Yeah i enjoy being a ? at times...
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Chillin&Postin
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but i guess im jus a nice guy at heart
my gf's mom gonna call me up and ask me to help her move some furniture in the morning.
this woman has said all types of bad things about me,but to my face she always tries to act nice.
i even confronted her about these things,but she denied them.
i would like nothing more but to say "phucc you and your bedroom set you evil fat bee-atch"
but i couldnt
i jus reluctantly said yeah.
know that if i didnt she would most likely make a big deal out of it to everyone else and take bad bout me...
but hell,i could get up at 7 in the morning,help move the stuff and she still talks bad about me
my gf's mom gonna call me up and ask me to help her move some furniture in the morning.
this woman has said all types of bad things about me,but to my face she always tries to act nice.
i even confronted her about these things,but she denied them.
i would like nothing more but to say "phucc you and your bedroom set you evil fat bee-atch"
but i couldnt
i jus reluctantly said yeah.
know that if i didnt she would most likely make a big deal out of it to everyone else and take bad bout me...
but hell,i could get up at 7 in the morning,help move the stuff and she still talks bad about me
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Least you can sleep well at night knowing you were the 'better man' about things.
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If you feel like she would talk ? then ? it don't do it.
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BiblicalAtheist wrote: »Least you can sleep well at night knowing you were the 'better man' about things.
i know right
i jus put it on my resume of things i helped with even though the family gives me little to no respect
he last bf was the worst. complete opposite of what you would want for your daughter and her mom luvs the guy. i jus dont know why.
her uncles and male cousins think im an okay dude but the women in her family jus cut cant me a break -
The Jackal wrote: »If you feel like she would talk ? then ? it don't do it.
i know,
but how could i back out now. -
Sometimes in the moment I'd like to verbally light somebody up... But I know deep down I'll regret it the second those words leave my two-bit tongue, even if the person deserves it.
This one buddy of mine was ? and kept calling me the midget and I just snapped and basically said something along the lines of, "how the ? you gonna make fun of me for bein short when your 23 and you still swim with a ? T-shirt on you flabby ? ." and I said in that malicious tone. (he really does swim with a t-shirt on)
Room went silent and my buddy just got all choked up, couldn't say ? back and just this broken look on his face. I of course ended up looking the ? when I was the one just sticking up for myself. -
Chillin&Postin wrote: »i know right
i jus put it on my resume of things i helped with even though the family gives me little to no respect
he last bf was the worst. complete opposite of what you would want for your daughter and her mom luvs the guy. i jus dont know why.
her uncles and male cousins think im an okay dude but the women in her family jus cut cant me a break
how's that possible? What did that ? do so bad that you consider him bad? He musta been doing something right. You like Wu Tang so you can't be that bad of a ? -
Will Munny wrote: »Sometimes in the moment I'd like to verbally light somebody up... But I know deep down I'll regret it the second those words leave my two-bit tongue, even if the person deserves it.
This one buddy of mine was ? and kept calling me the midget and I just snapped and basically said something along the lines of, "how the ? you gonna make fun of me for bein short when your 23 and you still swim with a ? T-shirt on you flabby ? ." and I said in that malicious tone. (he really does swim with a t-shirt on)
Room went silent and my buddy just got all choked up, couldn't say ? back and just this broken look on his face. I of course ended up looking the ? when I was the one just sticking up for myself.
but in the match up,thats a push(almost)
because its this unwritten rule that we cant be mean to fat people about being fat
we even have to dance around the word fat
but also you dont badger a short guy jus cuz he short
so honestly,he drew first blood and you had the right to hit him with the death blow -
Well it's fair in my eyes, cause my height is something I have no control over. His gluttony leading to his overweightedness is something he does have control. You don't rip on person for being born with one arm? Why... Cause they had no say in it. But for some reason people don't apply that same concept to short people. Oh well.
So really what's worse?
I let so much ? like that go all the time, and it's people just not on my level I could just wreck. -
how are you being nice by doing something you dont want to do? Thats not being nice thats not sticking up for yourself and lacking conviction.
U are simply taking the easy way out.
No different from if somebody sees a woman getting her ass beat and they dont really give a ? but they still pull the dude off the ? so nobody thinks they condone a man hitting a woman. Is that guy a "nice guy" or just somebody who took the easy way out cuz he didnt want to handle the blow back from doing what he really wanted to do which is either laugh or shrug and keep it moving? -
I'm not sure if that post by darx was directed at me... But I did say I almost always regret blasting people. ? never feels good afterwards. Which is why I don't do it. That is my conviction.
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how are you being nice by doing something you dont want to do? Thats not being nice thats not sticking up for yourself and lacking conviction.
U are simply taking the easy way out.
No different from if somebody sees a woman getting her ass beat and they dont really give a ? but they still pull the dude off the ? so nobody thinks they condone a man hitting a woman. Is that guy a "nice guy" or just somebody who took the easy way out cuz he didnt want to handle the blow back from doing what he really wanted to do which is either laugh or shrug and keep it moving?
lol
well damn
i would never let a woman get molly wopped..no if a man and his woman having a ruff conversation,thats they business
but aint finna let her get tossed around the parking lot
i feel im being a nice guy cuz im wakin up at 7(less than 6 hours from now) and helping her when i could jus let her and her friend do it themselves
i feel im being a nice guy cuz no matter what i usually find a way to be helpful whenever someone asks me for something.
thats jus me. even if i cant give you exactly what you need i try to do something that will help
this jus happens to be a person who i dont think highly of doin the asking.
but i know we will continue to be in each others lives lives the the foreseeable future so i jus went ahead and said yeah
there has been things i said no to..
like when she wanted me to impersonate her estranged husband so she could have access to one of his accounts
and several times she wanted to borrow money -
nah ice,
this broad is next to heartless at times
she will ? on what she owes you
i seen it
during cash for clunkers,she sold my girl's car and didnt give her any of the money
but she will out of nowhere jus pop up and give her a c-note or jus take her shoppin or fill up the gas tank
i guess its parental guilt from all the ? she do in between -
i wouldnt have done that ? .. if a person slights me im cool..
jus recently MY grandmother failed to showup to my brother's baby shower..
this is my brother's first child and her son's first grandchild and she doesnt show..
she lives in the same state as me but because she goes back and forth she be wantin me to go check on ? at her house and what not..
? HER! hahaha
that was some shady ? .. the whole family shows and she's in town and sits her ? in the house..
i aint nice.. she talks ? about my momma kind of like ur girl moms do about u.. and like u my mom still does ? ..
but i aint the one.. -
how i get double post around another poster
firefox be actin up -
Take the high road dog. But the ? I don't understand is, how are the men in the family cool with you, but the women don't ? with you. Usually in the beginning, it's the other way around. You probably a grimey ? on the low, son; j/k.
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Take the high road dog. But the ? I don't understand is, how are the men in the family cool with you, but the women don't ? with you. Usually in the beginning, it's the other way around. You probably a grimey ? on the low, son; j/k.
i understand it
it battered women syndrome
all the women in her family are bat ? crazy
all ? /molestation vitcims,never been married,always pick abusers and talk bad about decent men
so them talkin bad about me is actually expected -
oh yeah
and i went thru with it
she made simple 1 hour thing into a 4 hour thing
stoppin to talk to everybody and not helping lift a damn thing
she had a male friend help also
but this dude was gettin calls from wife,gettin bytched at cuz he was posed to be back at 10 and it was noon
felt bad for dude -
lmao......
