Cheating in your dreams? Talking in your sleep?

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Jungz
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If you and your s/o are sleeping in bed, and you wake up to them moaning a name you recognized (bro/sis/best-friend/etc.), how would you address the situation?

Some people believe that dreams are a revelation of your deepest desires.. so would this be grounds for a breakup?

Do you wake them up?

Let them dream it out and record the things they are saying and address them in the morning?

Do you even bring it up?

What would you do?

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  • Jungz
    Jungz Members Posts: 991 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    pralims wrote: »
    i have never had the chance to experience this....but i would speak to her about it in the morning.

    it's nothing to be mad at seriously. people have fantasies.

    but if the ? keep happening and its the same name....im socking her in her sleep

    People are allowed to have fantasies about people yall know personally? I cant get mad if my girl fantasizes about some famous actor or singer, but that ? aint bout to be having fantasies about my brother.. but i hear you.
  • Young Gunner
    Young Gunner Members Posts: 7,505 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I know enough not to do that around my girl. She will ask every question under the sun and I ain't trying to deal with that
  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
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    I talk in my sleep

    My man will never tell me what I say ... He just laughs at me
  • 2stepz_ahead
    2stepz_ahead Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 32,324 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Jungz wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    i have never had the chance to experience this....but i would speak to her about it in the morning.

    it's nothing to be mad at seriously. people have fantasies.

    but if the ? keep happening and its the same name....im socking her in her sleep

    People are allowed to have fantasies about people yall know personally? I cant get mad if my girl fantasizes about some famous actor or singer, but that ? aint bout to be having fantasies about my brother.. but i hear you.

    real ? ...you cant control what goes on in your dream.

    does an actor or whoever mean anything different than your family?

    it's not if your girl fanatsies..its if your family take her up on her fantasies.

    like i said....once for me is ok....because i dreamt of knocking off her thick phat ass aunt after seeing her ? lips once at the pool. she got out the pool and her bikini was over too much when she bent over to get her towel. i never thought about it until then....but lol

    like i was saying once is ok with me....its when it repeats thats when it becomes a problem.
  • Trollio
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  •   Colin$mackabi$h
    Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    MsSouthern wrote: »
    I talk in my sleep

    My man will never tell me what I say ... He just laughs at me

    it sounds like you be having conversations with your pillow at night.
  • OmegaConflict
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  • Focal Point
    Focal Point Members Posts: 16,307 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    In the past I've gotten into arguments for that ? . It's damn dream, ppl need to get over it
  • 2stepz_ahead
    2stepz_ahead Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 32,324 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ^^exactly...? be calling me controlling.

    you ? wanna control the ? dreams
  • mryounggun
    mryounggun Members Posts: 13,451 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Wouldn't really care. Likely don't mean ? .
  • 2stepz_ahead
    2stepz_ahead Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 32,324 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    butter covered butter.....lol
  • NostalgiaBAB
    NostalgiaBAB Members Posts: 23
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    I've done things in dreams that would get you locked up for life in most countries, if not executed on the spot. I usually don't think much of it.
  • Recaptimus_Prime360
    Recaptimus_Prime360 Members Posts: 64,801 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    My dreams consist of surviving a zombie apocalypse. No worries.
  • Rozetta5tone
    Rozetta5tone Members Posts: 4,506 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I talk in my sleep. Especially when I've been drinking. I've also thrown punches in my sleep. Had to deal with the repercussions.

    Never hada chick say anything out of pocket in her sleep tho. One of the benefits of knowing how to ? a ? down. I'm the only thing on her mind when she goes to sleep and when she wakes up.
  • LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
    LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY Members, Writer Posts: 17,670 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Jungz wrote: »
    If you and your s/o are sleeping in bed, and you wake up to them moaning a name you recognized (bro/sis/best-friend/etc.), how would you address the situation?

    Some people believe that dreams are a revelation of your deepest desires.. so would this be grounds for a breakup?

    Do you wake them up?

    Let them dream it out and record the things they are saying and address them in the morning?

    Do you even bring it up?

    What would you do?

    Let them dream bruh. Dream is the moment for those forbidden- by- society desires to come out and express themselves briefly.

    That situations just show how sometimes you can unconsciously ( instincts) feel like having sex with someone you dont have feelings for.
  • Recaptimus_Prime360
    Recaptimus_Prime360 Members Posts: 64,801 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    My ex called me ? off at me bcuz she dreamed about me cheating on her.
  • Will Munny
    Will Munny Members Posts: 30,199 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    MsSouthern wrote: »
    I talk in my sleep

    My man will never tell me what I say ... He just laughs at me

    "Sandwiches"
    "Butter covered butter on a stick"
    "Grease shots"
    "Deep fried pizza"

    ^^^^ pretty sure it's some if not all the above you fat ? .

    Well that escalated quickly.
  • CapitalB
    CapitalB Members Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    i sleep walk and talk..
    so im liable to say anything..
    these ? know..

    and when im sleep im sleep..
    i can give a ? what they on they side doin. lol
  • OmegaConflict
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    I ? khalessii at least once a week
  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
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    I said it on here before, any woman who thinks her man hasn't thought at least once about ? one of her attractive friends is lying to herself. A fantasy is just that, a reaction to seeing someone you find attractive. Don't mean you're in love or actually want them. Just means you think they look good.