Who's winning or losing at age 30?
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UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
so basically youre saying that oprah never gets on tv and cries about the child she lost?? smh LOLUPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »lets name some living examples of women in similiar situations
i feel like lol'ing at yall
Oprah seem to have a more fullfilling life than anyone with children. imo.
ok now you reaching. Oprah has never cried about her still born child. Actually I remember some interview years ago where she said if her son had lived she would not have been where she is today. She is winning, no questions.
mannnn LOLOLOL
im about done with this dude LOLOLOLOLOL
who the ? is this young ice??? LOLOLOL -
I'd rather have a great career and no kids....
Than kids and a wack job
Kids are overrated, theres enough people on earth, you dont need kids to leave your mark on the planet, its called "accomplishing things" -
The Hacker wrote: »so the 1st lady has 3 kids with no father around. no high school education and she waits table at age 30? hahahahaha that ? lost
aint no ? go cape for her,she go be another profile on plenty of fish that ? smash and dash
? gotta get a ged and has 3 kids already=she ant getting a masters degree no time soon
yall ? man
i didn't say she a hs dropout. I said she barely passed high school. dunno if there is a difference though
aite so she passed high school...barely but didnt go to college
she still a bussdown,work a minimum wage job,no man around, with 3 kids
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UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
lol, so now 25 means i'm pushing 30? you also seem certain that it's not my choice to not have kids. yes connexx, i live a sad and empty existence because i didn't have kids by 25 8-|
i was just pointing out the fact that your biased in this convo .... i wasnt implying that you were a miserable wreck
how am i biased? because i say that women can find purpose/meaning in things other than being a man's wife/girlfriend and/or being a mother.
no ... its because that is what you are currently doing in your life right now lol -
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? -I_Am_Ether wrote: »Ain't no way I'm wifing a good hearted, loving, positive 30 year old cashier with kids.
No ? way!!!
I can tell from reading your posts...you're a beggar. And beggars can't be choosers bruh.UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »it doesnt matter really
ive dated both kinds of chicks
the 2nd one is always the worse of the two
how the ? are ppl who never dealt with more than 2 ppl in their life arguing this
smh at T/s bringing oprah into this and being wrong as hell. that was bait ... i knew you were gonna say that LOLOLLOL
my ? !!! good lookin on dropping the sensible ? . You know when I read the second one, I thought about Janet Jackson's character on "For Colored Girls". She was set good...but she was definitely losing out there.
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UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
so basically youre saying that oprah never gets on tv and cries about the child she lost?? smh LOLUPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »lets name some living examples of women in similiar situations
i feel like lol'ing at yall
Oprah seem to have a more fullfilling life than anyone with children. imo.
ok now you reaching. Oprah has never cried about her still born child. Actually I remember some interview years ago where she said if her son had lived she would not have been where she is today. She is winning, no questions.
mannnn LOLOLOL
im about done with this dude LOLOLOLOLOL
who the ? is this young ice??? LOLOLOL
Im not a dude.
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UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
lol, so now 25 means i'm pushing 30? you also seem certain that it's not my choice to not have kids. yes connexx, i live a sad and empty existence because i didn't have kids by 25 8-|
i was just pointing out the fact that your biased in this convo .... i wasnt implying that you were a miserable wreck
how am i biased? because i say that women can find purpose/meaning in things other than being a man's wife/girlfriend and/or being a mother.
But ur still pro-marriage? I'm kind of confused. Traditional marriage portrays wives as that typical role you're describing. -
UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
lol, so now 25 means i'm pushing 30? you also seem certain that it's not my choice to not have kids. yes connexx, i live a sad and empty existence because i didn't have kids by 25 8-|
i was just pointing out the fact that your biased in this convo .... i wasnt implying that you were a miserable wreck
how am i biased? because i say that women can find purpose/meaning in things other than being a man's wife/girlfriend and/or being a mother.
no ... its because that is what you are currently doing in your life right now lol
how many kids you have uptown and where do you work? I feel you're being a little bias. But its human nature to be, so......
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Depends on your perception and definition of happiness. All else is a personal opinion.
In my opinion, in your scenarios the first one got more responsibilities than the second got options.
People like me don't want to have to do ? . I only want to do ? because I want to. Options.
People who are truly self reliant may love to socialize and love family and friends but don't center their their happiness on the external. -
women...concerned more with tangibles than intangibles...
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so if we held michael jordans kids hostage, and told him to give us his 6 championship rings or they get killed ... this will be his answer???Kushington wrote: »I'd rather have a great career and no kids....
Than kids and a wack job
Kids are overrated, theres enough people on earth, you dont need kids to leave your mark on the planet, its called "accomplishing things"
this dude said kids are overrated LOLOL
no matter how you twist it all your accomplishments are based on what it does for other ppl
if you study biology for 50 years and cure cancer, your accomplishment is how you helped ppl with cancer.
no one will remember bill gates for having 70 billion dollars he will be remembered because his invention changed the way ppl lived during his time on earth
LOL
atleast your kids are yours, they are your offspring, a reflection of YOU
SMH at ? living to make some other guy rich
wtf are yall thinking?? LOL
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#2. Better to be lightly esteemed and have a servant, than the highly esteemed who lacks bread (proverbs 12:9).
#1. There is one who makes himself rich, yet has none at all, and one who makes himself poor yet has great riches (proverbs 13:9).
It all depends on the type of person. -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Umm..I don't have three kids nor do I work as a cashier. Don't drive a bucket either.
He made the first chick sound as bad as possible anyway.
it's the Conservatives and the Liberals in here
demonizing the opposition to push their own "agenda" aka opinion
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UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
so if we held michael jordans kids hostage, and told him to give us his 6 championship rings or they get killed ... this will be his answer???Kushington wrote: »I'd rather have a great career and no kids....
Than kids and a wack job
Kids are overrated, theres enough people on earth, you dont need kids to leave your mark on the planet, its called "accomplishing things"
this dude said kids are overrated LOLOL
no matter how you twist it all your accomplishments are based on what it does for other ppl
if you study biology for 50 years and cure cancer, your accomplishment is how you helped ppl with cancer.
no one will remember bill gates for having 70 billion dollars he will be remembered because his invention changed the way ppl lived during his time on earth
LOL
atleast your kids are yours, they are your offspring, a reflection of YOU
SMH at ? living to make some other guy rich
wtf are yall thinking?? LOL
what about living to make yourself rich? traveling, living the good life, etc? What about own your own business? That solves "making some other guy rich." Besides you off topic. Who is to say that someone working a job is not "helping others to live better lives." Why do you need children to help people?
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damobb2deep wrote: »the people who say the second woman is winning is jus going by financial ? ... that ? dont go with u when u die.. nobody ( especially women) dont wanna be alone... i think alot of u are really detached from reality..
your fam don't go with you when you die either. you come in the world alone and leave out the same way
but u stll in they memory thats da point... every person i have lost in my life i still remember.... no matter how much or how little money/ career drivin they was.. -
UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
so if we held michael jordans kids hostage, and told him to give us his 6 championship rings or they get killed ... this will be his answer???Kushington wrote: »I'd rather have a great career and no kids....
Than kids and a wack job
Kids are overrated, theres enough people on earth, you dont need kids to leave your mark on the planet, its called "accomplishing things"
this dude said kids are overrated LOLOL
no matter how you twist it all your accomplishments are based on what it does for other ppl
if you study biology for 50 years and cure cancer, your accomplishment is how you helped ppl with cancer.
no one will remember bill gates for having 70 billion dollars he will be remembered because his invention changed the way ppl lived during his time on earth
LOL
atleast your kids are yours, they are your offspring, a reflection of YOU
SMH at ? living to make some other guy rich
wtf are yall thinking?? LOL
I understand being proud of your kids, but ANYBODY can have kids, its not an actual accomplishment -
connexx is a ? ....its been documented
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first one sounds like a drag on the economy. The only reason she even has kids is cause she knows she needed them to take care of her in her old age because she ain't gonna have no money.
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Kushington wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
so if we held michael jordans kids hostage, and told him to give us his 6 championship rings or they get killed ... this will be his answer???Kushington wrote: »I'd rather have a great career and no kids....
Than kids and a wack job
Kids are overrated, theres enough people on earth, you dont need kids to leave your mark on the planet, its called "accomplishing things"
this dude said kids are overrated LOLOL
no matter how you twist it all your accomplishments are based on what it does for other ppl
if you study biology for 50 years and cure cancer, your accomplishment is how you helped ppl with cancer.
no one will remember bill gates for having 70 billion dollars he will be remembered because his invention changed the way ppl lived during his time on earth
LOL
atleast your kids are yours, they are your offspring, a reflection of YOU
SMH at ? living to make some other guy rich
wtf are yall thinking?? LOL
I understand being proud of your kids, but ANYBODY can have kids, its not an actual accomplishment
honestly neither is being able to pay your bills on time.....that's what you suppose to do right?
just sayin' -
Kushington wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
so if we held michael jordans kids hostage, and told him to give us his 6 championship rings or they get killed ... this will be his answer???Kushington wrote: »I'd rather have a great career and no kids....
Than kids and a wack job
Kids are overrated, theres enough people on earth, you dont need kids to leave your mark on the planet, its called "accomplishing things"
this dude said kids are overrated LOLOL
no matter how you twist it all your accomplishments are based on what it does for other ppl
if you study biology for 50 years and cure cancer, your accomplishment is how you helped ppl with cancer.
no one will remember bill gates for having 70 billion dollars he will be remembered because his invention changed the way ppl lived during his time on earth
LOL
atleast your kids are yours, they are your offspring, a reflection of YOU
SMH at ? living to make some other guy rich
wtf are yall thinking?? LOL
I understand being proud of your kids, but ANYBODY can have kids, its not an actual accomplishment
honestly neither is being able to pay your bills on time.....that's what you suppose to do right?
just sayin'
money aint just about paying your bills one time. You're thinking small. money is about options. the option to travel live in a beautiful house in a great neighborhood, etc, etc.....
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UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
lol, so now 25 means i'm pushing 30? you also seem certain that it's not my choice to not have kids. yes connexx, i live a sad and empty existence because i didn't have kids by 25 8-|
i was just pointing out the fact that your biased in this convo .... i wasnt implying that you were a miserable wreck
how am i biased? because i say that women can find purpose/meaning in things other than being a man's wife/girlfriend and/or being a mother.
no ... its because that is what you are currently doing in your life right now lol
how many kids you have uptown and where do you work? I feel you're being a little bias. But its human nature to be, so......
man look ... even if you dont have kids family always comes first
would you miss your grandmothers funeral to do some business deal??
yalls logic is just like the black women wearing weaves logic
"i wear it because i think it makes me look pretty and i wear it for me not anybody else"
LOL foh you do your hair like that because you think other girls will be prettier than you if you dont do what they do. and the point of this example is that your are not being honest with yourself
you cannot tell me that you are gonna live your life working at coca cola corporate offices making them billions of dollars while they are traveling the world with their kids. then you take the money that they do give you to sit front row at the nba finals by yourself watching lebron james win the championship and bringing his kids out on the floor for the celebration
smh at you buying your nieces and nephews expensive gifts because you have nothing else to spend the money on meanwhile you brother or sister didnt really wnat them to have it at that point because they were trying to teach their kids the value of hard work and earning things for themselves
like i said .. name any great person in history and unless they died early they had kids and a family that was most important to them
stop lying to yourself because the corporate world has turned you into some unbearable dictator that no one wants to be around for more than 3 hours
there's too many holes in this logic for me to even go in on. stop believing your own lies LOL
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^^^ you acting like real lady right about now
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Kushington wrote: »UPTOWN CONNEXX wrote: »
so if we held michael jordans kids hostage, and told him to give us his 6 championship rings or they get killed ... this will be his answer???Kushington wrote: »I'd rather have a great career and no kids....
Than kids and a wack job
Kids are overrated, theres enough people on earth, you dont need kids to leave your mark on the planet, its called "accomplishing things"
this dude said kids are overrated LOLOL
no matter how you twist it all your accomplishments are based on what it does for other ppl
if you study biology for 50 years and cure cancer, your accomplishment is how you helped ppl with cancer.
no one will remember bill gates for having 70 billion dollars he will be remembered because his invention changed the way ppl lived during his time on earth
LOL
atleast your kids are yours, they are your offspring, a reflection of YOU
SMH at ? living to make some other guy rich
wtf are yall thinking?? LOL
I understand being proud of your kids, but ANYBODY can have kids, its not an actual accomplishment
honestly neither is being able to pay your bills on time.....that's what you suppose to do right?
just sayin'
money aint just about paying your bills one time. You're thinking small. money is about options. the option to travel live in a beautiful house in a great neighborhood, etc, etc.....
In my experience...strippers, ? , superficial broads have always said the same thing. Money is about options. Most of these broads were dumb and were hollow vessels. Outside of money, they weren't good for anything else. Talk about your options.
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2nd chick winning.
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