Laxmi Sargara, now 18, was just 1 when her family married her off to Rakesh, 3, Has marriage annuled

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KingJamal
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edited April 2012 in For The Grown & Sexy
http://shine.yahoo.com/healthy-living/child-bride-marriage-annulled-laxmi-sargara-hero-day-180800827.html

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At an age when most kids are learning to walk, Laxmi Sargara was already married. Her husband, Rakesh, was just three-years-old when family sealed the deal on their fate. She was one


WTF is wrong with these people. How could u marry off ur kid at 1????
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  • Kushington
    Kushington Members Posts: 8,011 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    arranged marriages
  • In Your Moms Room
    In Your Moms Room Members Posts: 7,383 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    It's their culture. You can't knock someones culture just because it's different then yours.
  • KingJamal
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    Kushington wrote: »
    arranged marriages

    But at 1 and 3??? I never heard of something like that.
  • KingJamal
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    It's their culture. You can't knock someones culture just because it's different then yours.

    Yes the hell I can
  • fiat_money
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    ? was merely a financial agreement.
  • haute
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    fiat_money wrote: »
    ? was merely a financial agreement.

    very similar to traditional american marriages

  • fiat_money
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    haute wrote: »
    fiat_money wrote: »
    ? was merely a financial agreement.

    very similar to tradition american marriages

    Real ? ? , Disney has ? ? 's heads up.

    Marrying for "love"<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<______________
  • Kushington
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    haute wrote: »
    fiat_money wrote: »
    ? was merely a financial agreement.

    very similar to tradition american marriages


    What tradition is that?
  • KingJamal
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    Kushington wrote: »
    haute wrote: »
    fiat_money wrote: »
    ? was merely a financial agreement.

    very similar to tradition american marriages


    What tradition is that?

    Yea I didn't know it was a tradition for 1 year olds to get married
  • Lou Cypher
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    Kushington wrote: »
    haute wrote: »
    fiat_money wrote: »
    ? was merely a financial agreement.

    very similar to tradition american marriages


    What tradition is that?

    Not out of true love but more for financial security.
  • haute
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    traditional american women are trained at an early age to find a suitor who has the best ability to care for her and her family

    Eastern cultures simply jump the gun and do it for their daughters, so they don't risk her making the decision to wed a broke ass ? or give birth to a broke ass ? baby, like we do here


    but the desired results are the same, marry someone who does better than what you or your family can offer
  • KingJamal
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    haute wrote: »
    traditional american women are trained at an early age to find a suitor who has the best ability to care for her and her family

    Eastern cultures simply jump the gun and do it for their daughters, so they don't risk her making the decision to wed broke ass ? or give birth to broke ass ? baby, like we do here


    but the desired results are the same, marry someone who does better than what you or your family can offer

    Yea but with toddlers tho lol
  • zay_24
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    Lol @ the rest of the world being civilized compare to western society. This is why i look down on those 3rd world bums
  • haute
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    who knows how broke those families were


    but they planned to marry her off at some point before she hit 16

    at that point her age is ? semantics

  • 1of1
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    I made some Jalfrezi Curry Chicken yesterday. With Jasmine rice.

    I'm ? right now. Probably the last pieces of that.
  • dalyricalbandit
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    if ? like this was to go down in the U.S ? would be crazy..? ending up with a fat ? as a wife and half of gone by the time he's 20
  • 7figz
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    haute wrote: »
    traditional american women are trained at an early age to find a suitor who has the best ability to care for her and her family

    Eastern cultures simply jump the gun and do it for their daughters, so they don't risk her making the decision to wed a broke ass ? or give birth to a broke ass ? baby, like we do here


    but the desired results are the same, marry someone who does better than what you or your family can offer

    Come on now (@ the bolded) - why can't it be a broke ass ? ?

    Real talk, I've known a lot of Indians (Eastern) who've had arranged marriages - and both the husband and wife were working. It wasn't like how American marriages imply that the man should go out and do all the work - and the women stay home and do ? (and complain about it constantly).
  • 7figz
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    By the way, that ? might want to move out the hood - before she gets stoned for this.
  • haute
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    7fIG wrote: »
    haute wrote: »
    traditional american women are trained at an early age to find a suitor who has the best ability to care for her and her family

    Eastern cultures simply jump the gun and do it for their daughters, so they don't risk her making the decision to wed a broke ass ? or give birth to a broke ass ? baby, like we do here


    but the desired results are the same, marry someone who does better than what you or your family can offer

    Come on now (@ the bolded) - why can't it be a broke ass ? ?

    Real talk, I've known a lot of Indians (Eastern) who've had arranged marriages - and both the husband and wife were working. It wasn't like how American marriages imply that the man should go out and do all the work - and the women stay home and do ? (and complain about it constantly).

    you just answered your own question
  • High Revolutionary
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    You can find something negative to say about every culture on the planet.

  • KingJamal
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    kai_valya wrote: »
    they were just betrothed to each other at that age. it basically means the parents promise they'll marry their kids to each other once the come of age

    in a lot of countries, arranged marriages are the norm. to understand why they do it, you'd have to understand their culture
    Oh I know its the norm in India Kai

    But I just couldn't imagine if I had to grow up like that
  • Helena85
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    er husband, Rakesh, was just three-years-old when family sealed the deal on their fate. She was one

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  • 7figz
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    haute wrote: »
    7fIG wrote: »
    haute wrote: »
    traditional american women are trained at an early age to find a suitor who has the best ability to care for her and her family

    Eastern cultures simply jump the gun and do it for their daughters, so they don't risk her making the decision to wed a broke ass ? or give birth to a broke ass ? baby, like we do here


    but the desired results are the same, marry someone who does better than what you or your family can offer

    Come on now (@ the bolded) - why can't it be a broke ass ? ?

    Real talk, I've known a lot of Indians (Eastern) who've had arranged marriages - and both the husband and wife were working. It wasn't like how American marriages imply that the man should go out and do all the work - and the women stay home and do ? (and complain about it constantly).

    you just answered your own question

    I guess... since American marriages are all about money. But I don't think that the basis of arranged marriages, among Indians atleast, is on the basis of money. Their concern is mostly of class. They try to keep their families within the same class. I actually asked them about it.
  • haute
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    Marriage


    From the very beginning has always been partly if not mostly a financial arrangement


    This crosses over many cultures, including Indian cultures


    To believe different is pretty naive
  • 7figz
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    @haute -

    I'm not saying it has nothing to do with money but less so than Americans. For instance, according to what an Indian told me - they wouldn't be ok with a person from a family of 'farmers' to marry let's say a person from a family of 'bankers'... even if that person had stacks.