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Lol it's called projecting
Youre thinking about what you would do given the circumstances
Plus you're. A. Man. With. Sensi. Tivity right now so no matter what she does you take it a certain way
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texasboi409 wrote: »so friday night was her birthday i was gonna come pick her up but she told me she had her friend with her
brandie stays with her boyfriend and one of his friends is in town so im thinking i need to be there so no ? cant try to pull some ? . well im calling her txting her and she is not answering at all
? doesn't sound right.
Sounds like she might be creeping.
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Bruh you just shared that girl. You need to try ? brandy.
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Sounds like a good reason not to trust her bruh. What kind of friend she got that's gonna take here phone and not let her man get in touch with her on her birthday ? (and not let you know what's up )
That sounds like a ? excuse if I ever heard one. Ya' ? most likely ? that other dude B
Do ya' thing - keep it moving. Hope you still got the receipt for that present. -
texasboi409 wrote: »so friday night was her birthday i was gonna come pick her up but she told me she had her friend with her
brandie stays with her boyfriend and one of his friends is in town so im thinking i need to be there so no ? cant try to pull some ? . well im calling her txting her and she is not answering at all
? doesn't sound right.
Sounds like she might be creeping.
oh hush! Not everyone is a cheater.
Texasboi, this is just people acting on emotions being ? .
Take her to dinner and talk. Just you and her. Make this work, instead of being caught up in the moment; thinking about she cheated on me because she didnt text/answer my calls back. -
charlie_danger wrote: »texasboi409 wrote: »so friday night was her birthday i was gonna come pick her up but she told me she had her friend with her
brandie stays with her boyfriend and one of his friends is in town so im thinking i need to be there so no ? cant try to pull some ? . well im calling her txting her and she is not answering at all
? doesn't sound right.
Sounds like she might be creeping.
oh hush! Not everyone is a cheater.
Texasboi, this is just people acting on emotions being ? .
Take her to dinner and talk. Just you and her. Make this work, instead of being caught up in the moment; thinking about she cheated on me because she didnt text/answer my calls back.
Lol this story hits close to home I can understand how he feels. You gonna automatically think of the worst scenario, girlfriend not answering her phone while being ? at her friends house. -
man i appreciate yall being mature right now i really do. yea kat i went to atl cause i needed to get away from texad cause i was going through alot at the time and unlike her i called and txt her the night of my bday and i didnt cheat
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charlie_danger wrote: »texasboi409 wrote: »so friday night was her birthday i was gonna come pick her up but she told me she had her friend with her
brandie stays with her boyfriend and one of his friends is in town so im thinking i need to be there so no ? cant try to pull some ? . well im calling her txting her and she is not answering at all
? doesn't sound right.
Sounds like she might be creeping.
oh hush! Not everyone is a cheater.
Texasboi, this is just people acting on emotions being ? .
Take her to dinner and talk. Just you and her. Make this work, instead of being caught up in the moment; thinking about she cheated on me because she didnt text/answer my calls back.
Lol this story hits close to home I can understand how he feels. You gonna automatically think of the worst scenario, girlfriend not answering her phone while being ? at her friends house.
Right. But that's where the trust comes into play. You must trust your partner enough to know that they wont cheat on you, if there was a chance of cheating happening.texasboi409 wrote: »man i appreciate yall being mature right now i really do. yea kat i went to atl cause i needed to get away from texad cause i was going through alot at the time and unlike her i called and txt her the night of my bday and i didnt cheat
Talk to her, texas boi. Instead of talking to us. She needs you and you need her. Bye!
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ayo... cancel that ? ... lol@she took my phone... so she was kidnapped?
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You're assuming she cheated just like she was probably worried that you cheated in ATL.
Stop assuming. -
i tried to talk tp her but the ? up thing in all this is how she making it seem like she did no wrong man imma be real ive smashed dudes girls before so i know some ? went down
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »You're assuming she cheated just like she was probably worried that you cheated in ATL.
Stop assuming.
It's just 2 + 2. You can't be blinded by love in a situation like that.
Not saying he shouldn't talk to her, but what good reason would justify that story - even if she didn't cheat ? -
texasboi409 wrote: »i tried to talk tp her but the ? up thing in all this is how she making it seem like she did no wrong man imma be real ive smashed dudes girls before so i know some ? went down
either you believe her or you dont.
If you dont then, you need to leave the relationship because you BOTH will never grow because you will always have the possibility of her cheating in the back of your mind.
Everyone is not the scary "cheater" boogie man.. Weird ? just happens sometimes. -
Yeah I won't lie, ? seems pretty suspicious.
Don't assume though. Maybe she just wanted a night out with the girls, maybe she was trying to spite you for not including her in your bday plans.
I'd let her soak in silence for a minute. -
yea she told me to stop texting and calling her she couldnt take it anymore so i guess imma move on but i never gave up on her but imma man the ? up and stay strong i just dont wanna be with anyone else that single life sucks its not fun anymore
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I guess "the grass is always greener" cuz that single life would be the ? right now !
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I guess "the grass is always greener" cuz that single life would be the ? right now !
for you maybe but a ? had plans im getting old -
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i put this on my facebook last night smh -
ey yo son. Your girl ? up. Ima give you the realest advice, not the most idealistic advice, not what sounds good, but ima be real as ? .
It was your girls bday, a day where she supposed to be celebrating with you, but instead, she puts priority in doing other things, like coming to the restaurant with a friend, and leaving with a plan and pursuing her own plans and not "y'all" plans.
Now she went with her friend, who lives with her bf, who has another dude over the house. Your girl knew who was there, and went there ? as ? , looking to ? . People gonna disagree but come on. Your girl is grown as ? . Why did she go to her friends house with other dudes over, ? , and didn't call and text. she a grown ass person and her friend took her phone and wouldn't give it back? yo that is a ? excuse, and with it, she is disrespecting your intelligence. A grown person takes another grown persons phone and doesn't give her phone back and your girl ain't get mad and tell her like "yo give me back my ? phone, I need to send my man the address" come on son. She played you, knowingly.
The ? up part of it all is that this ? was planned in advance. Instead of making plans with you, she comes and meets you at a restaurant, with a friend, and leaves with a friend who got dudes over. Sounds like she came to dinner just to get it out the way son. You probably payed for dinner to. haha. damn that's ? up.
find a new girl my dude. when grown people are in a relationship there has to be a level of respect and dos and donts. if she can't decide that going over her friends house when dudes are over on her bday is wrong, its best to end it.
Now, the reason she did what she did? 2 possibilities. either the relationship ain't fun and exciting to her anymore so she had to get excitement elsewhere on her bday, which means its time to end the relationship, keep its because of the atl vacation you took that people are talking about and she wanted revenge, and you don't wanna be with a girl like that neither.
@Charlie_danger is giving good advice but yo, realistically, on her bday, at her friends house there was two dudes, one was the friends bf, the other was a single dude, and they were two girls. it wasn't no party. 2 dudes, 2 girls, one of which is a grown person who gets her phone taken away by another grown person.
Its ? up how it went down son, but you gotta end it. dont be a sucker. -
Just from reading about the text you sent her, and the response she gave, leads me to believe the relationship was on its last leg. Some things are for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. This was a reason for you, as well as a season. You know how to conduct yourself in a relationship, and you also learned that you are ready for something more fulfilling.
With this knowledge, the one for you will now find YOU. Be easy and know, there are some hoes out here, and there are some ladies. Don't waste your time with distractions. She was good, and she served her purpose. Now it's time to move on. -
what would b weird is if u truly believe she couldn't get her phone from her friend...
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MY ? ...
NO ONE TAKES YOUR PHONE WHEN UR ? ... YA KEYS YEAH, BUT PHONE!, HELLLLLL NAW!.... AND THEN SHE COULDNT GET TO A PHONE UNTIL THE NEXT DAY..
COME ON MAN... I KNOW U LOVE HER BUT LETS BE REAL... U KNOW THAT ? TRIED HER AND DID SOMETHING... ATE HER, KISSED HER OR SOMETHING! -
@texasboi409
JUST GONE AND GET THAT ? /HEAD ONE LAST TIME AND BOUNCE BRUH.... -
texasboi409 wrote: »texasboi409 wrote: »i tried to talk tp her but the ? up thing in all this is how she making it seem like she did no wrong man imma be real ive smashed dudes girls before so i know some ? went down
that ? come back around full ? damn circle dont it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rGa_s9suNjM
