What Do You Judge In A Person's Past?
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s_a_m_r_i_o
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Which mistakes, bad judgments or ? ups you will not accept from a person's past that they've told you or some stuff you found out that make you not want to be with them in a relationship?
For me it's if she's a well known hoe, had a child from previous relationship or former drug addict because to me, once you been one, you could always go back to it. I would also say jail but it depends on what she's done or if she was a teen, found out why she did what she did.
For me it's if she's a well known hoe, had a child from previous relationship or former drug addict because to me, once you been one, you could always go back to it. I would also say jail but it depends on what she's done or if she was a teen, found out why she did what she did.
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Lmao@ParallelRhymes. I have a few other ones but I'll see if dudes will post them. If you found out if your s/o you been with under a year ? a male friend or family member before she met you, you wouldn't care or feel uneasy about it?
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I evaluate her judgment calls cause you can't really expect to pass broad judgment without finding a fault in almost anyone
it's unrealistic to instantly dismiss a chick without considering her backstory
especially with it being so subjective in trying to classify her -
Some ? with a user name of putting ? on someone's lip is giving everyone "abuses".
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s_a_m_r_i_o wrote: »Some ? with a user name of putting ? on someone's lip is giving everyone "abuses".
It's a trap. -
ds you bastard
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1. I don't ask females how many dudes they ? . If I do, I'm prepared to hear the answer. I think it's unrealistic to expect them not to be ? .
That said, if the ? is wack because of it, or she got a disease - I ain't ? ' with it.
2. Kids. I could still ? a chick that has a kid but the ? still gotta be decent and the body gotta be intact. It'd be hard for her to progress beyond being a jumpoff though, unless she really got her head on straight.
3. Cracked out / mental-illness / schizophrenia - pass. -
Theives... I never trust them or wanna be around them
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Irresponsible
Untrustworthy
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I'm pretty forgiving when it comes to past. Especially if she was young and stupid. Or if there were extenuating circumstances. In general, a woman's past doesn't factor TOO MUCH into how I feel about her.
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If your past is keeping us from having a decent future, it's a problem.
I don't judge though, he's just not for me. -
lol@your middle aged ass talking about the future...
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Uhhhhh..wasn't aware you had to be a teenager to have a future.
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Anything that could affect me from it.
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Everything.
It is our place to hold the past against others as it defines who we are today and people never change.
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s_a_m_r_i_o wrote: »Some ? with a user name of putting ? on someone's lip is giving everyone "abuses".
cs i hate that ? -
This Mexican poodle is in heat
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tabatha didnt return my calls.
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Psychotic.
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Sanchez called the wrong number.
Oh.. my bad
pm your correct number i'll whisper sweet things through the phone -
Mental illness or multiple mental illnesses. I cant!
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if shes broke....Im looking for a suga mamma
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Skyler White wrote: »blakfyahking wrote: »I evaluate her judgment calls cause you can't really expect to pass broad judgment without finding a fault in almost anyone
it's unrealistic to instantly dismiss a chick without considering her backstory
especially with it being so subjective in trying to classify her
pretty much this
a person's decisions and responses to life situations is what i judge...it's pretty much a precursor to how they'll behave in the future.
maturity can only change SO much...you might grow out of being a hoe & wisen up but the way a person responds to certain situations will never change because it's a part of their personality.
Now you know better but I am looking for hoes so when she start talking that relationship ? I can forgive that -
I used to try not to judge a person by their past but I always pay attention to how they left their ex ie. Cheating or jumping right into the arms of another man and how they treat their fam.
People tend to ignore the negative qualities when they hit it off with someone but when ? hits the fan in a relationship they will almost always resort to those same behaviors. Its in their nature.
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