her

    Then a lot of people are idiots then.. Cuz most people who have recurring problems its usually 1 persons fault
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  • Louis Cipher
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    Then a lot of people are idiots then.. Cuz most people who have recurring problems its usually 1 persons fault

    you aint lying
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  • CapitalB
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    edited November 2010
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    cant relate..
    me and mines winnin..
    in fact.. we bout to run up the score. haaa

    but in all seriousness all relationships require communication and compromising..
    its never gonna be EXACTLY as u want it.. and it aint 50/50 wit me.. its 100/100 im'a give a ? what she gives me..
    and if she gives me half im'a half ass as well..
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  • Copper
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    edited November 2010
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    In our age range it does u aint kno that or read the 1,000's of post in hundreds of threads that "prove" this...

    yeah I know the general consensus but It doesnt make it right...
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  • damobb2deep
    damobb2deep Members Posts: 19,972 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    CapitalB wrote: »
    cant relate..
    me and mines winnin..
    in fact.. we bout to run up the score. haaa

    but in all seriousness all relationships require communication and compromising..
    its never gonna be EXACTLY as u want it.. and it aint 50/50 wit me.. its 100/100 im'a give a ? what she gives me..
    and if she gives me half im'a half ass as well..

    That's the "feel out stage" imo cuz most people do this but soon as u pass that stage yall will kno what yall can get away wit and tha "100/100" will become lop sided soon enough...
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  • damobb2deep
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    copperkid27 wrote: »
    yeah I know the general consensus but It doesnt make it right...

    U rite cuz I respect females but am far from a lame..
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  • CapitalB
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    That's the "feel out stage" imo cuz most people do this but soon as u pass that stage yall will kno what yall can get away wit and tha "100/100" will become lop sided soon enough...

    nah.. thats why u gotta keep it 1hunnid from the jump..
    its go be hardr to keep one.. but when u get one u got her hooked cause she has an acquired taste for u..
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  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    Then a lot of people are idiots then.. Cuz most people who have recurring problems its usually 1 persons fault

    I firmly believe the majority of people are idiots but most relationships fail because of a breakdown in communication...either people never learn to communicate to each other from jump or after being with your s/o for a while in a long term relationship some idiots foolishly believe their s/o can read their mind and now they don't have to verbalize certain thoughts/feelings about things and get mad when their s/o doesn't recognize and acknowledge their feelings...
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  • buttuh_b
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    damobb2deep wrote: »
    Now we also kno "friends wit benifits" don't work eather.. So the "loser" in that relationship is tha person who catches feelings.. Cuz tha other person gone just say "we not 2gether so why u mad?"

    Not always true. I had a situation where we were cool for years before and we were really just like homies that ? . No feelings caught. Besides her being ? about having to find ? elsewhere when I got in a different situation.
    But I have been in one where shorty caught feelings and that just bugged me, so I guess she catches the L but I feel like I catch the L too for having to deal with the annoyance.

    I have my fair share of L's in relationships just cuz I always find a way to ? up one way or another. Working on it. Can't get discouraged lol I'm young.
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  • lighthearted25
    lighthearted25 Members Posts: 1,307
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    the biggest problem w/ jumpoffs and ? buddies is when they r the only person u r ? for a long time. that ? messes w/ your head forreal. u have to atleast date someone else or talk to someone else or feelings will be caught.
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  • Copper
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    lighthearted25 wrote: »
    the biggest problem w/ jumpoffs and ? buddies is when they r the only person u r ? for a long time. that ? messes w/ your head forreal. u have to atleast date someone else or talk to someone else or feelings will be caught.

    co-sign to the fullest
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