You never hear a woman tlkn bout how "independent" she is now these days....sup with that?

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2Pac
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edited May 2012 in For The Grown & Sexy
Man I use to hate the Destiny Child "indepdendent women" movement and the ? beyonce fill their heads with a few years back......in this day and time ERbody need somebody.

hit em up

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  • deelight
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    Because a real woman who knows where she stands and know she got her own..doesn't need to shout it out.. She shows it by her actions.
  • Lurker6
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    still hear it on fb..........always from the hood black chicks :/
  • John_Blazini
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    Beyonce aint dropping tracks
  • SixSickSins
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    I always took it to mean that she is capable of taking care of herself w/o relying on a man's means.
  • NothingButTheTruth
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    I love it. If a ? ain't independent we can't be anything past friends.
  • IceManKam
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    Thats been happening since the flappers of the 20s
  • GodSpeed215
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    I still hear it, and everytime I do I think to myself " yeah, you should be capable of taking care of yourself ? , you need a pat on the back for this?"

    Like somebody else said though, she gotta be capable of doing for herself or we cant even get ? popping
  • unRealLady1
    unRealLady1 Members Posts: 1,081 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited May 2012
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    I need love we all do. But Iam not a mooch, or a leach. Nobody that every been around me in real life know of me asking them for money. I support myself. I think in a relationship it's nothing wrong with sharing and caring, but using somebody for money is not my style.

    I really do know how to work and save my own my money. I been working since I was 13. I'm just not competitive about money. Getting money isnt new to me. It's problems after u get money. Money do not solve all your issue. Everytime someone have a issue it do not mean they are broke.
  • longmeat
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    Remove all the hood rats from Facebook and you won't have to hear all of that ? .

    Feels good man
  • haute
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    First y'all complain when hoodrats say it


    Now we complain when they don't???



    I'm just going to give y'all a pass and blame drake for this behavior
  • tru_m.a.c
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    haute wrote: »
    First y'all complain when hoodrats say it


    Now we complain when they don't???



    I'm just going to give y'all a pass and blame drake for this behavior

    lol you know ? are never satisfied

    either way...its pretty damn hard to be "independent" when you're living off your college loans

    you ever threatened somebody with a fraud investigation....fuckn hilarious
  • Wild Self
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    The Recession put them back, in their rightful place. A submissive place where the non-simps can pick them apart. That 90s ? movement left a lot of them old and alone. When a woman is 40, single, and menopausal while she decides she finally wants a man, then she is just bullshitting.
  • HafBayked
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    them ? got tired lmao.......that and the new wave of trick ? wiped all that independent ? out the box.....

    i be mad on the cool when my bm be actin like Chris mama, talkin bout " my man takes care of me".......i do but it aint nuthin to rep about lol
  • Wild Self
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