Co-habitating Couples: What's the Longest You've Gone Without Speaking to Your S/O?
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Ironically, one of those non-speaking moments has just begun.
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lmao @ the name change...feelings.
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I dont play that silent treatment ? at all. Folks that do need to grow up some more.
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I moved out after a month of co-habitating.
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Ironically, one of those non-speaking moments has just begun.
I might have to eat my words right now. I don't think that silent treatment ? is good but if I say something right now, it's probably gonna be no going back. So maybe there is a time for it.
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erm well when my boo and i lived together for one week silent treatment from me was in action for liikkeeee 2hours
then when i stayed with him for bout 4 days something that reeaallyyy upset him happendeded he gave me the silent treatmeant for like 20hrs
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »This is for the people that are living or have lived with a S/O.
How long have you held onto the silent treatment?
didnt read the whole thread...but is this about bingo? -
Moreno.Kitamura wrote: »erm well when my boo and i lived together for one week silent treatment from me was in action for liikkeeee 2hours
then when i stayed with him for bout 4 days something that reeaallyyy upset him happendeded he gave me the silent treatmeant for like 20hrs
smh.
I'll save you from the silent treatment. -
some childish ?
this is why I don't do the relationship thing no more
? is like a job with no pay
I volunteer enough at the Salvation Army as it is to be wasting my time playing head games
with a supposedly grown woman SMH -
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blakfyahking wrote: »some childish ?
this is why I don't do the relationship thing no more
? is like a job with no pay
I volunteer enough at the Salvation Army as it is to be wasting my time playing head games
with a supposedly grown woman SMH
Bruh better tellem. I can live by myself happy with peace and quiet and not talk to nobody. Without no bad vibes in the air. If people got children involved, thats a different situation and their business. -
why the feelings tho Kat
the truth is honestly............relationships are highly overrated
they are ok when they work
they are a nightmarish burden when they fail tho
it just doesn't make sense to take on the extra stress IMO............most people doing it today only do it out of a need for codependency -
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Being ? at a chick you "co-habitate" with makes it a little hard to bring another chick thru. -
I aint got time for all that...u either talking to me or im talking to someone else
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Sometimes, you have to show a person, that not only aint you fcking with them,
but that you are willing to not ? with anyone/thing that involves them. -
this thread is full of feelings...
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that's beyond wack norm
those kids have nothing to do with your ? , it's a shame you take it out on them.
so what was the point of marrying her for the kids if you're not even trying to make the best situation for the kids. and if you don't think you and her dynamic won't have a serious dire affect on your childrens' future relationships, you are sadly just deluding yourself. what you and her got going is not helping them, it's hurting them
Sorry to get back to this so late.
I came home from work around 9....
Plate was waiting for me. Steak and potatoes for dinner.
Clothes ironed. Dishes washed. After that, head. (she still gotta work on the finish tho)
Now she's out there framing my daughter's Citizenship, Reading and Perfect Attendance awards.
Im here posting in this thread.. refreshed and victorious.
The kids aint know we was going, it was supposed to be a surprise.
So they aint dissappointed.
But still, i'll walk away from all them if she dont act right.
That's called determination. I aint agree to all this to always be the one
making all the comprimises. She's had enough time.
If she dont act right, in about a year, your mannequin ass will be posting
them perky ass ? pics from my crib. -
Babyface and weezy told em don't get too comfortable for a reason
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Sheesh man I didn't see this thread. im not reading all that.
But the silent treatment isn't an option if I ask what's wrong I expect you to truthfully tell me how you feel. I don't do games. I have no real attachment to you (kids) so me begging or pleading isn't an option. If its serious enough for you to give the silent treatment over trivial things then I don't need you in my life. Simple as that
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Kai, people can change.
but wiht her you are correct. -
people have to want to change, and they have to show some initiative. i'm more sad for all this time you've wasted. all this time you could've been with someone you actually wanted to be with, instead of someone you felt you HAD to be with
people think they have all the time in the world...wasting it like its nothing -
Life is Good.
I'd do it again if the alternative is having there MAIN
influence be her bad decision making and sometimes bird-like logic.
This included possible mates as well.
But, hey, you are right, i cant really see it continuing like this for the next 13 years. -
Update -
We hashed it out yesterday and all is at peace again.
Thanks for all the legit advice
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »lol @ some of ya'll with the assumptions.
I would have handled this last night after the rugrat went to bed but he decided to compound the issue and go out with his boy last night.
So now we're into day 2 of this ? .
And it takes TWO to make a true silent treatment. I gave him a chance to speak up yesterday and he was quiet too so it wasn't just me.
he went to get some ?
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