A question about Jumpoffs
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This came up a couple of weeks ago with some friends, let me know what you think GnS.
...does having a jumpoff just show that your S/O ain't doig something right/ain't right for you? Or you just ain't that serious about them?
Because in that case why go through the hassle?
...does having a jumpoff just show that your S/O ain't doig something right/ain't right for you? Or you just ain't that serious about them?
Because in that case why go through the hassle?
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You wouldn't invest all your money into one stock would you? Can you imagine, 1 ? for the rest of your life
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its not worth it unless you are ready to give up on something you have already invested a lot of time and effort in already.
cause you will always catch feelings -
i see no problem with a dude having a jumpoff....the problem is when it becomes a relationship.
but
some guys are greedy and want all the ? they can get
some guys are insecure and want to prove they still got it and never lost it
some guys are filling a void they mate cant fill
some guys are filling a void from they own internal struggles
some guys are not in control of they own vice and love different ?
and some guys just like having @kat around. shes can be fun but aint cute -
i see no problem with a dude having a jumpoff....the problem is when it becomes a relationship.
but
some guys are greedy and want all the ? they can get
some guys are insecure and want to prove they still got it and never lost it
some guys are filling a void they mate cant fill
some guys are filling a void from they own internal struggles
some guys are not in control of they own vice and love different ?
and some guys just like having @kat around. shes can be fun but aint cute
That's why me and your wife lasted so long, that ? play her role -
i see no problem with a dude having a jumpoff....the problem is when it becomes a relationship.
but
some guys are greedy and want all the ? they can get
some guys are insecure and want to prove they still got it and never lost it
some guys are filling a void they mate cant fill
some guys are filling a void from they own internal struggles
some guys are not in control of they own vice and love different ?
and some guys just like having @kat around. shes can be fun but aint cute
That's why me and your wife lasted so long, that ? play her role
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King Ghidorah wrote: »You wouldn't invest all your money into one stock would you? Can you imagine, 1 ? for the rest of your life
? ain't everything homie. Bredth <<<<<<< Depth.numbaz...80's baby wrote: »Nobody is perfect, including your wife/main/fiancee. Faithful men look past that and never cheat. On the other hand, ppl have jumpoffs to fill that void.
Or a ? just wants some different ? that day.
Absolutely, case by case basis. -
Men are only as faithful as their options
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Depends on what type of relationship you in
if it ain't serious, then yea get a jump off, smash that ? like no tommorow
but if its more serious than there will be no reason in thinking a jump off
there is something lacking if you are considering that
for example I know a ? that is married, (too young, I might add)
and his wife is restricting access to the ? from him, unjustly
so he goes and smashes a ? or get his ? sucked from time to time
is he wrong for that?
I dont judge cause I dont get paid to judge
but it shows that there is something lacking in the relationship
or as someone one else posted unless u just wanted something new that day
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If I'm married then why would I get a jump off. If I'm in a relationship period then I won't go that route
it's easier to be single or tell your chick straight up what the business is.
Imma grown man & all that hiding phones & deleting messages is bogus life -
For men, it could mean ANYTHING:
-Ya girl ain't doing what she needs to do
-Ya ain't serious about ya girl
-Ya just want some other ?
-etc, etc, etc
For women, it usually only means 1 of 2 things:
-Her man ain't doing what he's supposed to be doing
-She's not serious about her man
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Sometimes, I just really think that people should be openly poly. Then you could have all the thots you want without sneaking around behind your partner's back.
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Sometimes, I just really think that people should be openly poly. Then you could have all the thots you want without sneaking around behind your partner's back.
Well all know that's not true in reality. But yea, ideally the people who wanted to ? other people would just be open and honest. -
mryounggun wrote: »Sometimes, I just really think that people should be openly poly. Then you could have all the thots you want without sneaking around behind your partner's back.
Well all know that's not true in reality. But yea, ideally the people who wanted to ? other people would just be open and honest.
I know people who are openly poly.
It works out better in the long run, TBH. -
mryounggun wrote: »Sometimes, I just really think that people should be openly poly. Then you could have all the thots you want without sneaking around behind your partner's back.
Well all know that's not true in reality. But yea, ideally the people who wanted to ? other people would just be open and honest.
I know people who are openly poly.
It works out better in the long run, TBH.
Right. But look at it like this. Right now monogamy is the norm and being open poly is thaw underground ? . If being openly poly was the norm, the same sort of issues would arise then that arise now. For example, you'd have a chick who REALLY likes a dude, but the dude ain't into the poly ? , regardless of if it is the norm or not. So she'll lie to that dude and tell him he's the only one, when the rest of her dudes know what time it is.
The end result is the same.
There will ALWAYS be people who are not into poly, regardless of how popular it becomes. There will ALWAYS be people willing to lie to that person in order to get with them. And they'll ALWAYS ? other people on the side. -
monogamy isnt natural..
for a ? to think otherwise is some ? ? .. -
BOSSExcellence wrote: »monogamy isnt natural..
for a ? to think otherwise is some ? ? ..
Agreed. But for the sake of conversation...what does that mean, really? A lot of ? that we've deemed socially acceptable and abide by culturally isn't natural. We don't really question those things for some reason. What is it about monogamy that makes us use the 'it's not natural' defense? -
mryounggun wrote: »BOSSExcellence wrote: »monogamy isnt natural..
for a ? to think otherwise is some ? ? ..
Agreed. But for the sake of conversation...what does that mean, really? A lot of ? that we've deemed socially acceptable and abide by culturally isn't natural. We don't really question those things for some reason. What is it about monogamy that makes us use the 'it's not natural' defense?
i actually question EVERYTHING.. and when social constructs are set up one has to think to who's benefit and at who's expense..
thats why i find it hard to respect an argument based on "what society deems"..
if it aint natural it aint natural..
and jus cause its law dont make it right..
im not about to sit here and argue science.. if u choose to struggle on the daily wit who u naturally are and what society wants u to be ? thats on u.. -
mryounggun wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »Sometimes, I just really think that people should be openly poly. Then you could have all the thots you want without sneaking around behind your partner's back.
Well all know that's not true in reality. But yea, ideally the people who wanted to ? other people would just be open and honest.
I know people who are openly poly.
It works out better in the long run, TBH.
Right. But look at it like this. Right now monogamy is the norm and being open poly is thaw underground ? . If being openly poly was the norm, the same sort of issues would arise then that arise now. For example, you'd have a chick who REALLY likes a dude, but the dude ain't into the poly ? , regardless of if it is the norm or not. So she'll lie to that dude and tell him he's the only one, when the rest of her dudes know what time it is.
The end result is the same.
There will ALWAYS be people who are not into poly, regardless of how popular it becomes. There will ALWAYS be people willing to lie to that person in order to get with them. And they'll ALWAYS ? other people on the side.
I think being poly might explore all of these issues with a better resolution. -
i see no problem with a dude having a jumpoff....the problem is when it becomes a relationship.
but
some guys are greedy and want all the ? they can get
some guys are insecure and want to prove they still got it and never lost it
some guys are filling a void they mate cant fill
some guys are filling a void from they own internal struggles
some guys are not in control of they own vice and love different ?
and some guys just like having @kat around. shes can be fun but aint cute
Pretty sure you spelled mom wrong buddy.
@pralims -
Monogamy isn't natural, STDs are natural. Condoms aren't natural. Put it all together...
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BOSSExcellence wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »BOSSExcellence wrote: »monogamy isnt natural..
for a ? to think otherwise is some ? ? ..
Agreed. But for the sake of conversation...what does that mean, really? A lot of ? that we've deemed socially acceptable and abide by culturally isn't natural. We don't really question those things for some reason. What is it about monogamy that makes us use the 'it's not natural' defense?
i actually question EVERYTHING.. and when social constructs are set up one has to think to who's benefit and at who's expense..
thats why i find it hard to respect an argument based on "what society deems"..
if it aint natural it aint natural..
and jus cause its law dont make it right..
im not about to sit here and argue science.. if u choose to struggle on the daily wit who u naturally are and what society wants u to be ? thats on u..
Interesting. -
Monogamy isn't natural, STDs are natural. Condoms aren't natural. Put it all together...
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I'll never cheat because I wouldn't want to be cheated on. It's called being faithful, so having a jumpoff isn't worth it.
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YouthGorilla wrote: »I'll never cheat because I wouldn't want to be cheated on. It's called being faithful, so having a jumpoff isn't worth it.
its not natural for a woman to cheat.. its natural for her to leave yo ass..
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Men are only as faithful as their options
I wish dudes would stop saying this....
And call it what it really is....
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