Happily Married Men Can Cheat, Can Women Do The Same?
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I have a buddy who is married, and he cheats freely and constantly... but he loves his wife still. He treats her well, he takes her out, he buys her gifts, he adores her... but he loves getting laid and getting new women just as much. I know I'm gonna hear comments like "then he doesnt love her" "that's not love" yadi yadi yada BUT speaking for myself, though Im not married... I've had happy relationships with great girls and I've cheated as well... just because of my need for something new, ? you can call it... obviously, this is something no men can and should NOT ever try to explain to their girls or wives, but it holds true regardless.
Now also Im gonna get ? for saying this... but you know how you buy nice clothes and shoes and you are completely satisfied with it, but you want MORE just to satisfy your need, your collection needs, your greed for having it all, but more importantly, your need for variety. Same goes for cars, you may love your BMW GT, but if you see that new Audi, you would want that too if you can afford it in this case.
Ready to get ? on, go on. But am I making any sense here? Im speaking logically... but understand I KNOW this is not something I would ever pitch to any women in real life... that's why Im posting this on websites... so go on.
Now also Im gonna get ? for saying this... but you know how you buy nice clothes and shoes and you are completely satisfied with it, but you want MORE just to satisfy your need, your collection needs, your greed for having it all, but more importantly, your need for variety. Same goes for cars, you may love your BMW GT, but if you see that new Audi, you would want that too if you can afford it in this case.
Ready to get ? on, go on. But am I making any sense here? Im speaking logically... but understand I KNOW this is not something I would ever pitch to any women in real life... that's why Im posting this on websites... so go on.
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smh...never getting married.
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^lol.
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anybody can/will cheat
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Marriage is so bad now a days, people are treating marriage like it's some boyfriend girlfriend ? not thinking it should be for life. Marriage isn't for everyone, it's a shame people just don't realize that till they get divorce for the 3rd time with like 5 kids with 3 different people SMH.
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Dont agree with cheatin while married, specially if u doing that ? on the reggie...
If u slip up once or twice, ok, fix that ? and get right.. -
why whole thing is...its in the vows...if u cant live them vowels FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES....dnt take them, PERIOD
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Cheating is for the weak..
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Mr.Audigier216 wrote: »why whole thing is...its in the vowels...if u cant live them vowels FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES....dnt take them, PERIOD
Exactly what I said, marriage anit for everyone, people need to stop walking down that path they can't expect or finish. -
get that out your system before you commit.
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Exactly what I said, marriage anit for everyone, people need to stop walking down that path they can't expect or finish.
the reason I plan on gettin married is simple, my parents...i want my future kids to grow up in a HOME, with BOTH biological parents, i cant see another man raising my son on a day to day basis, my kids alone would be enough to stick it out IMO -
its ? like this man...how could ts do this to his wife? karma is a ? man...control yourself...you want to sleep all day and not work dont you? but you obviously understand theres a responsibility in getting a job and working to provide for yourself and family...so self control in that aspect comes to play....how come when it comes to your wife you cant do the same?....just for the damn love you got for her...? if anything...dont go ? other hoes on the side...you only cheating on YOURSELF..no one else
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makaveli03 wrote: »its ? like this man...how could ts do this to his wife? karma is a ? man...control yourself...you want to sleep all day and not work dont you? but you obviously understand theres a responsibility in getting a job and working to provide for yourself and family...so self control in that aspect comes to play....how come when it comes to your wife you cant do the same?....just for the damn love you got for her...? if anything...dont go ? other hoes on the side...you only cheating on YOURSELF..no one else
i agree but he was talkin bout a friend
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PORN IS FREE AND ABUNDANT ? ....use it and keep ya family intact -
Why do people think they are entitled to variety no matter the circumstance?
Marriage mens the variety is over, dude. Over. -
Mr.Audigier216 wrote: »the reason I plan on gettin married is simple, my parents...i want my future kids to grow up in a HOME, with BOTH biological parents, i cant see another man raising my son on a day to day basis, my kids alone would be enough to stick it out IMO
That's real talk son, I feel the same way in this day and age talking like that is old school in people's eyes but I still believe in the traditional marriage and how a family should be. Having some other ? raising my kid is a lost no matter how you look @ it. -
That's real talk son, I feel the same way in this day and age talking like that is old school in people's eyes but I still believe in the traditional marriage and how a family should be. Having some other ? raising my kid is a lost no matter how you look @ it.
man i come from old school, (mom 61, pops 72, been married for 40 yrs)...it dont matter what that other man try n do, that lil man gon still gon come out as YOU, me personally im tryin to see that ? , i wanna be the one to talk to my ? bout sex, teach him to drive, hear his 1st word, ? that other ? , aint no piece of ? in this world good enough to miss them memories, NONE -
Mr.Audigier216 wrote: »man i come from old school, (mom 61, pops 72, been married for 40 yrs)...it dont matter what that other man try n do, that lil man gon still gon come out as YOU, me personally im tryin to see that ? , i wanna be the one to talk to my ? bout sex, teach him to drive, hear his 1st word, ? that other ? , aint no piece of ? in this world good enough to miss them memories, NONE
C/s once again son, real talk you speaking, too bad people now a days don't feel the same way. -
its called selfishness....
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Women cheat for emotional reasons. It's MUCH easier for men to cheat strictly for physical reasons.
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lol @ vowels.
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Mr.Audigier216 wrote: »why whole thing is...its in the vowels...if u cant live them vowels FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES....dnt take them, PERIOD
Vows?
Anyway, one can't help but ask, "Is he truly happily married if he's cheating?" -
blue virgo wrote: »Vows?
Anyway, one can't help but ask, "Is he truly happily married if he's cheating?"
hey i was tipsy n made a mistake lol......
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No women cheat for the same reason men do. Selfish deceitful ? . All that "emotional" stuff is excuses.Iheart~Cali wrote: »Women cheat for emotional reasons. It's MUCH easier for men to cheat strictly for physical reasons.
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And yes you can be happy with someone and cheat. Just like you can be happy with your BMW and still want a Benz.
