Dudes who use women to validate themselves
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Ioniz3dSPIRITZ
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I have a friend who has a new girl friend every 2 months. He's constantly up in some ? . It's all about numbers to him. Without a women in his life he'd be a broken man. Women validate his existence.
He constantly redicules me for being single and not "fukin" as many ? as he is. I strongly feel that he parades his success with women because of deep rooted insecurity. I am ultimately in a better financial position than him and he knows this. How can I make light of insecurity and exploit it?
He constantly redicules me for being single and not "fukin" as many ? as he is. I strongly feel that he parades his success with women because of deep rooted insecurity. I am ultimately in a better financial position than him and he knows this. How can I make light of insecurity and exploit it?
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You're friend is the one who has an obvious insecurity. It seems like he's not comfortable with who he is as person, so he feels that he must add up a tally just to esteem himself.Ioniz3dSPIRITZ wrote: »I have a friend who has a new girl friend every 2 months. He's constantly up in some ? . It's all about numbers to him. Without a women in his life he'd be a broken man. Women validate his existence.
He constantly redicules me for being single and not "fukin" as many ? as he is. I strongly feel that he parades his success with women because of deep rooted insecurity. I am ultimately in a better financial position than him and he knows this. How can I make light of insecurity and exploit it? -
I thin the ? just like ? hoes, maybe you should too
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Ioniz3dSPIRITZ wrote: »I have a friend who has a new girl friend every 2 months. He's constantly up in some ? . It's all about numbers to him. Without a women in his life he'd be a broken man. Women validate his existence.
He constantly redicules me for being single and not "fukin" as many ? as he is. I strongly feel that he parades his success with women because of deep rooted insecurity. I am ultimately in a better financial position than him and he knows this. How can I make light of insecurity and exploit it?
No need. Just keep doing you. I use to get ? from my friends because I wasn't on no trying to ? everything I see ? like they were. Now I'm married to a chick they all tried to holla at but she chose up, and I got my own crib and money to pay for my ? . While these ? is damn near thrirty, still living at home with their mom's, in between jobs....But they stay in some ? though!! So I guess they're doing better than me right?? Success is the greatest revenge!! -
I thin the ? just like ? hoes, maybe you should too
spoken like the average oversexed ? . Of course I like ? hoes you idiot but it doesnt define the man that I am. I am my own man and don't need anyone to declare that. My friend however uses sex and his exploits with women as a reason to place himself on a higher pedestal. Women define his character. -
What is good for one person, isn't necessarily the best for another.I thin the ? just like ? hoes, maybe you should too -
man is it just me that don't like people, especially dudes, if the hate that heavy quit ? with the ? .........muthafuckas always talkin that ohhh he just joking ? , ? that...........he wanna make lite on your incapablities to get pu$$ie because you make more money than him, whatkindashitisthat.......? trip me out with the friends they pick
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me personally i never met a dude that need a women to validate themselves.. Im pretty sure they have them out there, but the ppl i ? with that act like that
.. ppl always wanna over think ? when the answer can be something so simple.. -
Ioniz3dSPIRITZ wrote: »I have a friend who has a new girl friend every 2 months. He's constantly up in some ? . It's all about numbers to him. Without a women in his life he'd be a broken man. Women validate his existence.
He constantly redicules me for being single and not "fukin" as many ? as he is. I strongly feel that he parades his success with women because of deep rooted insecurity. I am ultimately in a better financial position than him and he knows this. How can I make light of insecurity and exploit it?
Why don't you just take the high road and ignore his trivial conquests? -
man is it just me that don't like people, especially dudes, if the hate that heavy quit ? with the ? .........muthafuckas always talkin that ohhh he just joking ? , ? that...........he wanna make lite on your incapablities to get pu$$ie because you make more money than him, whatkindashitisthat.......? trip me out with the friends they pick
me and this nicca go way back. I have made significant changes in my life and he always tries to down play them. He always make references to how I use to be to try to put me down. When he sees that isnt working he uses his conquest with women to make it appear that he is better than me. Every women he ends up showers him with gifts and money. All the while he has almost always nothing that he claim for himself. I dont throw salt on his game. The nicca must be doing something right for women to be stupid enough to do for him like that. But that isnt me. I cant imagine myself shining off a womens success. In my definition that isnt a real man.
He knows what kind of man I am and is a little jealous of it. -
t/s mad cause his friend getting all the ? and he sitting on the sideline with desert ?
why you hating bruh? let that lil ? live champ -
i think the ? just likes to get laid.
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Ioniz3dSPIRITZ wrote: »me and this nicca go way back. I have made significant changes in my life and he always tries to down play them. He always make references to how I use to be to try to put me down. When he sees that isnt working he uses his conquest with women to make it appear that he is better than me. Every women he ends up showers him with gifts and money. All the while he has almost always nothing that he claim for himself. I dont throw salt on his game. The nicca must be doing something right for women to be stupid enough to do for him like that. But that isnt me. I cant imagine myself shining off a womens success. In my definition that isnt a real man.
He knows what kind of man I am and is a little jealous of it.
I get y'all go way back, but that doesn't excuse a jealous ? in your circle. A lot of the dudes I came up with gave me the same ? , but I don't really ? wit them on that level because I know that they can get real jealous with their ? , and would be liable to pull some real janky moves behind a ? 's back. I'll be cool with them from a far, but when ? be on some insecure ? like that it's real easy to see what they really about. Friend or not. -
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Ioniz3dSPIRITZ wrote: »spoken like the average oversexed ? . Of course I like ? hoes you idiot but it doesnt define the man that I am. I am my own man and don't need anyone to declare that. My friend however uses sex and his exploits with women as a reason to place himself on a higher pedestal. Women define his character.
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Perhaps being coveted by women increases self confidence. And b/c his slight jabs at you ring so true, you caught feelings and voila...here we are in this thread... -
Ioniz3dSPIRITZ wrote: »me and this nicca go way back. I have made significant changes in my life and he always tries to down play them. He always make references to how I use to be to try to put me down. When he sees that isnt working he uses his conquest with women to make it appear that he is better than me. Every women he ends up showers him with gifts and money. All the while he has almost always nothing that he claim for himself. I dont throw salt on his game. The nicca must be doing something right for women to be stupid enough to do for him like that. But that isnt me. I cant imagine myself shining off a womens success. In my definition that isnt a real man.
He knows what kind of man I am and is a little jealous of it.
I asked why you still ? with him, and you proceeds to say more ? that further proves he wasn't never a real friend of yours to begin with, you sure the hoes he use aint the only ones getting used?, e.i. look in the mirror -
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Perhaps being coveted by women increases self confidence. And b/c his slight jabs at you ring so true, you caught feelings and voila...here we are in this thread...
no feelings caught because no feelings found. I have sewed my wild oats and it didn't define the man that I am. -
I asked why you still ? with him, and you proceeds to say more ? that further proves he wasn't never a real friend of yours to begin with, you sure the hoes he use aint the only ones getting used?, e.i. look in the mirror
you have a point. -
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dj expanium wrote: »You're friend is the one who has an obvious insecurity. It seems like he's not comfortable with who he is as person, so he feels that he must add up a tally just to esteem himself.
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The average minded ? would tell you to stop hating and get monussy.
The sophisticated gent would say your man feels inadequate in other areas of his life so he focuses all his energy and attention to getting women in an attempt to make him feel on top to his peers #pause
So ya stop hatin and get monussy bruh -
GoFuckYourself wrote: »Maybe, you just gotten wiser while he's still blinded by ? ??
go ? yourself -
Why u wanna make light of it and exploit it though?
Disagreeing with how he goes about things is one thing. But that last question kinda made u sound like a jealous fat chick. -
I thin the ? just like ? hoes, maybe you should too
this. if he's constantly telling everybody about every girl he ? , then he could be insecure. but if he's just ? ? , he probably just likes ? ? . -
Ioniz3dSPIRITZ wrote: »me and this nicca go way back. I have made significant changes in my life and he always tries to down play them. He always make references to how I use to be to try to put me down. When he sees that isnt working he uses his conquest with women to make it appear that he is better than me. Every women he ends up showers him with gifts and money. All the while he has almost always nothing that he claim for himself. I dont throw salt on his game. The nicca must be doing something right for women to be stupid enough to do for him like that. But that isnt me. I cant imagine myself shining off a womens success. In my definition that isnt a real man.
He knows what kind of man I am and is a little jealous of it.
why does it sound as if ur whining ??
but anyways... dude aint ur friend.. period! and only gender i know that keeps people around even when they know they aint good for them are ? ...
dude goes out his way to disrespect u but u remain cool with him cause yall happened to meet when u was young?? if uv made significant changes how bout u make one more??
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