Lets keep it 1-thiggity: Chicks with low self esteem are literally the best kind
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When did it become okay to hold a Female in higher regard than one's own self? Or anybody for that matter?
It sound like u got a so-called 50/50 relationship. Am I right??
But the reality is is that she wears the pants in the relationship. She probably walks all over you and gives u bits & pieces of what it's like to truly be King. She probably gives u just enuf confidence and ego stroking to make u feel like a Man becuz everybody knows that a Man's ego must be stroked atleast every once in a while to make him "feel like a Man" becuz it's important for a Man's psyche.
She might does love u, she flipped the script becuz she saw an insecure Man with maybe some esteem issues and went in for the ? . -
She did to you what you shoulda did to her. And now you're left playing catch up all of your life. Talkin about "I'm a real Man and this is what real Men do" with a broom in your hand with an apron on.
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? an insecure woman. SMH. Ain't interested. I got no interest in a woman who feels like I'm always on the hunt for something better or who is mad jealous or who ain't got nothing going on with her life besides me. Can't do it.
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an insecure man needs an insecure woman/ thread
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I'd rather a chick who doesn't need my validation to know her worth. But not in a social media ego inflated way.
Those ? are the worst kind. -
mryounggun wrote: »? an insecure woman. SMH. Ain't interested. I got no interest in a woman who feels like I'm always on the hunt for something better or who is mad jealous or who ain't got nothing going on with her life besides me. Can't do it.
Why is this the only definition of an Insecure Woman y'all can think of?
What if she's:
- fat
- lonely
- widowed
- ? eyed
- flat chested
- weird bodied
- had a whorish past or still is in a certain business
- has a slight speech impediment (like a lisp)
- bald
- had cancer
- had an abusive relationship
- used to be an addict or still is
- has two different baby fathers but isn't a Bop and has a good job/career/independent business
Live a little my man -
MoneyLuver wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? an insecure woman. SMH. Ain't interested. I got no interest in a woman who feels like I'm always on the hunt for something better or who is mad jealous or who ain't got nothing going on with her life besides me. Can't do it.
Why is this the only definition of an Insecure Woman y'all can think of?
What if she's:
- fat
- lonely
- widowed
- ? eyed
- flat chested
- weird bodied
- had a whorish past or still is in a certain business
- has a slight speech impediment (like a lisp)
- bald
- had cancer
- had an abusive relationship
- used to be an addict or still is
- has two different baby fathers but isn't a Bop and has a good job/career/independent business
Live a little my man
What are you even trying to say in this post, son? Serious question. What you mean? -
And why is this all about Insecurity? I said low self esteem.
Like what if she feels she's not beautiful -
Low self esteem comes from insecurity
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mryounggun wrote: »MoneyLuver wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? an insecure woman. SMH. Ain't interested. I got no interest in a woman who feels like I'm always on the hunt for something better or who is mad jealous or who ain't got nothing going on with her life besides me. Can't do it.
Why is this the only definition of an Insecure Woman y'all can think of?
What if she's:
- fat
- lonely
- widowed
- ? eyed
- flat chested
- weird bodied
- had a whorish past or still is in a certain business
- has a slight speech impediment (like a lisp)
- bald
- had cancer
- had an abusive relationship
- used to be an addict or still is
- has two different baby fathers but isn't a Bop and has a good job/career/independent business
Live a little my man
What are you even trying to say in this post, son? Serious question. What you mean?
In this Post I'm saying there's more ways a female can be insecure, not just jealousy.
In this thread I'm saying the reason why y'all having all of these issues with Females and generalize them all is becuz y'all lookin at it the wrong way and y'all not playin in the right league, even tho I'm not against courting after something u see that u like.
But if u want me to be the bad guy then I'll play the bad guy. I'm just having an honest conversation. -
Billy_Poncho wrote: »Low self esteem comes from insecurity
Usually Yes. But the result isn't always jealousy and hostility like some are trying to make it seem. Which says a lot about them personally.
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MoneyLuver wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »MoneyLuver wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? an insecure woman. SMH. Ain't interested. I got no interest in a woman who feels like I'm always on the hunt for something better or who is mad jealous or who ain't got nothing going on with her life besides me. Can't do it.
Why is this the only definition of an Insecure Woman y'all can think of?
What if she's:
- fat
- lonely
- widowed
- ? eyed
- flat chested
- weird bodied
- had a whorish past or still is in a certain business
- has a slight speech impediment (like a lisp)
- bald
- had cancer
- had an abusive relationship
- used to be an addict or still is
- has two different baby fathers but isn't a Bop and has a good job/career/independent business
Live a little my man
What are you even trying to say in this post, son? Serious question. What you mean?
In this Post I'm saying there's more ways a female can be insecure, not just jealousy.
In this thread I'm saying the reason why y'all having all of these issues with Females and generalize them all is becuz y'all lookin at it the wrong way and y'all not playin in the right league, even tho I'm not against courting after something u see that u like.
But if u want me to be the bad guy then I'll play the bad guy. I'm just having an honest conversation.
Lol. You must be referring to other ? . I don't want you to be the bad guy, son. *shrugs* I don't eem know what has gone on in most of the other pages in this thread. Lol. And I don't have issues with females. I know what I rock with and what I don't. I don't want no chick with low self-esteem. Why would I? I need a woman who does't feel like she's ugly or whatever. I don't want a chick to do off the wall crazy ? for me because she thinks I'll eave her if she doesn't cause she ain't a looker.
If you have a stable woman who knows what a relationship is all about, she'll cater to you anyway. -
Sage Wonder wrote: »I'd rather a chick who doesn't need my validation to know her worth. But not in a social media ego inflated way.
Those ? are the worst kind.
But why would u want that? Now she's off her leash, now she's free to do whatever she feels. That's actually a bad thing.
And if u don't actually have a relationship with Said Social Media Gurl then u actually don't know what you're talking about. You're just making assumptions or homegirl wasn't into you. -
MoneyLuver wrote: »Sage Wonder wrote: »I'd rather a chick who doesn't need my validation to know her worth. But not in a social media ego inflated way.
Those ? are the worst kind.
But why would u want that? Now she's off her leash, now she's free to do whatever she feels. That's actually a bad thing.
And if u don't actually have a relationship with Said Social Media Gurl then u actually don't know what you're talking about. You're just making assumptions or homegirl wasn't into you.
So it's bad to want a woman do does need constant validation from a man? I ain't one to put words in a ? mouth, so i want to be sure we on the same page and ? . I missed a lot of the thread and I ain't going back. Lol -
MoneyLuver wrote: »Sage Wonder wrote: »I'd rather a chick who doesn't need my validation to know her worth. But not in a social media ego inflated way.
Those ? are the worst kind.
But why would u want that? Now she's off her leash, now she's free to do whatever she feels. That's actually a bad thing.
And if u don't actually have a relationship with Said Social Media Gurl then u actually don't know what you're talking about. You're just making assumptions or homegirl wasn't into you.
I'm now convinced you're ? . And I don't insult ? people. Goodbye. -
I've had a few wack chicks like this. Thing is, they never showed it on the surface. They talked mad ? , though. Over compensating and ? . Everything I did or said sounded uppity or hurt they feelings some how. And I was always cheating or flirting with other women according to them.
? was frustrating. -
Again. The result of said female isn't always aggression/hostility, jealousy, or drama.
Who was actually mature enough themselves to deal with Said Female at the time(s)?
Becuz I promise you that those kinds of situations don't really happen once u yourself have Man'd Up a little more and or deal with WOMEN past the HS & Freshman College Years. It's a totally different ball game. Their age as well as your age has a lot to do with that.
A Woman can be very insecure when her age starts to show and the miles on her box frame chevy & ? hole start to rack up. And are Women truly not majestic as they age? They become what they should've been their whole life - and that's humbler (although not in all cases).
Get some ? and figure it out. Stop trying to wife everything that passes u by. -
I like when a chick shy and not so outgoing that make her seem so much more down to earth.........
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a lot of weirdo ? in this thread.
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? jesus, these threads, and muthafuckas really discussing ? , WHAT IS THIS THREAD ABOUT!!!!
yo someone answer him -
? him. He being a wild ? . He probably a crash ? foreal foreal. -
I'm convinced t/s is lightskinned.
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^ that or legitimate ?
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Dark skinned ? are the ones who need to pray on weak hoes
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Insecure and 'low self esteem' does not = jealous and always think u gon leave. Maybe he wordin it wrong
What he's talkin about is that chick that everybody thinks is bad but really...she hates her stomach. Or she has problems expressing herself. In which case an articulate guy is her weakness (true story).
And a simp or ngga who puts the ? on a pedestal (a lot of the IC) would never even know. Not confident enough to be picky. Beggars cant be chosers.
On the flip side u got a woman with no self esteem issues whatsoever but she built like a refrigerator. And she sees nothing wrong with it. And yall gas em.
I'll take the former.
