white woman. 2 mixed children. is it ok for her to say the N word?

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L.O.S.T.
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edited July 2012 in For The Grown & Sexy
A former coworker of mine has 2 two mixed kids. She is white but dates only black and Hispanic men. She uses the word ? very liberally. I told her if she kept saying it I wouldn't continue to associate with. She stopped saying it around me but she still says it. Subsequently, I stopped dealing with her.
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  • L.O.S.T.
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    She says since her kids are black she doesn't see the problem.
  • Mr.LV
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    She probably says ? around her kids anyway.
  • gns
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    its ? fault. There is some muhfucka in her life that have her believing its cool.

    I had to do the same with a whiteboy co-worker, the most ? up thing was it was mostly black people working there and I was the only person who checked him smh.
  • Aristo_V300
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  • juan travolta
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    L.O.S.T. wrote: »
    She says since her kids are black she doesn't see the problem.

    if she doesn't see the problem then shes a ? ? straight up.

  • Kushington
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    Doesnt bother me
  • Elzo69Renaissance
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  • juan travolta
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    that ? irks me that some blacks wouldn't feel bothered by a white person calling you a ? .



  • Kushington
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    that ? irks me that some blacks wouldn't feel bothered by a white person calling you a ? .



    arent you mexican breh?
  • HafBayked
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    sounds exactly like the girl in my apartments my old lady kept gettin into it wit......she stay puttin dudes out, cussing them all the way out the parking lot..."? ass ? this, ? ? that"....one day she ethered the ? out a ? tho....i tried not to laugh but that ? was funny....her and her dude for the day were arguing and walking out the gate...he was sayin something and the ? just bust out wit "? shut yo ? ass up and light my blunt!".....i bout died on the porch
  • CeLLaR-DooR
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    Niccas are cool with V-Nasty and DJ Khaled sayin' it...why not this ? '?

    Although I don't condone any non-black usin' the term
  • L.O.S.T.
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    The first time I heard her say it was to her kids. Something like, "tell that ? I said come here"
  • BoldChild
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    I don't care, and have no problem with it.

    Also, V-nasty has two mixed kids too, lol.
  • Allah_U_Akbar
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    White people are so confused. You woulda thought that THEY were the ones who were enslaved and brainwashed and taught to hate themselves for hundreds of years (instead of black folks), when you see how some of these crackers act today.
  • Amotekun
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    Can't cape for other duns to stick up for themselves. I'll just tell her call me one I'll slap fire out'cha ass. Say that ? around me Imma slap fire out'cha ass. I'll make sure I'll say it in front of ALL the black folks that work to let them know how ashamed they should be for lettin this white girl take liberties on their ass.

    What the ? who you ? got to do with your vocabulary? WHy I stopped ? with white girls because of fuckery like this, some ? get too familiar.
  • CeLLaR-DooR
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    White people are so confused. You woulda thought that THEY were the ones who were enslaved and brainwashed and taught to hate themselves for hundreds of years (instead of black folks), when you see how some of these crackers act today.

    Had this discussion the other day...There was a lil racism involvin' an England international...White people losin' their minds..."how come its OK for them to say it but not us?"

    My response to that has always been, "bruh...is it really that big a deal?...you white REALLY need to say it?...Really?"
  • Kushington
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    Can't cape for other duns to stick up for themselves. I'll just tell her call me one I'll slap fire out'cha ass. Say that ? around me Imma slap fire out'cha ass. I'll make sure I'll say it in front of ALL the black folks that work to let them know how ashamed they should be for lettin this white girl take liberties on their ass.

    What the ? who you ? got to do with your vocabulary? WHy I stopped ? with white girls because of fuckery like this, some ? get too familiar.

    But you'll let a black woman, or any other black person, call you a ? 74 times a day. ok ok cool

    *inb4 hypocritical justification*
  • juan travolta
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    Kushington wrote: »
    that ? irks me that some blacks wouldn't feel bothered by a white person calling you a ? .



    arent you mexican breh?

    yeah and ???

    i see white chicks say ? , and it makes me laugh that ? would be comfortable with this.



  • Kushington
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    Kushington wrote: »
    that ? irks me that some blacks wouldn't feel bothered by a white person calling you a ? .



    arent you mexican breh?

    yeah and ???

    i see white chicks say ? , and it makes me laugh that ? would be comfortable with this.



    Mexicans arent black. Some of them say ? .
  • Mr.LV
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    This ? is getting out of control.
  • juan travolta
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    Kushington wrote: »
    Kushington wrote: »
    that ? irks me that some blacks wouldn't feel bothered by a white person calling you a ? .



    arent you mexican breh?

    yeah and ???

    i see white chicks say ? , and it makes me laugh that ? would be comfortable with this.



    Mexicans arent black. Some of them say ? .

    but did mexicans ever own slaves at any point?

    no, so if anything a mexican has more of the right to say it than a white person does.

    I don't think the word should be used at all, like i said before you just repeating a term that

    was used to degrade an entire race.



  • CracceR
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    i dont care
    maybe she hates blacc ppl because she have to raise them kids on her own
  • G Mack
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    and people wonder why mixed kids are steadily confused of who they are