So the baby daddy decided to pop up..
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I'm sure the dude is at fault, along with you.
I'm trying to read your thread Kat. I'm trying, but I'm giving myself "feelings" on here
because I cant believe the cheerleading of bird logic going on in here.
Its his kid. And yours. He wants to see the kid? let him see her.
No one knows her, you or him.
But what we know is this:
You have a record
You have a questionable sexual history
You still, as a mom in her early mid thirties smoke all the damn time (grow up)
You have a "non traditional" relationship with a man who "isn't a saint" with a record,
and has kids that aint with him right now.
You claim to not actually want marriage
You got semi nudes all over the net
And with all this, you think that if he aint been around for the whole ? ,
its all his fault, and, he's not playing the part? Can't you take some of the blame
for not being an ideal mate 7 years ago when you was wilder than you are now?
Now, with that, A ? cant get a 5 dollar footlong with his seed?
? !
Too many women take their own feelings about the status of a man into account to see his kids.
Men never do this without drug addiction/jail in the mother.
Yall take this ? too far. And all these ? talkin bout this ? just wants some ? .
Come on fam. Aint no ? good enough to ? after it after 7 years, still facing the
skepticism of trying to see your daughter that you aint seen in 2 years. A ? might as well
hit up craigslist. Less drama.
? this even being a question. IF that ? aint wanted by the police, and wants to see his daughter,
there should not be any stipulations on it unless he now shows himself to not be trusted.
Also, he doesn't have to pass your test about what a dad is, because you aint required to take no test
for what a mom is. Biology gave you that.
DAMN!! That's one hell of a resume..what a waste of white skin
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Sheesh big norm jus took the biggest ? upon yo soul Danno lol oohwee mayne
But you ? lost for actually entertaining this hypothetical ?
This is a prime example why Danny control you ?
But dat ? only worth five dollas tho? out of all the places in the area subway sounds right?
Next time add some unicorns
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Also, he doesn't have to pass your test about what a dad is, because you aint required to take no test
for what a mom is. Biology gave you that.
But biological didn't bother -
you made it about "you" yet again... instead of your daughter
But that ? ? dena ?
Im out
Take care my friend -
Some of y'all live in a fantasy world
This man has not made any real attempt to see his child or be a part of her life
He does nothing to raise or support her yet y'all wanna write mini novels on how @Kat has all these flaws and should just allow him to jump in her daughters life cause he wanted to meet at Subway today
@bignorm please explain why he should be trusted. Would you hand your kids over to just anyone ???
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Good luck to you and ? bless that brother for wanting to being in his daughter life. -
MsSouthern wrote: »Some of y'all live in a fantasy world
This man has not made any real attempt to see his child or be a part of her life
He does nothing to raise or support her yet y'all wanna write mini novels on how @Kat has all these flaws and should just allow him to jump in her daughters life cause he wanted to meet at Subway today
@bignorm please explain why he should be trusted. Would you hand your kids over to just anyone ???
He's attempting right now, isn't he ? -
Yeah you gotta be careful and make sure baby daddy don't be showing up like BoyBest
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when i pop up for a ? ? be in they feelings and play this on repeat after im done. hoes in they feelings.
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Iceberg Slick wrote: »when i pop up for a ? ? be in they feelings and play this on repeat after im done. hoes in they feelings.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEm3lY3trRU
Lol..wtf?
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@Kat
Just going by what you quoted Kathryn.
Since you posted that text up, you might as well post all of them up so that we can get a better understanding of the situation. -
MsSouthern wrote: »Some of y'all live in a fantasy world
This man has not made any real attempt to see his child or be a part of her life
He does nothing to raise or support her yet y'all wanna write mini novels on how @Kat has all these flaws and should just allow him to jump in her daughters life cause he wanted to meet at Subway today
@bignorm please explain why he should be trusted. Would you hand your kids over to just anyone ???
He's attempting right now, isn't he ?MsSouthern wrote: »Some of y'all live in a fantasy world
This man has not made any real attempt to see his child or be a part of her life
He does nothing to raise or support her yet y'all wanna write mini novels on how @Kat has all these flaws and should just allow him to jump in her daughters life cause he wanted to meet at Subway today
@bignorm please explain why he should be trusted. Would you hand your kids over to just anyone ???
He's attempting right now, isn't he ?
I never said he shouldn't see her
But to fault the woman that has raised his child is stupid
She doesn't have him on child support and he still hasn't done ? . Not even $20 in over 6 years. What a loser ....
He does need to prove himself. It's not healthy for her daughter to see her "dad" pop in and out of her life.
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damn the ether is strong hereI'm sure the dude is at fault, along with you.
I'm trying to read your thread Kat. I'm trying, but I'm giving myself "feelings" on here
because I cant believe the cheerleading of bird logic going on in here.
Its his kid. And yours. He wants to see the kid? let him see her.
No one knows her, you or him.
But what we know is this:
You have a record
You have a questionable sexual history
You still, as a mom in her early mid thirties smoke all the damn time (grow up)
You have a "non traditional" relationship with a man who "isn't a saint" with a record,
and has kids that aint with him right now.
You claim to not actually want marriage
You got semi nudes all over the net
And with all this, you think that if he aint been around for the whole ? ,
its all his fault, and, he's not playing the part? Can't you take some of the blame
for not being an ideal mate 7 years ago when you was wilder than you are now?
Now, with that, A ? cant get a 5 dollar footlong with his seed?
? !
Too many women take their own feelings about the status of a man into account to see his kids.
Men never do this without drug addiction/jail in the mother.
Yall take this ? too far. And all these ? talkin bout this ? just wants some ? .
Come on fam. Aint no ? good enough to ? after it after 7 years, still facing the
skepticism of trying to see your daughter that you aint seen in 2 years. A ? might as well
hit up craigslist. Less drama.
? this even being a question. IF that ? aint wanted by the police, and wants to see his daughter,
there should not be any stipulations on it unless he now shows himself to not be trusted.
Also, he doesn't have to pass your test about what a dad is, because you aint required to take no test
for what a mom is. Biology gave you that.
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It's inaccurate and one sided, so no not really.
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MsSouthern wrote: »MsSouthern wrote: »Some of y'all live in a fantasy world
This man has not made any real attempt to see his child or be a part of her life
He does nothing to raise or support her yet y'all wanna write mini novels on how @Kat has all these flaws and should just allow him to jump in her daughters life cause he wanted to meet at Subway today
@bignorm please explain why he should be trusted. Would you hand your kids over to just anyone ???
He's attempting right now, isn't he ?
I never said he shouldn't see her
But to fault the woman that has raised his child is stupid
She doesn't have him on child support and he still hasn't done ? . Not even $20 in over 6 years. What a loser ....
He does need to prove himself. It's not healthy for her daughter to see her "dad" pop in and out of her life.
I don't think it's faulting her so much as putting her flaws out there, as she did his, since she's using that as a basis for not letting her see him.
Nobody knows if he's gonna be "in and out" of her life, only time will tell. And, if that's what he does, that should play out for itself so her daughter can form her own opinion. -
MsSouthern wrote: »MsSouthern wrote: »Some of y'all live in a fantasy world
This man has not made any real attempt to see his child or be a part of her life
He does nothing to raise or support her yet y'all wanna write mini novels on how @Kat has all these flaws and should just allow him to jump in her daughters life cause he wanted to meet at Subway today
@bignorm please explain why he should be trusted. Would you hand your kids over to just anyone ???
He's attempting right now, isn't he ?
I never said he shouldn't see her
But to fault the woman that has raised his child is stupid
She doesn't have him on child support and he still hasn't done ? . Not even $20 in over 6 years. What a loser ....
He does need to prove himself. It's not healthy for her daughter to see her "dad" pop in and out of her life.
I don't think it's faulting her so much as putting her flaws out there, as she did his, since she's using that as a basis for not letting her see him.
Nobody knows if he's gonna be "in and out" of her life, only time will tell. And, if that's what he does, that should play out for itself so her daughter can form her own opinion.
so we just gonna ignore the 6 years of absence? -
How he knows you take the bus
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This doesn't support your theory of him just wanting to smash. Just saying. -
Five beat me to it
He has been absent for 1/3 of her childhood
You can't just a dismiss that.
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dalyricalbandit wrote: »How he knows you take the bus
Cause I told him yesterday when he text me initially.
Plus I took the bus back then too. I worked downtown when we were dating.
@7 I said I didn't know what he wants..it was the males that brought up the ? angle. I just told it like it happened. -
You should change your name to Capers Southerland...
Da cape is real with Ms. Southern -
ThirdEyeFive wrote: »MsSouthern wrote: »MsSouthern wrote: »Some of y'all live in a fantasy world
This man has not made any real attempt to see his child or be a part of her life
He does nothing to raise or support her yet y'all wanna write mini novels on how @Kat has all these flaws and should just allow him to jump in her daughters life cause he wanted to meet at Subway today
@bignorm please explain why he should be trusted. Would you hand your kids over to just anyone ???
He's attempting right now, isn't he ?
I never said he shouldn't see her
But to fault the woman that has raised his child is stupid
She doesn't have him on child support and he still hasn't done ? . Not even $20 in over 6 years. What a loser ....
He does need to prove himself. It's not healthy for her daughter to see her "dad" pop in and out of her life.
I don't think it's faulting her so much as putting her flaws out there, as she did his, since she's using that as a basis for not letting her see him.
Nobody knows if he's gonna be "in and out" of her life, only time will tell. And, if that's what he does, that should play out for itself so her daughter can form her own opinion.
so we just gonna ignore the 6 years of absence?
The thing is we're only hearing 1 side of the story (and I doubt it's the whole story).
Let some of these chicks tell it, they were ready and willing to let the man see their child but it's not necessarily true.
I might be biased but I tend to look at it from the other point of view. Her father might end up being a great father for the rest of her life.
How ? up would it be to prevent all that because of whatever might've happened before ?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiOcVWQY2bc
